Personally kasi, i don't like to borrow cars kahit na nung time na wala pa ko kotse... unless it's an emergency..
Since i have 2 vehicles kasi, a Revo (for business) and Nissan car (personal gimmicks), there are some occassions na nahihiram yung car ko kasi mas madalas ko gamitin yung Revo at di ko talaga pinahihiram yun kasi madami gamit parati nakalagay. okay lang naman sakin basta valid naman yung reason for borrowing. but there's this uncle of my wife na masyado yatang nadadalas ang paghiram ng car. Kahapon kasi, i was cleaning and waxing the car when "uncle" arrived (10am) at hinihiram yung car coz pupunta daw sila sa binyagan ng 11am. Siguro dahil na din sa pagod ko sa paglilinis ng car ay hindi ko pinahiram at i told him in a nice way na may aayusin pa ako sa car at ngaun lang ako may free time to do it..
ang reason ko naman kasi; (1) hindi naman emergency yung lakad nila, (2) di naman siya ninong sa binyagan, (3) pwede naman sila mag-commute kasi 15 minute drive lang yung pupuntahan nila, (4) di naman umuulan, (5) at 3 hrs ko yata pinagtiyagaang linisin yung car, eh bakit kailangan pa nila manghiram ng car...
then, bigla nagtext kagabi yung "uncle" sa wife ko at nagtatampo kasi pinagdamutan ko daw siya...
can u relate to this...
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February 21st, 2005 03:29 PM #1
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February 21st, 2005 03:40 PM #3You got a point... pero siguro di lang siya sanay na di pinagbibigyan...
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For me I don't borrow cars, so I don't intend to lend my car. 'Yong car kasi tingin ko personal na gamit, para bang underwear na di pedeng ipagamit sa iba. hehehe
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February 21st, 2005 03:43 PM #4yes I can relate to that, and I don't give a rat's ass kung ano pa sabihin ng kamag-anak ng misis ko or whoever the hell they are.
Unless it's an emergency, yes, pwede nila hiramin, pero yang mga ganyan na dahilan sorry sila.
Nung wala pa ako kotse kahit may mga okasyon ako pupuntahan hindi ko hiniram yung oto ng brother ko, kahit alam ko ipapahiram nya sa akin.
Some people just don't understand na ang kotse ay hindi parang plantsa na hihiramin mo na lang basta-basta.
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February 21st, 2005 03:43 PM #5Some people just don't get it... there are resposibilities in owning a car, pano kung nabangga niya? or panu kung may nawala? would he pay for it? Its not about being selfish but its a question of responsibility on the borrowers part and the reason they're borrowing it.
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February 21st, 2005 03:44 PM #6tumatandang paurong yung uncle ng wife mo hehehehe. sya pa yung may ganang magtampo (it's just me though hehehehe).
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February 21st, 2005 03:44 PM #7Op... sobra naman yata yang si "uncle".
Well, ganyan talaga... pakikisama with the inlaws.
Teka, may share ba ang misis mo dun sa car? Or, nakatira ba kayo sa family ng misis mo? I mean, kasi may mga tao na palibhasa nakikinabang kayo, makikinabang din naman kami, or something like that.
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February 21st, 2005 03:45 PM #8Depende yan... Minsan kasi abuso... Lalo na pag balik napansin mo yung guage mo E na...
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February 21st, 2005 03:48 PM #9yeah. mashadong maselan para ipahiram lang ng ganun ganun ang auto. Pero in terms sa mga ganyang kamaganak, haynakow... wala ka magagawa sa mga ganyan kahit you don't mean anything by it nakakahanap pa den sila ng rason para ma-offend at magtampo...
Originally Posted by 20vanda01
ignore mo na lang u have the right to say no naman sa "uncle" wala sha karapatang magtampo imo.
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February 21st, 2005 03:50 PM #10... ang lupit naman ng ganitong borrower, di man lang palitan 'yong gas na nagamit... Originally Posted by 1997
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February 21st, 2005 03:57 PM #11ok lang yan...don't mind them.
binyagan? pwede sila mag taxi.
kung itatakbo sa hospital yan...pwede pa at ipag-dra drive ko pa sila.
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February 21st, 2005 03:59 PM #12Sakin ok lang hiraman ng oto, wala dapat samaan ng loob kung tinanggihan ka dahil property ng pinaghihiraman mo yun...
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February 21st, 2005 04:09 PM #13Oh man! I can relate to this VERY VERY MUCH!!!! This thread just made my blood boil. :fire:
Dapat talaga hindi pinapahiram ang sasakyan. Just like what ILuvDetailing said, it takes a lot of responsibility to own a car. Pag nabunggo niya yan, "sowwie" lang ang madidinig mo. Even if they do 'repair' your car, they'd take it to the cheapest, sorry-assest, God-forsakenest body/paint shop they could find. Why? Because it's not their friggin' car!
I have hordes of in-laws like that. Buti na lang at hindi pa nila hinihiram yung sasakyan ko. What they do is they frequently ask my wife to drive them around the place. They'd invite us to lunch....pero kailangan sunduin si kuya ganito, si tita ganyan at si ate ewan. They'd invite us to go swimming at batangas, pero kailangan isabay si tito so-and-so. Damn friggin leeches!
Bottom line is... that is your car. You worked hard to earn it. And it is only natural that you take good care of it.
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February 21st, 2005 04:11 PM #14he didnt want you to let him down , siguro kasi nasanay na palagi mo sya pinapahiram, pero may valid reasons ka rin naman eh. ganyan lg talga minsan, na misinterpret ka.
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February 21st, 2005 04:16 PM #15i dont like people borrowing my car din, wlang hiya alagang alaga ko tapos iharurot lng at kng san san iparking nang di maayos!
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February 21st, 2005 04:24 PM #16Pero pag si Nicole Hernandez ang humiram oks lang basta "kapalit" nyahahahaha
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February 21st, 2005 04:42 PM #18haaaay nakakainis ang ganitong kwento. typical in-law, typical filipino. porke ayaw pahiramin, magtatampo. magsusumbong. parang ginawang obligasyon mong magpahiram. kaya ka na 'misinterpret' kasi makitid utak nun. hirap yung ganyan kasi 'kamag-anak' sila at dapat mas mapagbigay ka. kung ganun din lang, wag mo nang pahiramin uli. di bale nang mabansagang swapang. just make sure na di ka rin hihingi ng utang na loob sa kanila para wala na silang masabi.
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February 21st, 2005 04:53 PM #19I had the same experience sa bayaw ko naman, pero di ako ang hiniraman niya, kasi siguro nahihiya sa akin, sa misis ko nanghiram, kaso tablado siya sa asawa ko, ilang beses na kasi nanghiram sa amin, pag kinuha, puno, pag balik, empty na, ang putik pa ng kotse. kaya ayun, hanggang ngayon may tampo pa yung tarantadong bayaw ko sa kapatid niya, hehehe
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FrankDrebin GuestFebruary 21st, 2005 04:57 PM #20
IMO, sa akin siguro depende kung saan gagamit. Pero susunduin or daanan lang ang kamag-anak na walang ride ay oks lang sa akin.
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