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para hindi na ako ang magpaliwanag

kasi pag ako ang nagpaliwanag dami sinasabi

why women feel terrible after hookup /casual s#x

*** Without Love | Healthy Living Magazine

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women who do hookups are usually hoping something comes out of it

men usually don't

More women than men want a meaningful romantic relationship to evolve from a hookup, and it is important to note that men do not typically turn to a hookup encounter to find romantic commitment.

In fact, when a relationship begins with a hookup, men are less likely to see the woman as a future committed partner. This may be because men report that when they engage in a hookup they do not want the experience to evolve into a permanent romantic relationship. As a result, generally the male holds the power in the hookup relationship.

doing hookups goes against women's nature

women need to like a guy muna before having s#x

s#x agad goes against that

In my work as a psychologist talking with adult and adolescent women, I see many examples of conflicts and disappointments that reflect this research. Women are motivated by connection, attachment and emotional intimacy.

They often tell me they long for commitment and feeling deeply cherished by a man in their life. Yet, this is one thing the hookup strategy does not afford.

the more hookups, the more terrible women feel

Women are more likely than men to have anxiety during hookup encounters, feel guilt after the experience and show higher levels of mental distress than men. In one study comparing men and women, women reported feeling negative about their hookup experiences by a margin of two to one.

For women, depressive symptoms increase with the number of previous ***ual partners within the last year. This means that those who have this history are likely to become more depressed with each subsequent uncommitted ***ual experience.

women who hookup are looking for something more than s#x

that's why they feel terrible when men discard them after hookup

pop culture makes hookups look benign... women think it's trendy kaya sige

di pala nila kaya

There are exceptions, but women typically use a hookup as a way to establish a deeper more meaningful relationship with a man. Many women hope that having *** with a particular partner will open the door to getting to know the person better and, ideally, a future relationship. Women put a high value on relationships, much higher than might be portrayed in contemporary culture.

A history of hooking up often reflects someone who is deeply yearning for real love and care and yet has adopted a pattern that makes finding emotional intimacy difficult. The lack of authenticity involved in these sterile attachments leaves women deeply disappointed and oftentimes painfully self-critical as they beat themselves up for what they should or should not have done.

of course there are exceptions

some women can handle it

there are women who are good at separating physical from emotional

but most women can't and end up feeling terrible after hookup

[uls]

stereotype prosti -- itsura palang prosti agad, walang utak

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how about in a college of thousands of students

sigurado meron mga pa-walk diyan

can you pick them out?

how about in an office building with dozens of companies

sigurado meron ilan working girls diyan may sideline

can you pick them out?

[Little Missy]

Dami naman kasi talagang sinabi lol. Sinabi lang na there are these women who didn't like what they do, may pa "I understand why decent women hated cheap girls" na. Talaga ba? Stick to talking about the type of women you know most but don't speak for us. Kami ang may katawan, pakiramdam at pag-iisip marunong ka pa samin. Even before this discussion ilang beses na namin sinabi dito ni Cathy na ayaw namin ng mga guys who avail of those services tapos ipapasok kami sa usapan. [emoji3061]

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[_Cathy_]

Mukhang nahuli nga ni Kit. I assume spongkey means prostitution/walker/PSP or whatever term it is for paid s3x



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[uls]

spongkey = sponsor is key (parang pm is key)

sponsor -- financial support for s#X

[uls]

gusto ni ana ng boytoy pero gusto parin niya ng sponsor

like those GRO meron sugardaddy tapos may bf na bagets

like ung chicks ni kagalingan may 90 yrs old na sumusuporta tapos boytoy si kagalingan

diba dood?

hehe

[Sweetlucious]

spongkey = sponsor is key (parang pm is key)

sponsor -- financial support for s#X

Its actually an old term, older than the internet.

Play on words lang sa word na sponsor, not really “key”.

Common encounter sa term na yan, mga college basketball players. They refer to those gay benefactors.

[dr. d]

Its actually an old term, older than the internet.

Play on words lang sa word na sponsor, not really “key”.

Common encounter sa term na yan, mga college basketball players. They refer to those gay benefactors.

well,
i got it at once the first time!

it sometimes pays to be... older.

[uls]

Its actually an old term, older than the internet.

Play on words lang sa word na sponsor, not really “key”.

Common encounter sa term na yan, mga college basketball players. They refer to those gay benefactors.

i see

thanks

[uls]

Its actually an old term, older than the internet.

Play on words lang sa word na sponsor, not really “key”.

Common encounter sa term na yan, mga college basketball players. They refer to those gay benefactors.

well tama theory natin

ana's gwaping bf is a boytoy who can't afford her

need parin niya ng sponsor

[shadow]

Well these girsl dalawa lang na na uubra sa kanila eh. Mapera or gwapo.

Swerte kung makakuha sila ng mapera and gwapo pa but highly doubt it dahil kung mayaman ka na and gwapo pa then you wouldn't need their "services"


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[_Cathy_]

Well these girsl dalawa lang na na uubra sa kanila eh. Mapera or gwapo.

Swerte kung makakuha sila ng mapera and gwapo pa but highly doubt it dahil kung mayaman ka na and gwapo pa then you wouldn't need their "services"


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Tumpak [emoji23] Parang yung mentor friend ko who used to be a commercial and ad model in the 90s. 50s na bachelor pa rin and has his pick of women. He lives off his inheritance and all he does is dive, guns, bike, dogs and food. Never nagbayad sa babae yun. I witnessed his life of debauchery for so many years [emoji23]

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[gearhead000]

Well these girsl dalawa lang na na uubra sa kanila eh. Mapera or gwapo.

Swerte kung makakuha sila ng mapera and gwapo pa but highly doubt it dahil kung mayaman ka na and gwapo pa then you wouldn't need their "services"

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How about them? (Granting hiwalay na yata sila ngayon due to LDR daw).


Maria Ozawa, Filipino chef mark 4 years together, open up on handling bashing

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ano ung pay for s#x?

there's a wide ang definition for that

ung literal na dadalhin sa motel ung babae babayaran for s#x -- that's one definition

how about a guy spending money on dinners and flowers and gifts over a period of weeks with the goal of making the woman sleep with him (tapos pag nabuntis iiwan = single mom diba kagalingan?)

didn't the man pay for s#x? over a period of time nga lang

that's still paying for s#x

[Little Missy]

Si Kit Thompson pala tong meme na 'to, 15 lang siya dito sa PBB (24 na siya ngayon).
Ayan sumabog na nga talaga.

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[dr. d]

ano ung pay for s#x?

the mode of payment, or the medium of exchange may change,
but if it is conceiveable that one party will not give s3x if the exchange does not take place,
then it's "pay for s3x".

[gearhead000]

Si Kit Thompson pala tong meme na 'to, 15 lang siya dito sa PBB (24 na siya ngayon).
Ayan sumabog na nga talaga.

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I used to see him around the M-Place/ Camelot area. Sa may Hotel Rembrandt pa siya nagbo-board yata noon.
Post-PBB na ito pero di pa siya ganoon ka-active sa acting/ modeling. I don't know if he's moved already.

[shadow]

ano ung pay for s#x?

there's a wide ang definition for that

ung literal na dadalhin sa motel ung babae babayaran for s#x -- that's one definition

how about a guy spending money on dinners and flowers and gifts over a period of weeks with the goal of making the woman sleep with him (tapos pag nabuntis iiwan = single mom diba kagalingan?)

didn't the man pay for s#x? over a period of time nga lang

that's still paying for s#x

Yun una both parties alam na transactional yun arrangement.

Pangalawa hinde so that's the difference nag effort para gawin GF and with that kasama yun *** and they're officially in a relationship.

Kaso nabuntis like sabi mo and since yun Lalake eh irresponsible, immature eh iniwan. So not the fault of the woman and for me incomparable yun dalawa napakalayo.


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[_Cathy_]

Yun una both parties alam na transactional yun arrangement.

Pangalawa hinde so that's the difference nag effort para gawin GF and with that kasama yun *** and they're officially in a relationship.

Kaso nabuntis like sabi mo and since yun Lalake eh irresponsible, immature eh iniwan. So not the fault of the woman and for me incomparable yun dalawa napakalayo.


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Lahat ng naging BF ko walang napala sakin since I am against premarital s3x, especially in our teens and 20s raging hormones pa yan. Not all men are ruled by s3x. Siyempre hindi naman ako puro kabig, Nagreregalo din, pagluluto, aalagaan, susuyuin ang family, all done out of love. I guess that is the difference with wh0res.

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Yun una both parties alam na transactional yun arrangement.

Pangalawa hinde so that's the difference nag effort para gawin GF and with that kasama yun *** and they're officially in a relationship.

Kaso nabuntis like sabi mo and since yun Lalake eh irresponsible, immature eh iniwan. So not the fault of the woman and for me incomparable yun dalawa napakalayo.


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actually dinagdag ko lang ung "nabuntis... iniwan" para di maka offend ng mga matinong lalake dito

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the bottom line is:

did the male get s#x in both cases?

yes

did the male need to spend money?

yes