Crazy

[gretzy]

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yesterday, my ex bf called me up, he told me that he got married last january becoz he got his officemate pregnant, i was really shocked becoz we went out last november n di naman sya nagkwento, we became friends after we broke up. ang tagal talaga before nag-sink in ung sinabi nya. kaya nya ko kinontak kc sobrang insecure daw wife nya sa kin (she made a friendster acct just to add me sa friends nya n see my personal info), he still keeps the gifts i gave him n my pictures.

he told me that his wife wants to talk to me,n sabi nya para may matahimik na daw wife nya. i was crying kc yoko na sanang madamay, pero naawa na din ako n i want to clear my name, wala naman akong ginagawa, so pumayag ako, i told him that ill use another number kc baka everytime na mag-away sila e ako hahanapin ng wife nya.
tama ba ginawa ko?

[gretzy]

we broke up last summer

im asking him now to give me back the pics

[Hero]

akala ko creative writing din ito...

love notes pala...

i think tama ginawa mo "get out of the picture".. para walang gulo dahil wala ka naman kinalaman na sa relasyon nila unless
may affair kayo!


anyway, gretzy here now is your request

phil collins' "dont lose my number"....

[kimpOy]

best thing to do is ignore them.


kahit super close friends pa kayo, hindi maalis sa asawa niya na nabuntis LANG siya.

have a life, its free

[badsekktor]

My advice... get out of their life... minsan kasi style lang ng lalaki yan.... i mean kung gusto mo maalis ka sa picture... dapat wala contact sa yo yun girl or guy... totally kasi lagi ka lang madadamay kung may contact pa rin kayo tapos ikaw pa yun nagiging cause ng pagseselos ng wife nya so better "dissappear" or wala na lang contact...

[eyescube]

Gretzy,
yeap tama ka dyan! kunin mo lahat ng mga gamit mo sa kanya, syempre para maalis sa isipan ng guy yung mga nakalipas nyong alaala buhat ng kayoy magkasing-irog pa at ito naway maging hakbang para sa kanya na ikaw ay kalimutan at magising sa katotohanan na magkahiwalay na kayo ng landas.Para sa kanyang bagong tinatahak na landas ay di na dapat mararapatin na syay lumingon pa sa inyong nakaraan. Kilala ka ng kanyang X so dapat namay gawin mo ang nararapat na tuluyan mo ng ibaon sya sa limot at lumayo sa kanya.

[benchph1]

Take up a new hobby , make yourself busy.
Call-up your friends, spend more time with your family, go out with other guys,

zero communication is also good. also throw away anything that will remind you of him. that's if you really want to forget the guy..

[sturbo]

if i may add, pareho sillang me hangups, kasi pilit lang yung kasal nila. yung girl insecure, yung guy naman naghahanap ng sympathy ( at yung holding on to old pics and things ay " leaving the lines of communication open" , meaning he's holding on to the past , napanood ko nayan eh.

we can't really tell you what to do. if you don't want to be involved anymore , you have to cut off clean. just ask the guy to get rid of your things. no more contact.
otherwise it wouldn't stop there. pag me problem yung guy tatawagan ka non. pag yung girl naman , ikaw lagi ang suspect.

[ssaloon]

Originally posted by kimpOy
best thing to do is ignore them.


kahit super close friends pa kayo, hindi maalis sa asawa niya na nabuntis LANG siya.

have a life, its free

agree!!

[gretzy]

actually,i gave him the "mobile number" of an oldsim ng friend ko for his wife to talk to me but i didnt get any call, weird

peeps, di na naman ako affected masyado, except for those lapses na nalulungkot ako bigla,but im really ok, thanks to the boylets, nadadivert isip ko lagi. ;)

[gretzy]

thanks to all of u also! i love u guys!

[kiper]

ate grets..dito pa ko..u

[maw]

you have to cut it now ( the contact/relationship) and cut it clean! the more he calls you the deeper you get into his problems/troubles. face it you have a life of your own. strive to be happy

[ownertype]

I agree mga advice ng mga tsikoteers, its good that you refrain from talking/seeing your ex boylet. Let old wounds heal and move on. Kasi if you continue to keep in touch, I am sure mag flashback yung mga good and bad memories nyo together so instead na mag heal na yung "ok na ko" feeling, nanariwa ulit.

Sis, move on. Sabi nga ni Phil Collins

"You have no right to ask me how I feel
You have no right to speak to me so kind
We can’t go on just holding on to time
Now that we’re living separate lives"

[Chip]

Exes can NEVER be friends. period. except cguro after a coupla years when you both have your own lives. i lost someone that way, friends lang daw.. naniwala naman ako.. anyway.. sorry it just re-surfaced :p hehehehehe
basta yon lang. its his problem.. wala ka nang responsibility sa kanya, and NEVER allow him to use guilt and sentiment against you

[1D4LV]

yes, i agree with what most of them are saying. dedma na lang. afterall may kanya-kanya na kayong buhay ngayon.

[IceColdBeer]

Problema nya yun harapin nya mag-isa, bat ka pa nya idadamay?

[nitrox]

korek sila lola! wala kang mapapala sa sitwasyong yan...

[badkuk]

miss gretzky,

better to just stay out of it na lang...it's nice that u and ur ex are still friends, pero, like you said, medyo unusual ung situation nila(i.e. wedlock, insecure sa yo), so your good intentions may easily be misinterpreted as malicious(naks, ubos ingles ko ah)

luks like unanimous ung opinions nating lahat...

[Mardim]

Originally posted by ownertype
I agree mga advice ng mga tsikoteers, its good that you refrain from talking/seeing your ex boylet. Let old wounds heal and move on. Kasi if you continue to keep in touch, I am sure mag flashback yung mga good and bad memories nyo together so instead na mag heal na yung "ok na ko" feeling, nanariwa ulit.

Sis, move on. Sabi nga ni Phil Collins

"You have no right to ask me how I feel
You have no right to speak to me so kind
We can’t go on just holding on to time
Now that we’re living separate lives"

Akmang akma ang kanta. In which I totally agree. Better to be hurt one time and get over with it than spend a long time to heal the wounds that keep opening because of your communication. And worse part of it that he is married na. I take that as a cue to cut of everything. Permanently. (Nangyari sakin yan before and the cycle just stopped when I stopped communicating.)