you get to have the contacts of this girl that interest you, it says single on her friendster, you exchange message, chat, yet the moment that yuou would want to make a step further, thye next thing you know in a relationship was posted in her friendster... too bad
anyway, it was a breeze, to think that this girl dont even know me at all, no common friend, she added me in her account, then we exchange message until i ask her to add me in YM, so we could chat there, next thing is to ask for her number, sayang, it seems we could hit it off good=)