Questions is, is the feeling mutual? Baka iba gusto ni guy or umaasa pa rin.
May kaibigan akong girl na ganyan. May constant na lalake sa kanya. Parati nagpaparamdam from time to time. Maraming pera si guy and marami rin babae. Minsan naiinis na yung friend ko dun sa guy. Analysis namin, kasi sya lang yung di pa "nakuha" nung guy. Sya yung unachievable goal nung guy. Sabi ko, "if you want to get rid of the guy, sleep with him" tawanan lang kame.
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I think you just described us (except for the money part). He did tell me na he has been pursuing me for 15 yrs but I am not giving in. He practically made tuhog our barkada![]()
I won't get hurt because I am not in love with him. I have the upper hand in our relationship because he likes me more than I like him. Kaya guarded ako NEVER to fall for him. I'm just enjoying his company, to help me forget. And he does make me feel attractive and wanted. Cute din when he gets jelly LOL!
Yung sa friend mo, gusto niya ata yung guy? Kaya pwede talaga siyang masaktan.
Cat.
Is he the one who has issues at bed?
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Yung sa friend ko, she is attracted to alpha males. That guy is alpha. Pero gets women with money. Unfortunately my friend is educated and doesn't really need his money. And yung style ni guy, he always get the woman. Except for my friend. So siguro si guy, flabbergasted. Kasi Bakit a lahat nakukuha nya. Except for one woman. Kaya sya yung quest. That one unachievable goal.
Eh sabi nung friend ko di naman kelangan gumastos nung guy. Just make her feel special. Kaso isa lang formula ni guy sa babae. Di marunong mag adjust sa situation. Kaya wala pa rin nangyayari. Whether romantic or in bed.
Pero I told her pag nakuha na gusto nung guy, goodbye na yun.
Pano Cath kung biglang nag katrabaho si SO mo sa isang MNC. High ranking. Tapos he still makes sacrifices for you like staying up all night just to listen to you? May pag asa ba? Romantically or ***ually? (just being blunt)
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I encountered someone who does that.. Wow. Nagpapanic attack ata ako just thinking about it haha.. I guess I'm traumatized with this issue of guys' need to satisfy their egos through that.. Yung they feel so macho and manly when they "get" the girl then yeah, iiwan lang after they've validated themselves.
I'm still trying to understand its a "guy's thing" concept, na parang ganyan talaga, but my all my respect goes to guy's who resist temptations and chooses to focus all their efforts and energy to get that ego stroke or satisfaction from their partner lang. Mas macho, admirable and respectable pag faithful and loyal ang guy.
For me, hindi pagsisisihan ng guy pag naging faithful sya and he makes me feel important, loved and secured. You know, the usual drill panu makuha girl pero sa sakin mo lng gagawin? Ay nako, I will generously and "creatively" return my appreciation by 10 folds!haha
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pano naman pag nagkamali yun guy, ng madami beses (pero alam ni girl na ganito talaga si guy noon pa man); tapos nag 180, lalo nya minahal yung gurl dahil andyan parin despite of .. kaso si girl eh parang nag play safe na at medyo nag hold back. mag intay nalang ba si guy hanggang mabalik yun feelings ni girl dati? or wala na pag asa yun?
Hmm.. It seems too late na yung realization ni guy. I'm speaking for myself ha, darating at darating din kase yung point na wala na babalikan talaga si guy kase napagod na. Lalo na kung marealize ni girl na may other options pa sya. Iba din kase yung psychological and emotional stress ng paulit ulit na pagkakamali.
Sympre, unless they both decided to work it out and the guilty party will really do extra effort to help with the "starting over" or healing process of the offended party, may chance. It always takes two to tango.
Only those destined to be together can successfully pull off ganito kase imagine the ups and downs na pagdadaanan until both have earned back the trust and mabalik yung feeling of security. They will endure the consequences ng ganyan. But I'd rather try it than regret not doing it.
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