ninong sa kasal? parang nakakaasar 'yan at this age eh kukunin tayo ganyan klase ng ninong. and to add mahina 5k dyan.
most couple who know why they are "getting" a ninong/ninang sa kasal will not approach a single person, people younger than they are, or not easily accessible. kasi they should be look up to as "next set of parents/advisors" ... hindi dapat pang-start up ng savings account :cool:
Sometimes practical yung relatives ang ninongs / ninangs. Kasi close and family ties nating mga Filipino. Pag officemates or sometimes friends ang kinuha mo at nag iba ka na nang office or residence, hindi na makikilala ng bata yung mga godparents niya.
Pag relatives,most likely may contact from childhood upto lumaki yung bata.
Masarap din sa bata yung may kinikilala or tinatawag na ninong o ninang.
Ako, I usually decline. I just say it usually like this: "salamat pare pero I have to decline." Masama daw pero in reality, I can't afford to have more "inaanaks" eh! Unless they are kids of my really close buddies. Now that's a different story.
tumatanggi ako lalo na kung bago ko lang kakilala or medyo malayo nang kamag-anak ang kumukuha at ramdam na ramdam ko ang purpose kung bakit ako kinukuha...let's face it minsan ang purpose talaga ng iba e yung alam nyo na..malalapitan ka nila incase na mangailangan sila or yung alam nilang may maibibigay ka...yung true essense ng pagiging ninong at ninang nawawala...tho ibang usapan kung kapatid ko na...kasi ke ninang ako or hindi, may papel ako talaga sa buhay nila..so might as well take it kesa sumama loob ng kapatid ko.