how do you deal with the insecurities having a good looking partner tapos ikaw nasa pangit side ka? for example going to malls sympre lets face it you would get stares from people that would pass you by.
how do you deal with the insecurities having a good looking partner tapos ikaw nasa pangit side ka? for example going to malls sympre lets face it you would get stares from people that would pass you by.
baka wala mag post sa thread na ‘to ah…teka ask ko lang mga kakilala ko rito at eto sagot nila: "it’s no big deal anyway and it doesn’t matter" as long as tingin lang at walang verbal insults.
honestly, ito ang opinion ko.
Last edited by XTO; January 4th, 2008 at 02:43 PM.
hmmm one things i notice,even how horrible your partner looks like, if he or she is full of love the beauty within emanates... and only the true insecure person sees the ugly being and not the real person...
the best cloak and mask to used is a pure love, shower your partner with love as your partner does it to you, this will embody inside and will generate inner beauty that is reflected exteriorly.
its like this... you may see a couple a fat girl with a hunk guy, at a glance youll see the FATS of the lady yet at second look, you notice the happiness, and that is what really matters, and LV nor gucci cant hide the flaws, the most expensive concealer wont cover up the frowning inside, yet a happy attitude and a loving thoughts is all we need=)
its cheap yet its priceless=)
well, the stares may mean - "Idol!", "True love!", "Galing mo!".
Hehe, as long as masaya ka, ba't mo naman pag-aaksayahan panahon sasabihin ng ibang tungkol sa itsura mo.
ako nun, di ako insecure. i would just thank my lucky stars na pinatulan ako ng magandang babae, and get as much action from her before she came to her senses and dump my ugly ass.![]()
pag nakakasalubong ako nang ganon.. as in maganda't ***y yung girl.. tapos yung guy medyo hindi naman masyadong gwapo.. ay parang gusto ko pang kamayan yung lalaki at ang ganda nung kasama nya!! galeng mo idol!
i agree... people will look, stare, even ogle, but they don't really have a clue about what the couple feels towards each other... what's important is the inner beauty that the other person appreciates and loves him/her for; to hell what others might think.. inggit lang ang mga yun, kasi sila walang jowa!!![]()
I'm confident with myself. If I wasn't, I wouldn't even be married to my wife right now. That said, I was the torpe type during my stay in the Philippines.
A lot of dirty old men seem to hit on my wife. When I mean old, I mean guys in their 60's and 70's.They probably thought my wife was desperate for a better life and would take them. My wife would tell me all about it. The next day, I'll be at her work. I never do anything drastic. But, I keep my confidence factor high and stare the old guy straight in the eye. That normally is enough.
One thing I've noticed is that women have the most peculiar tastes. You could be the most handsome guy around. Or you could be the most sensitive guy around and still they won't like you. I'm clueless on what they like about guys.
So if you think you're ugly. Don't worry about it. Up to now, I'm still wondering why my wife picked me instead of that bigger, richer, lawyer of a guy back in the Philippines. It certainly wasn't because I was a saint. I wasn't one. In fact, I was a pervert. He HeBut she chose me. That's good enough.
" Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder! "
Pag tumanda tayo at nagka-wrinkles, mawawala rin ang physical appearance you once had. Kahit na sangdamakmak na lifting at surgery ang gawin mo sa katawan mo di na babalik ang dating hubog nito. (hehehehe)
Kidding aside, I used to be so idealistic when it comes to choosing a partner. Lets face it, lahat tayo pinagdaanan ito. Pero nung lumaon, I realized that it doesn't really matter what the guy looks like as long as his intentions are pure and true.
Physical appearance is just but temporary. But what is in your heart and your soul defies everything physical!![]()
^^^ agree physical beauty fades, after 30-40 years when both of you are old and frailing but the love will always be young the passion will still burn and the enthusiasm of being together will hold on.
ot: kung tutuusin yung me itsura ang minsan insecure, kung sino ang gwapo at maganda sila pa ang naghahanap ng kakulangan, yung di kagandahan at di kagwapuhan, kuntento na, ibig sabihin mas pinahahalagahan nila ang grasya na ipinagkaloob sa kanila.
+1000 ako sa u sis!!!
As long as you love each other, the apperance don't matter at all...
beauty fades buts loves got deeper and deeper habang tumatagal ang isang relasyon...so forget how she/he looked, and what will others say as long as you happy with her/his companion...go for it!!![]()
if you will be less choosy on the look of your partner, ok lang eh pero isipin mo na lang mga magiging anak niyo...:hysterical: at least give your children a good genes to start with.... kung pangit ka na nga tapos pangit pa aasawahin mo kawawa naman mga magiging anak niyo...hehehehe
kung pareho man ang feelings between a pangit and good looking partner...then sa magandang partner na ako....
yes beauty fades, but it will take what 20-30 yrs before beauty deteriorates? then at least I was with a beautiful partner for 20 years rather than having a bad looking one for the whole duration of marriage...
Last edited by shadow; January 6th, 2008 at 05:26 PM.
Guys, don't be too fixated on women's physical beauty.
Having been a certified "cocksman" in my younger (binata)
years, I've dated women from both ends of the beauty
spectrum and I tell you, mas nag-enjoy ako dun sa mga babae
na hindi gaano ang kagandahan.
Because very beautuful girls tend to be "lazy" in bed. Sanay sila
na sila ang hinahabol ng guys so they're kinda pampered and spoiled
and won't go the extra mile to please their man.
Yung mga medyo "beauty-impaired" are willing to "do more" to
give pleasure to their man as a sign of gratitude, I guess, for
even considering them in the first place!
So to look at the other side of the coin, when I see a really
hansome guy with a "so-so" girl, I dont feel sorry for him
especially if he has this "crazy grin" on his face, for I know
he's having a great time!![]()
kung pangit ka, maingat ka na lang kung makasalubong nyo ako sa mall. pero wag ka mag-alala, I respect boundaries. pag taken na rest assured tutulungan pa kita mainlove kayo dalwa ng husto
Generally people nagfofocus mostly sa face ,for obvious reason ito yong una mong makikita sa tao. But smart people do give attention to other body parts such as brain, heart, upper and lower torso ( mataba ba o makisig ) and most of all bank account. So heads up bro, that pretty woman u got is i bet she's smart.....![]()
whahahahahindi din naman fat ang bank account natin chief, tama lang
. i agree with this, oo una talaga nakikita sa kanya is yun physical appearance. though underneath that, very down to earth. simple lang manamit at hindi important kung hndi branded. kumakain ng pagkain sa joli-jeep, at kung kailangan mag-commute ok lang din wala keme
. though when i take her out i make sure dala ko isa ko gf (yun oto ko hehehe).