-3 years naging sila ng syota mo?
So what? If the guy/girl really wanted to have a clean start with his/her new one, the 3 years should not really matter. I'm not saying that the 3 years should go down the drain. Siyempre there are also lessons learned within that 3 years na baka magamit pa to make the current relationship better.

-nag break sila ng maayos at nagkasawaan lang? (hindi dahil sa na-fall out of love)
Pre, walang ganito sa totoong buhay. Kung gusto, gusto. Kung ayaw, ayaw.

-your current and the ex still hangs out together? (barkada daw sila?!) at gusto ng syota mo tanggapin mo yun!
Foul naman ata ito. It doesn't matter kung common barkada or ano pa yan. May bagong gf/bf na sya and should act accordingly. Ano naman mararamdaman niya if his/her partner started doing the same thing (hanging out with the ex).

-the ex is very much liked of the family of your current, so as your current to the ex's family???
The fact that they liked the ex doesn't mean they don't like the current. Ok na iyan kaysa they like the ex and absolutely hate the current. The current just has to prove him/herself to the family.

-they never cut off the sleep overs together
This is stupid.

mas madalas pa sila magkasama kesa sa inyong dalawa?
This is also stupid. Even if you are geographically more proximal to each other, it doesn't mean that you have to spend time together. May ex nga ako, sa likod lang ng talyer ni GlennSter nakatira. And alam niyo naman kung gano ko kadalas sa talyer ni GlennSter. Pero hindi ko naman kinakatok sa bahay o kaya tinetext na andun ako. Btw, hindi din kami magkagalit.