...ask him to check out his fingernails, tignan ko kung pano niya titignan. but like what the others said, just let him be. baka masabihan ka pa ng "it takes one to know one".
O nga naman, what's the point? So what if the guy is gay? It won't help if you're being indifferent. Unless he is actually harassing you directly, it's non of your biz. Being a homophobe doesn't excuse anyone from putting a scarlet letter on someone's forehead just because their ***ual orientation isn't the same as yours.
If you're "scared" or disturbed by this homo***ual, then by all means, avoid contact with him, but it's not your right or priviledge to do an "expose" thing to him.
You're no longer in the 60's, intolerance is a shameful and narrow minded perspective. Geez.
if the guy's harassing you or your coworkers, then go ahead with your entrapment. if he's just being gay, that can be construed as ***ual discrimination.
personally i am a bit homophobic, and i am not at all comfortable in a room where there are gay men present; but at least for me, if they act decently, then they're ok in my book. but if they act like perverts, then they will be treated like perverts.
there are a lot of so called "men" na nagkakalat ng anak kung saan saan, and conveniently forget about their responsibilities. this in contrast to so-called "badings" who patiently support their siblings and families habang nababastos, minamaltrato at tsinitsismis left and right.
back in my rotc days, there was this obviously gay guy who would sit cross legged ala girl whenever we had our breaks, pero once we got into formation, machong macho ang dating. that to me is his way of pakikisama, not rocking the boat so to speak, so that we could end each rotc session with a little less pushups and all that other crap. this in contrast to some troublemakers -- alam mo naman dati, kasalanan ng isa, kasalanan ng buong company.
to me, a man is measured by his sense of responsibility, not by the size of his balls.
I previously had a gay co-worker...he's so professional inside our office, you can say that he is more sensible kesa sa mga iba naming co-worker and he even come w/ us to have a goodtime in some of the girlie clubs...parang pakikisama ba, although ayaw nyang mag-table nang babae, kapag binibiro namin na mag-table eh sasabihin na lang sa amin na alam daw naman namin ang type nya. Hindi sya nagta-take advantage na ika nga eh nanghihimas or the like whenever one of us is getting drunk he always distance himself, he always tap or hold you on your shoulders whenever he want to show or ask you something and he always look directly in your eye showing that he has no malice or any insinuation on what he's doing/asking for you, ikaw pa nga ang maaalangan kapag meron kang masamang iniisip sa kanya, ni hindi sya nakiki-akbay sa amin kapag me pinag-uusapan kami na medyo naughty although nakiki-join din sya sa mga ganung usapan namin...He told us na baka daw mamiss-interpret namin yung mga ganon kaya ayaw daw nya at baka makaapekto pa sa opis...but outside our office, talagang bading sya....hehehe
We have our outmost respect to that guy na hindi na namin sya pinapansin kapag minsan eh naglalantikan yung mga daliri nya kapag nagpapanic dahil me deadline kami...hehehe He even brought a different perspective in life to some of my co-workers na talagang aloof makisama sa mga gays....
wag mo nalang pakialaman kung wala naman siyang ginagawa sa iyo... unless na lang minomolestiya ka niya, like dun sa ironpinoy yahoogroups, kaasar may bading na nagwawala at nagagalit sa mga bodybuilders, ayun inaway din siya...