Backstabbers: What To Do With Them

[[r]ichkri3g]

bro thanks for the advice, i'll keep that in mind.

nagtataka lang ako, i have friends or acquaintances na mga super hard to reach when it comes to having this & that, pero i never envied them. i just told myself sana someday marating ko din ang narating na nila. i never had any intention to bring them down, i just admired them for their accomplishments.tapos now people like my so-called friends come along, nakaka depress lang malaman na meron palang mga ganitong tao.

iba pa din talaga pag mga matagal mo nang kaibigan, walang backstabbing & stuff like that since you know yung mga likes/dislikes ng bawa't isa.

[impulzz]

dati may isang friend din ako ganyan, pag kaharap mabait, pag iba ang kaharap daming sinasabi about me, eh nakarating sa akin yung sinabi nya, nung tinanong ko sya, wala naman daw sya sinabi, so hinarap ko sa kanya yung nag sabi sa akin, ayun tameme, nag sorry sya biro lang daw yun, pero i told him: "pre pag kelangan mo ng tulong next time sa iba ka na humingi, di na kita kaya tulungan, pasensyahan na lang tayo." pero minsan sa akin pa rin nagpatulong at tinulungan ko pa din.

[Lucius]

Sabi na eh, inggit na naman.

Pabayaan ang mga inggitero! :D

[[r]ichkri3g]

hindi ko talaga alam ang problem ng mga inggitero

sabi ko nga sa ibang friends ko, there are 2 kinds of inggit

the first one is the inggit which can kill a person, too much of this kind of inggit can drive a person nuts & try to bring down the subject of his/her envy

the second one is the inggit which can motivate a person to be better than others, this can be used as a drving force to excel in your chosen field

[Lucius]

the first one is the inggit which can kill a person, too much of this kind of inggit can drive a person nuts & try to bring down the subject of his/her envy

Dyan pasok ang mga yan. Sanayin mo na lang sarili mo bro. Ako bata pa lang dami nang gumaganyan sakin. Di ko na lang pinapatulan kasi I know I'm better.

[russpogi]

I just ignore them. I don't want to waste my time on people like them. BUT, it's actually easier said than done. But hey, that's just me.

[Airwalk]

biktima na din ako ng ganyan. yung tao na sinasabi ko hindi ko nga lang kaibigan, kasama ko lang sa trabaho. ang hilig hilig magkalat ng kung ano ano para lang magmukha siyang "magaling" sa iba.

one time, a friend of mine got a call from this person. nagkataon na magkasama kami nung tinawagan niya. he started saying things about me na ako mismo nakarinig dahil inispeaker phone ng friend ko habang magkausap sila. when my other friend asked him "bakit mo naman nasabi yun?" wala siyang maisagot kundi "basta" daw.

after their conversation, i sent him a text message. tinanong ko ano ang mga basehan niya at nagbitaw siya ng mga salita na ganun about me. he never replied. pag nakikita kami, deadma lang siya at parang walang nangyari. panay bati pa rin na animo kaibigan ko siya. pinabayaan ko na lang.

wala sa edad, trabaho, katayuan sa buhay ang mga tao na ganyan ang ugali. naknakan pa at sobra kakapal ng mukha.

pabayaan mo na lang bro and stop being friends with them. sabi nila, ang chismoso daw sinusunog sa impiyerno.

[[r]ichkri3g]

here's another thing...

they blame me for their frustrations in life. they keep on complaining about the hardships of married life with kids. tapos ako daw ang sarap ng buhay ko, 20 something guy with a gf & enjoying life. para bang bakit sila nahihirapan sa buhay pero ako hinde.

i didn't create this thread to be like my sumbong thread & garner symphaty from you guys, i just want to ask if you had experienced the same thing & how you handled it.

[GerardTagayty]

ignore and forget. those people are definitely just jealous.

[Horsepower]

Don't bother with them, don't get affected by these lowlifes.

Just lead a better life for them to die in envy. hehehe