anong klaseng situation ba shadow?

if this is a situation where my wife is about to give birth and only one will survive, then of course wife ang pipiliin ko. pero if the situation is some thing happening like a natural disaster and you can only save one, then anak ang pipiliin ko since my wife would have a better chance of survival. also my love for my daughter is incomparable to the other persons that i also love. my love for my wife naman is really some thing else that i can't explain, i love her and hate her at the same time, i'm sure all the other married guys understands what i mean. and i hope that this situation would never happen to me.