^WTH? So tranny's don't know they're male even if they see their dick everyday?
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A little o.t. here...
A good point of view here would be the life testimony of anthony roquero... popularly known as tonet macho of the famous 80's show iskul bukol. He was the gay character on the show. Just google his name.
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Naging national issue na ito, dahil ba kano ang involved?
Araw araw may napapatay sa bansa natin.
Kung ordinaryong pinoy ang pumatay dito malamang pang cheap-ass tabloid lang na kuwento ito at ang sisisihin pa ng madla eh si bading.
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Transgender, tran***ual, gay. Tanong nyo sa common tao kung ano yun.
Sagot nila? Bakla, bading, jokla......
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Last edited by chua_riwap; October 18th, 2014 at 12:44 PM.
Precisely because LGBT awareness is still very low in our country.
College na ko when I learned the differences between gays and transgenders. Ang turo kasi sakin nung bata ako, pag lalaking parang babae umasta, bakla yan. Obviously hanggang ngayon marami pa rin na ganyan na yung nakasanayang definition, dito palang sa forum.
But among my generation today it's no longer this simple and lot of us are already open to the changing paradigm. I understand though that it's still not a widely accepted ideology.
Maybe in 10-20 years. We'll see.
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Last edited by jut703; October 18th, 2014 at 05:02 PM.
I have gay friends (5) since HS pa mga yan kasi yung iba elementary days pa. Pero like shadow, hindi din mga kabarkada, more on my wife being close with them kaya nadamay na din ako. 2 dun talagang may BF, pero yung 3 yung tipong nag-asawa at nagkaanak at na-supress nila urge na humanap nang lalaki. Pero obvious naman na may paghanga pa din sila sa lalaki.
I also believe na dapat sila irespeto pero hindi sa punto na special treatment sila na parang gusto ipalabas nang ibang gay like Boy Abunda. I don't think the majority of people should bend to the whim of a minority. Tama na yung walang gender discrimination pero yung parang special treatment and understanding na gusto nang ibang gay, nope, won't stand for it. Kung kaya nang iba magpaka-disente, bakit yung iba weird.
Same here bro. I think that it's just right to treat them equally, but not give them special treatment. Kaso, just like in feminism, may ibang sumusobra - they started as marginalized, pero biglang di na sila nakuntento sa equal treatment, gusto nila sila na yung nakakaangat. Para bang bumabawi dun sa years of oppression nila - unfortunately two wrongs dont make a right.
I think that whether one is straight, gay, transgender, or whatnot, they deserve to be treated nicely. Any judgment against them should be according to what they do, and not just because of their gender orientation.
I would look down on a transgender not disclosing to her boyfriend her history just as I would look down to a straight guy parading as a rich hotshot just to get a girl when he's just a mere social climber. Both have tried to build relationships on deception which is selfish and unfair to the other party.
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It's very simple to me, a man who acts, dress, thinks, feels like he is a woman is a gay.
Gay, transgender, trans***ual are one and the same.
I share cathy's view, bakit kailnagan lagi "normal" society ang mag adjust sa kanila? Like sa Restrooms, I'm uncomfortable around inside public restroom. If I enter and see a group of trannies inside, lumalabas na lang ako. Does it make me homophobe? I don't think so, did i feel i disrespected them by walking out. No! Kung sila ma feel nila discriminated sila, problema nila yun.
As I've said if they are so big with their rights we "normal" also has rights to be uncomfortable around them and has the rights to say so and not taken against us.
Another thing, I think I've discussed this before. I don't know how a straight person will have a gay friends. I don't think you have something in common to be buddy-buddy with them.
When i say friend, I meant barkada.
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Last edited by shadow; October 18th, 2014 at 03:21 PM.
Yup pwede naman. Ako may mga barkada akong bading. Madalas kasama pa sa inuman. Pero itong mga bading na ito eh mga professional. Degree holders. Kahit magkalasingan hindi sila yung mag take advantage sayo. Oo hindi maiiwasan na magbitaw ng biro na medyo green. Pero hindi yun tipong babastusin ka na at mamanyakin dahil bakla sila at lalaki ka. Alam nila boundary and limitations nila. Wala naman din kasi sa gender preference ng isang tao kung magiging balasubas ka o hindi. May lalaki, babae, bakla, tomboy na walanghiya. Pero syempre hindi lahat. Wala sa kasarian yan. Nasa pagkatao yan.Masama kasi sabihin na porket bading eh palaging et*ts ang hanap.
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Bakit naman? Like I said in a previous post, one of my closest kabarkadas since high school is gay.
Does that mean we have nothing in common? We went through the same gruelling high school classes with the same teachers, went to the same prom, the same road trips, the same inuman nights, and the same experiences that we shared with the rest of the barkada (all of which are straight men and women btw).
An additional hobby in common for me and this friend of mine is badminton, so we often play on our free time and grab a quick meal after.
I don't think my relationship with him is any less deep than my relationship with any of my other kabarkadas who are straight, whether guy or girl.
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That's the difference, you've known him since way back...you're more tolerant attitude toward him, you basically grew up together. It's like siblings, kahit na siga or basagulero kapatid mo and other people are afraid of him, you being a brother, hinde ka takot sa kanya.
What I'm trying to say is like colleague na bading, I don't see how me as hetero***ual can be buddy with him, when nakikilala mo na siya bakla na, eh Kasi naman yun hobby na badminton used to be for girls and bading Lang eh sake for oldies grin: kailan Lang naman nauso yan na exercise few years ago...
Let's talk about normal regular hobbies ng mga lalake, basketball, airsoft, cars and girls...yayain mo yun friend mong bading ewan ko Kung sasama siya.
I just don't see myself na magkaroon ng barkadang bakla ngayon, yes childhood barkada nagging bakla, welcome sa mga lakad and handaan ng mga barkada, but definitely will get roasted with all the jokes..and I'm sure he would never mind since matagal ng barkada. Eh king bagong barkada Lang na bading, sigurado hinde mo mabibiro ng todo.
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Last edited by shadow; October 18th, 2014 at 09:37 PM.
What most decent LGBT orgs push for is equality lang naman. Not to be treated special, just not to be treated any different from straight people.
For example, you feel uncomfortable being in the bathroom with gays or trans***uals. That alone doesn't make you a homophobe. It depends on your reasons.
I've had experiences wherein someone tried to flirt with me and was looking at my junk while I was taking a piss and that made me uncomfortable. It's that action that makes me uncomfortable, not just because they're gay/tranny, because I've also had many instances wherein tranny yung katabi ko pero kebs lang kami sa isa't isa and wala naman problema.
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