Would you change yourself to someone you're not, for the one you love?

[_Cathy_]

Yeah I do know some brats that have difficulty once they set out to the real world.

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[cpsolt]

nope... i won't change initially but as we go along, we may make compromises to make our relationship last and eventually become permanent. i don't believe in courtship. bet mo at kung bet ka... yun na. hehehe

[Ry_Tower]

In terms of attitude, habits (good or bad), etcetera (religion) ... are you willing to turn into someone you're not just to be accepted and loved back by the one you love?

It depends, but I think I will as long as it's for the betterment of myself and the relationship. Adapt and survive.

[SpiritRalf]

BIG NO... I will not change my personality just because of love. acceptance is the best key of love. hahaha

[Monseratto]

I'd rather be myself and be happy rather live a life of lies and be misreable...

[cardict]

In short ,magpakatotoo ka,wag maging plasticbumili ka ng isda tapos aasahan mo lasang lechon baboy

[_Cathy_]

But what if the person that you are changing yourself for is your source of happiness?

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[170kphlang]

if you can't see and accept me for who i am, then you're not worth it.

[uls]

Cathy: But what if the person that you are changing yourself for is your source of happiness?


will you be happy ba changing yourself to make someone else happy?

i think you'll answer "yes if the guy is happy then i'm happy?"

the i'll ask you "really? honestly? you're always controlling your behavior when he's around... di ka ba mahirapan niyan?"

[holdencaulfield]

ang pinapalitan lang sa pagkatao natin
panty at brip.
wala ng iba.

[1D4LV]

In terms of attitude, habits (good or bad), etcetera (religion) ... are you willing to turn into someone you're not just to be accepted and loved back by the one you love?

the decision to change should be for personal improvement..... it should not be for someone... otherwise, if that someone is lost, will you go back to your former self?

[SpiritRalf]

Anu ba ikinakatakot mo sa Ugali ng isang Tao? kaligayan Mo lang ba? then masasabi ko abnormal ka.

[CVT]

"A woman marries a man hoping he would change
A man marries a woman hoping she would not change
In the end, both comes out disappointed"



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[Retz]

mahirap yan, lalabas at lalabas pa din ang tunay na pagkatao natin.

[Patti]

Honestly when you're in a relationship natututo kang magcompromise but of course old habits are hard to break..if it's for the better then i'd probably say yes i'll change pero if it's something na ok naman and you see nothing wrong with it tapos gusto lang ng partner mo just because then i'll say no..ibang usapan na kasi yun..may question na sa pagkatao mo eh..One thing I've learned pag nainlove ka hindi pwedeng mawala yung voice mo..hindi pwedeng oo na lang ng oo..most of the time you have to let your partner know na hindi ka comfortable or you don't agree..hindi kasi pwedeng isa lang ang nagdedecide sa relationship..love without acceptance is worthless..you have to accept na each of you is different..you can't impose things sa partner mo..when you love someone hindi mo sila kailangan baguhin coz in the first place alam mo na ganun na sila e..you have to look past the imperfection only then na masasabi mong mahal mo talaga sya..no ifs no buts..

[Patti]

In short ,magpakatotoo ka,wag maging plasticbumili ka ng isda tapos aasahan mo lasang lechon baboy

Haha nagutom ako sa lechon pero seriously most people gustong baguhin yung partner nila tapos pag nafrustrate sila bigla na lang susuko..so sad

[cardict]

Haha nagutom ako sa lechon pero seriously most people gustong baguhin yung partner nila tapos pag nafrustrate sila bigla na lang susuko..so sad

And that's when people will ask where love had gone wrong

[Patti]

And that's when people will ask where love had gone wrong

yeah i agree..minsan kasi the other party is too proud to admit na mali sya..sasabihin pa na it's for your own good pero in reality gusto nya magfit ka sa picture ng ideal partner nya..acceptance is the key talaga for a lasting relationship and it goes hand in hand with trust and loyalty..

[badkuk]

It depends on what you plan to change i guess. If it's something like:

-- being a bit more tidy with your stuff,
-- putting your clothes in the hamper, not on the floor
-- stop watching too much ****(hopefully you can negotiate regular rounds of actual *** for this)


...the small stuff, then ok lang siguro, ikabubuti mo naman yan.


But if it's something deeper...

There's a scene in Neo Genesis Evangelion where the Shinji's friends were telling him how lucky he was for shacking up with Misato...to which he replied that Misato is actually a slob. His friends shot back, something to the effect that people only reveal their bad side to people they feel closest to, because they don't feel the need to pretend. It took a while but it made perfect sense to me

imho, come as you are. Hopefully your potential mate will accept you. Wala akong tiyaga makipagplastikan, especially with somebody who's supposed to be my better half ;)

[cardict]

It depends on what you plan to change i guess. If it's something like:

-- being a bit more tidy with your stuff,
-- putting your clothes in the hamper, not on the floor
-- stop watching too much ****(hopefully you can negotiate regular rounds of actual *** for this)


...the small stuff, then ok lang siguro, ikabubuti mo naman yan.


But if it's something deeper...

There's a scene in Neo Genesis Evangelion where the Shinji's friends were telling him how lucky he was for shacking up with Misato...to which he replied that Misato is actually a slob. His friends shot back, something to the effect that people only reveal their bad side to people they feel closest to, because they don't feel the need to pretend. It took a while but it made perfect sense to me

imho, come as you are. Hopefully your potential mate will accept you. Wala akong tiyaga makipagplastikan, especially with somebody who's supposed to be my better half ;)

So true that you just can bare all things for all the people to know,only to person/people so close to you