i'm a girl and i'm 23, it wouldn't be too bad dating an older man...there's no harm in dating anyway right? if things turn out well and the two of you mesh, then jackpot! hehehe! it's hard enough to find a guy who fits all the qualities you look for...so you know, it would be to my disadvantage if i just limit the guys based on their age...ang dami na ngang mga bading diyan eh, konti na lang ang straight guys na maginoo pero medyo bastos. and besides, life is about adventure...