Man accused of pointing gun at student inside exclusive school

[oliver1013]

Bakla nga ang pamilya yung anak gusto humawak ng bird at wetpu..bakla rin ang tatay may bodyguard na may baril pa.

[macsd]

Itong si Bantilles away bata na lang, nagdala pa ng baril at bodyguard. Bakit hindi cya naghakot ng battalion ng sundalo at baka kulang pa silang 2 ng bodyguard nya. Ano palagay nya sa nakaaway ng anak nya, si superboy ?

Maghanap ka ng katapat mo tulad nila Rolito Go, Jason Ivler, at Teehangkee para naman maiputok mo ang dala mo.

[pop3corn]

Itong si Bantilles away bata na lang, nagdala pa ng baril at bodyguard. Bakit hindi cya naghakot ng battalion ng sundalo at baka kulang pa silang 2 ng bodyguard nya. Ano palagay nya sa nakaaway ng anak nya, si superboy ?

Maghanap ka ng katapat mo tulad nila Rolito Go, Jason Ivler, at Teehangkee para naman maiputok mo ang dala mo.

Baka nga may superpowers yan kaya napilitan manutok ng baril yun tatay. O pwede din Charmed male witch, kse DBa sa states yun iba na-bubully nag resort to withcraft, kaya nga nauso dun ang vampire look eh

Yun iba naman nag-bubully nagtatayo ng Banda tapos nag-lolong hair. Any student na lumalaki na very odd ang pagporma ang profile ko ng na-bully

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[Harangody]

Neighbor ko yan, hahaha! half African ata siya

[oliver1013]

Hondaway...that's not the Honda way...

[yourman_2nd]

any info on the profession/background of Bantiles? sa gobyerno ba sya or working for a Govt Official? Ayaw ng PNoy ng ganya, wang wang mentality yang ganyan. Dapat maalis sa pwesto kung sa Gobyenro nga yan. Dahil yung mga ganyan wang wang mentality, mostly sa Gobyerno nagtatrabaho or kapamilya nasa gobyerno. Makaka hanap din ng katapat yan in the future. Gaya ng anak nya, naka hanap ng katapat.

[piscesboy]

hindi kaya nag evolve si hondaboot to hondaway

[Sweetlucious]

Just googled the vlllage where the Bantilles lived, 'coz ngayon ko lang narinig yun name nung village, di naman pala ganun kamahal yun mga bahay dun. Medyo pang middle class lang kaya pala he needs to do the gun pointing himself.

[niky]

Self defense is when you're being attacked, you fight back.

If you're being teased... poked and prodded, or punched in a playful manner, and you resort to physical violence, that's an over-reaction.

I was bullied in grade school, and I sometimes reacted violently. Looking back on it now, that's not the way.

You teach your child to hit back every time they're harrassed... then what?They start thinking that this is the way you respond to all setbacks in life.with your fists. When a jeepney driver hits your car, you answer. With your fists. When they swerve and almost hit your car, you answer with your fists. When they stop in the middle of the road, you answer with your fists. When an MMDA enforcer tells you off for doing something wrong...

I've almost gotten into fist-fights on the road when I was younger... kasi yan yung natuto ko sa school. I'm not proud of that. Would you be?

Don't make your child resort to violence. This doesn't teach them justice, just violence. It's your responsibility to go to the school and demand that the teacher do something, or you'll pull your child from the school.

This is not to say you should not teach them self-defense. Just that you should not teach them to practice offense.

[yapoy86]

Self defense is when you're being attacked, you fight back.

If you're being teased... poked and prodded, or punched in a playful manner, and you resort to physical violence, that's an over-reaction.

When can you say "it is still in a playful manner"?? i didn't know that bullies are playful...

i don't think the kid was playing with those bullies... if you're poked once just because they are playful, i can let it pass and say "hey, i don't like that and its not funny" but if its becoming a habit, then i think you deserve my fist...

you don't need to respond everytime with your fist.. there are just times you just need to....

you teach you're child to become patient and draw the line when it is becoming too much that even if you exhausted all the means....

[CoDer]

^^Turo ko sa mga anak kong babae eh... Upakan mo sa mata pag ayaw tumigil ang bully mong ka klase then takbo ka sa guidance at sumbong mo.

Isa lang naman ang paraan para ma tame ang bully eh... Gulpe.

[dg1110]

Its really hard to say what is right in this situation... Kung pinoprovoke na ang child mo with all the bullying. Kung yung anak mo ayaw na pumasok. Kung ang admin won't admit that your child is being bullied. What can you do? Move to a new school? Kung ganun na naman... move again? Kawawa yung bata. They might feel that they are too weak.

I think you should teach your child to stand up for themselves. Hindi naman yung tipong hit now ask later. Just teach them to push back if needed.

Any child psychologist here to enlighten us

[jon777]

Self defense is when you're being attacked, you fight back.

If you're being teased... poked and prodded, or punched in a playful manner, and you resort to physical violence, that's an over-reaction.

I was bullied in grade school, and I sometimes reacted violently. Looking back on it now, that's not the way.

You teach your child to hit back every time they're harrassed... then what?They start thinking that this is the way you respond to all setbacks in life.with your fists. When a jeepney driver hits your car, you answer. With your fists. When they swerve and almost hit your car, you answer with your fists. When they stop in the middle of the road, you answer with your fists. When an MMDA enforcer tells you off for doing something wrong...

I've almost gotten into fist-fights on the road when I was younger... kasi yan yung natuto ko sa school. I'm not proud of that. Would you be?

Don't make your child resort to violence. This doesn't teach them justice, just violence. It's your responsibility to go to the school and demand that the teacher do something, or you'll pull your child from the school.

This is not to say you should not teach them self-defense. Just that you should not teach them to practice offense.

Madaling sabihin yang dont resort to violence. Ang daling sabihin..... Not until it's your daughter being hit REPEATEDLY by a boy as Glenn manikis wrote EVEN AFTER complaining to the teacher, principal and parents already

im sure glenn's daughter knows the difference of being punched playfully or not.

sa traffic situation you can EASILY avoid controntation by stopping or re-routing. Mag-coffee ka muna sa nearest coffee shop to cool yourself. Paano kung start pa lang ng classes, binu-bully na anak mo? then you complain pero wala pa din? papa-hintuin mo ng isang taon ang anak mo? kahit ilipat pa ng section anak mo, madali pa rin siyang hanapin nung mga nagbu-bully sa kanya..... ang layo naman ng example mo

are you actually going to take the chance that your daughter may have a long term psychological/psychiatric impact which could resort to suicide due to prolong bullying?

ikaw na din ang nagsabi ng self defense. What glenn did in my opinion is correct. hitting back in self defense is one way to release steam and to avoid further bullying. this act indirectly states that: "Im hitting back because i want this bullying to end" and this would have a positive psychological effect on the one being bullied

Bullies have a herd mentality. If other bullies sees that one is weak, they will join the herd

[Ry_Tower]

You teach your child to hit back every time they're harrassed... then what?They start thinking that this is the way you respond to all setbacks in life.with your fists. When a jeepney driver hits your car, you answer. With your fists. When they swerve and almost hit your car, you answer with your fists. When they stop in the middle of the road, you answer with your fists. When an MMDA enforcer tells you off for doing something wrong...

Don't make your child resort to violence. This doesn't teach them justice, just violence. It's your responsibility to go to the school and demand that the teacher do something, or you'll pull your child from the school.

This is not to say you should not teach them self-defense. Just that you should not teach them to practice offense.

In the above context that I laid out (school unable to stop the teasing), it is not violence already but self-defense, ano pala gagawin niya, magsumbong na sa pulis.

And don't generalize (bold words) because it's a different context altogether. Apple to apple dapat. Yung jeepney driver ba araw-araw ka binangga? Yung paghinto sa gitna nang daan same driver and car din araw-araw? Lupit naman nun. Yung MMDA ganun din araw-araw? Baka may violation naman na hindi inaayos at very visible (no current LTO plate sticker) kaya obvious na palaging kang paparahin?


But it's just my opinion. I am not forcing anyone to follow how I raise my kid. I also respect all posters opinion. In that regard, this is my last post here. Baka mapalo eh. :peace:

[dg1110]

magsumbong na sa pulis.

Pwede niya isumbong kay SPO4 Dela Pena para makotongan naman yung Bully.

[Sweetlucious]

Ano itsura ni bantilles? Meron bang may picture?

[stickers]

it also happened to my daughter sinusuntok sya paulit ulit on different occasion sa braso nung boy na classmate nya, sinumbong na nya sa teacher paulit ulit pati sa principal pati parent kinausap ko na ganun pa din, kaya i told and teach my daughter if that boy hit him again.. punch him in the chin tinuruan ko pa kung papano sabi ko wag mo papaalam na susuntukin mo pag harap nya banatan mo agad....ayun bagsak yung lalaki, the teacher ask my daughter why she punch the boy? she said sabi ng dad ko suntukin ko na daw at wala naman ginagawa ang school para matigil ang pananakit... kaya ang pinatawag eh yung wife ko nalang.... pero sir maling mali ang ginawa ko at ituro ko sa anak, naging palaban tuloy sya sa classmates nya... dapat pala i asked the school to at least suspend the boy...

I think what you did was right. Even if isuspend pa ng school yung nagbubully sa anak mo, when he returns he'll just lash out more bullying. Teaching your kid self defense is just right. Sometimes you need to retaliate so that abuse on you would stop. The reason why bullying happens is because one allows it to happen over and over again.

Self defense is when you're being attacked, you fight back.

You teach your child to hit back every time they're harrassed... then what?They start thinking that this is the way you respond to all setbacks in life.with your fists. When a jeepney driver hits your car, you answer. With your fists. When they swerve and almost hit your car, you answer with your fists. When they stop in the middle of the road, you answer with your fists. When an MMDA enforcer tells you off for doing something wrong...

I've almost gotten into fist-fights on the road when I was younger... kasi yan yung natuto ko sa school. I'm not proud of that. Would you be?

Don't make your child resort to violence. This doesn't teach them justice, just violence. It's your responsibility to go to the school and demand that the teacher do something, or you'll pull your child from the school.

This is not to say you should not teach them self-defense. Just that you should not teach them to practice offense.

I agree with some context of your post but still would prefer that my child learns self defense. You have to learn to defend yourself specially when you're a girl. And furthermore, the way she would turn out may not be the same way you became who you are right now. Pwedeng iba intindi nya sa self defense at malaki ang difference nun sa violence... There is no self defense when there is no violence done upon you. You just have to let them know when to use self defense and when offensive acts becomes violence.

[niky]

Bullies have only one concern... To amuse themselves at the expense of others. A typical bully will not poke you to hurt you. They will poke you because they enjoy seeing you angry or uncomfortable. If they wanted to hurt you, they'd hit you. And I know a lot about being hit, as I was bullied by high schoolers since I was in first grade.

If you show discomfort, or even outrage, it makes them even happier. If you fight back, two things might happen. One, they will stop. But now you've got the reputation as a hot-head and a trouble maker, and become a social outcast (been there, done that), or two, they will take it as a challenge and ask you to step outside to settle the issue, mano y mano. (been there, done that)

Like I said, teach them self-defense, but don't encourage them to go on the offense. And remind them that there are consequences when they do.

[dg1110]

How can you not show discomfort if you are being pushed around, poked, or playfully being punched? Masyado naman ka-awa awa yung bata pag ganun.

If you stand up, I don't think other students will see you as a "hot-head" or trouble maker? E yung bully nga yung trouble maker? Mas lalo ka nga magiging OUTCAST pag binubully ka at not standing up. Other student will think you are weak or lame. Sabi nga nila, iba na panahon ngayon. Kita mo naman yung bullying sa internet, di tulad siguro nung tayo pa yung nasa school.

OT: Mukhang maganda ata lagyan ng Parenting Forum tong tsikot para di na ako lilipat ng forum.

[yapoy86]

it shows that bantilles family has serious family problems.. from father to son...