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waaaaaaaaaa naalala ko ex ko sa ganyan ...mega close na kayo ng family niya halos everyweekend doon ka nga nauwi after ng whole week work ....tapos makikita mo pa mga ibang relatives niya sa manila .(taga province kasi sia). bad trip talaga

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Bakit ba tuwing may "get2geder" ang mga tao,
mapa-family reunion man or simpleng barkada gimik, ang
unang tanong sayo ay

"May boyfriend ka ba?" at bago ka pa maka-sagot ay
maririnig mo naman ang

"Bakett walaaaaaa??!"

Hayyy, kelangan ba talagang may bitbit kang boylet sa
mga occasions na ito?

Pano kung wala talaga?

Alanganamang maki-usap pa ako sa mga "close" guy
friends ko para mag-panggap na "kami"?!

Di naman ata tama yun, dee-bah?

How I wish na sana mas maintindihan ng mga tao na sa
mga panahon ngayon ay "accepted" na sa society na
MEDYO made-delay ang pag-iisang dibdib ng mga
kababaihan... especially girls like me who want to get
into so many things all at the same time.

I also wish that people would understand that OKAY
LANG AKO and the rest of THE SAMAHANG MALAMIG ANG
PASKO...
Valentines day, Birthday..etc.

I mean, we do get lonely once in a while...
naiingit din dun sa may mga LOVELIFE...
paminsan-minsan?

Kung minsan naman ay nagmumuni sa mga past kilig
moments?

But these lonely moments do not and will not make our
"world" stop...

Isipin nyo nalang, na kung wala kaming mga single
friends nyo, eh di wala kayong paghihingaan ng sama ng
loob tuwing nag-aaway kayo ng boylet or girlet nyo?

Wala rin kayong "instant date" kung sakaling
nangailangan kayo?...

Wala rin kayong mahihila sa mall para maghanap ng
magandang regalo for your better-half pag Christmas o
kaya pag b-day nya.

At ang pinaka-mahalaga sa lahat, wala kayong KAKAMPI
if things between you and your labidabs don't work
out.

Marami naman sa aming mga singles ay nakaranas na rin
na "ma-in-love"...

Yun nga lang, obvious ba??????????
it all didn't work out!

Pero di naman kami "bitter" o galit sa mundo...
and totoo nga nyan eh mas lumalalim ang kahulugan ng
"love" para sa amin.

When you're all by yourself, there's more time to
reflect and think what you really want in life.

Mas naiisip mo kung ano ba talaga ang makakapagbigay
ng tunay na ligaya sayo...

At mas naiisip mo kung pano matutupad ang lahat ng mga
pangarap mo.

And while reflecting, we also get to imagine that we
will, one day....
end up with someone who will share those dreams with
us.

Di naman sa nang-iinggit ako pero masaya rin ang buhay
naming mga single...

Biruin mo we can go out with anybody, anytime..that
is.

We can get into all kinds of things..
like go to the gym regularly..
or get into all kinds of sports...
or any "Self-enhancement" programs, etc...

Mejo tipid din ang buhay single kasi la naman kaming po-problemahin
tuwing Valentines day or Christmas...

O di'ba ang saya?

Sa palagay ko naman ay lahat tayo ay may karapatang
sumaya ke single man o attached ka.

I guess may kanya-kanya lang tayong panahong lumigaya
at Diyos lamang ang makapagsasabi...
kung kelan nga dadating and oras na yon.

So, para sa mga kasalukuyang "ATTACHED",

I wish you all the luck and happiness.

Should there be any problems,
don't forget that your SINGLE friends are always here
for you!!!!!

Sa mga "bagong SINGLES" naman,
wag nang magmukmok!

Enjoy life....enjoy the single life!!!

There are a lot of things that you will still
discover.

At tandaan mo, DI KA NAG-IISA!!!

Madami-dami tayo..hehehehe

At dun naman sa kapwa kong mga SINGLES...
I hope that we are one in believing that we long for
someone
NOT BECAUSE WE WANT TO BE HAPPY
but we long for someone because we want to share our
happiness with that special person for the rest of our
lives...

Asking about a person's lovelife you hardly even know is simply not the proper/right way of opening a conversation. That's too personal! There are other opening statement to socialize in party other than personal stuff like lovelife..He he he..

Anyway, about being single, enjoy while you can because when you get married, priorities really change. The thing about being single is the freedom of doing anything you want at a drop of a hat and without even a single minute of contemplation of what you want to do. Not when you are married w/kids. Even going to the grocery store is planned ahead..he he he...

So, don't despair! You are one of the lucky ones who still has the luxury of freedom to do so many things in life!!