pag shotgun bilhin mo pare e get the "tactical load" ammunition. "tactical load" is actually less powerful than standard load, pero for sure di matatakot gamitin ng female members ng family mo. especially when all of you get training in using it. another thing, a standard load when fired inside the house can make you temporarily deaf, thus you will be stunned. pag "tactical load" di masyado malakas ang putok. less flash pa if fired during the night, so hindi masyado affected ang night vission ng eyes mo.
also if the female members of your household are afraid to use a 12 gauge shotgun, consider a semi-auto .22 magnum rifle for them.