Courting someone 10 years your junior

[pnay_fickle_minded]

what if 21 yung girl then 46 yung guy pero they look good together and they love each other, and wala prob sa future... possible prob lang baka maraming maging hindrance pag-uwi nya sa pinas, lam nyo naman mga pinoy family and friends... by the way foriegner yung guy, my friend i so much inlove with that guy, and i never expected it.. super pretty kasi nya and mga ex nya gwapo din..

[ghosthunter]

Originally posted by pnay_fickle_minded
what if 21 yung girl then 46 yung guy pero they look good together and they love each other, and wala prob sa future... possible prob lang baka maraming maging hindrance pag-uwi nya sa pinas, lam nyo naman mga pinoy family and friends... by the way foriegner yung guy, my friend i so much inlove with that guy, and i never expected it.. super pretty kasi nya and mga ex nya gwapo din..

thats the situation of my neighbor when I met them... She was 25yrs & the guy was 50yrs old. BTW, the guy had a previous wife but die years ago and left him with one son (late teens na). With the second wife, she gave him 3 kids, 1 girl & 2 boys.

Grabe, when they just moved to our neighborhood, the wife likes to wear really short shorts and fitting t-shirts and nice to talk too pa! :D

[gretzy]

naku, tempted na naman si ghost! :D

[ghosthunter]

Originally posted by gretzy
naku, tempted na naman si ghost! :D

yup.. tempted ako... but that was ten years ago!

Pero I saw her a few months ago... ***y pa din niya but mas matured looking na siya than when I remembered her. :D

[pnay_fickle_minded]

ok lang di ba as long as you love each other, it doesnt matter...

[an_01]

Originally posted by marwen
an_01... i assume you are 23 how about 2 years older....... mga 25 1/2 he.hehe.. pwede na kaya sa iyo..

5 years younger and 2 years older lang ang hanap ko.. not qualified sa 10 years younger... cradle snatcher.

2 yrs. older? hmm...too young but if you're mature enough, then maybe there's a possibility! hehehehe :hihihi:
and you're from cebu? layo naman....

[marwen]

Originally posted by an_01
2 yrs. older? hmm...too young but if you're mature enough, then maybe there's a possibility! hehehehe :hihihi:
and you're from cebu? layo naman....

malay mo ma assign ako sa manila... and dull din naman yung very matured na partner... diba.. dapat me konting color.... my observation... guys do some immature acts just to make the conversation humorous... pero when it comes to serious matters... very serious na rin kami.....

[an_01]

Originally posted by ghosthunter
How about a guy who is around 8 years older, ok lang with you? :D

:cool: definitely!!! as long as the guy doesn't have kids and not previously married...why not?! like what i said, i prefer guys who are at leas 5 years older than i am...so pwede po 8yrs. older...10 yrs. would be the max :lol:

[gretzy]

ligawan na toh! hehehe

[an_01]

Originally posted by marwen
malay mo ma assign ako sa manila... and dull din naman yung very matured na partner... diba.. dapat me konting color.... my observation... guys do some immature acts just to make the conversation humorous... pero when it comes to serious matters... very serious na rin kami.....

dull? i'm not really sure. i've dated guys who are 2-3 years older than i am...and they still can't a handle a woman like me and they just don't do immature acts just to have humorous converations with me...but i guess that is a case-to-case basis thing din naman...hope you're right

[ghosthunter]

I guess part of it comes from the level of self-confidence the guy has when he meets you. I remember you were giggling quite a bit when we had some coffee together. :D

[gretzy]

why cant they handle you?

[an_01]

Originally posted by ghosthunter
I guess part of it comes from the level of self-confidence the guy has when he meets you. I remember you were giggling quite a bit when we had some coffee together. :D

well, i was laughin a lot because we were talkin about a lot of funny things...and we were just having coffee...
it would be so much different if the guy would be courting me or having a relationship with me.

i guess you're right about that the guy having so confidence in himself when he meets me, and i think that he should also learn how to keep it when he becomes my man

[an_01]

Originally posted by gretzy
why cant they handle you?

ey gretzy!
they can't handle me because i really have a strong personality...dominating at some point pa...and somehow intimidating din siguro

[gretzy]

ngi, how much more me? hehehe

[an_01]

Originally posted by gretzy
ngi, how much more me? hehehe

maybe we both have the same problem...but it becomes a serious problem for me in the course of the relationship...sometimes it even becomes one of the reasons why i break up with the guy.

[gretzy]

I'm a barbarian. :D

[_Cathy_]

My Mom always tells me that she prefers for me to date a guy 10 years older than I am.

I do like older guys 'coz they are more patient and I learn a lot from them.

[donbuggy]

What this discussion about relationships needs is..... mathematics.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_dis..._relationships

The "half-your-age-plus-seven" rule

The "half-your-age-plus-seven rule" is one rule of thumb defining a mathematical formula to judge whether the age difference in an intimate relationship is socially acceptable. Mathematically speaking, the rule is:

[Lucius]

Younger or older, doesn't really matter. As long as the fruit is still fresh, why not