My Lola apologized to me last week and asked me to attend her 90th birthday (after not speaking to each other for almost 8 months!) The people who I did NOT want to be there weren't there and now my Lola agrees with what I want to happen. We had a whole day meeting last Sunday on what our next step will be. I really think my Lola will easily reach 100. She is the tie that binds our family together.