pagkamahiyain ng bata paano gamutin?

[mhelskie]

try to observe kung ano ung nakaka interes sa kanya bukod sa paga aral, like kung may sports ba syang nakakahiligan or what, then try to build on that interest, ienroll sa mga ibang activities, etc

yup, talking to a kid like an adult builts his/her self confidence, lalo na't nabanggit nyo na bright nman sya :D

[XTO]

palagay ko puro pc games siya eh kanino pa gagaya eh di sa daddy niya na lagi sa naman sa tsikot :hysterical:

seriously pare, give additional time lang (laro kayo na me kasamang interaction) or better ask mo kung gusto na niya ng kapatid tiyak makikita mo tuwa sa mukha niya....sure yun syur

yung panganay ko 10 y/o ganyan din ni ayaw na nga a-attend ng children's party sa sobrang kahiyaan. yung 2nd and 3rd magkasundong magkasundo sa kaharutan at kaalembongan. sayaw dito kanta dun kahit may lamang pagkain ang bibig.

[Syuryuken]

palagay ko puro pc games siya eh kanino pa gagaya eh di sa daddy niya na lagi sa naman sa tsikot :hysterical:

every friday at saturday lang siyang maglaro.

seriously pare, give additional time lang (laro kayo na me kasamang interaction) or better ask mo kung gusto na niya ng kapatid tiyak makikita mo tuwa sa mukha niya....sure yun syur

sa gabi lang kami nakakapaglaro pagkatapos na ng trabaho, whole day mama niyang kasama niya, silang namamasyal. nagpapabili na nga ng kapatid eh para may kalaro daw siya

[fourtheboys96]

tama yung expose mo siya sa ibang bata to learn how to socialize. iba pa din pag kapwa bata ang kasama niya as compared to adults like parents etc. iba naman kasi syempre mag isip ang matanda kesa sa bata kahit anung pilit natin makipaglaro sa kanila.

kung meron siya cousins, pwede sila maglarao during weekends etc.

related to this, kaya gusto ko at least 2 kids (kahit mahirap ang buhay) para kahit sa loob na bahay may ka inter act ang anak ko na kid din. laro laro sila at ndi lang yung yaya ang kausap.

[CVT]

syur, wala man lang namanang kaunting kakapalan saiyo? :hysterical:

I think exposed mo sa mga tao, bka since only chind masyado kayong protective and I think isama niyo sa mga usapan niyong magasawa, I mean pa decide niyo siya ng sarili i.e. meron bibilhin sa grocery na ice cream siya ang papiliin niyo etc...and most importantly talk to her/him like an adult...

OT:

Bro., unless you know syur personally, you can never tell....

I haven't met him, but have seen his entries here. However, I am reserving my opinion of our virtual buddy....

This is our virtual-self.... We are all good-looking, rich and flamboyant.... Our "other life"? No one can be certain....

4505:vader:

[jundogg]

exposure is the key. ihalubilo mo sa kids palagi para masanay makipag interact. sa umpisa mahihiya pa pero magaadjust rin in time.

psychological approach: never say na "oo mahiyain yan" to her as well to other people. mababakas lalo sa kanya na mahiyain sya if she keeps on hearing that,lalo na pag mismong parents ang nagsasabi.

when shopping or sa supermarket, let her get the things you'll buy like making her ask sa crew kung saang section yung ganitung bagay. tapos sa kanya mo ipaabot ang bayad sa cashier. doing those little things, mababawasan pagiging mahiyain nya. at madedevelop communication skills to other people young or old.

give positive and encouraging remarks para mamotivate maki-mingle with other kids/people.

[Lucius]

Hahaha ako bro only child. Pero since 4yrs old ako, pinapatawag parents ko sa school. Hanggang 4th year HS yan. Nung nag college na, hindi na. Gawin mo sabihin mo labas ka naman and play with other kids. Ganun ginawa dati sakin, pinapayagan akong lumabas kahit wala ng bantay, kaso ang nangyari puro disaster.

Like tatabunan ko ng lupa yung ulo ng neighbor ko hehehehehe or makikipagaway. Be thankful hindi masyadong hyper ang anak mo. Although ok din ang hyper in a sense na sya lagi ang mapapansin and tataas ang confidence nya since everybody listens when he talks.

Safest mong magagawa is to bring him sa mga workshops, he can make good friends there. Baka dun pa sya matuto manchics since most of the pretty moms dun dinadala mga daughters nila so bonus pa yun sayo maka-spot ng hot moms.

[Galant_VR_94]

Try mo indulge your child in activities wherein he/she will be able to interact with peers. Usually mga workshops are a good idea. Take time to find out your child's interests, and then go from there.

My daughter was like that before. I know she was interested with arts and craft so i brought her to a summer art class near UP. She was able to find her niche in that place. Sa school kasi d masyado artsy ang mga classmates niya. She was able to fully express herself during this time and got to make a lot of new friends.

[froshie1]

5 yrs. old ng anak ko pero may pagkamahiyain paano ko kaya mababago yun o kelangan niya ng workshops para mabago ugali niya? Sa school ala namang problema siya ngang 1st sa K2 (pang umaga at pang hapon) . Kung maaalis lang yun pagkamahiyain niya malamang mas mag-improve pa siya.

while eating at a fast food chain, you can ask him to get tissue at the counter and assure him that everything will be ok. repeat X times matututo din yan.

[CVT]

while eating at a fast food chain, you can ask him to get tissue at the counter and assure him that everything will be ok. repeat X times matututo din yan.

We used to do this, or let our child ask for condiments and it works....

4505:vader: