Is it OK for a woman these days...

[blutut]

Is it OK for a 25-year old woman to let a guy friend (not boyfriend) sleep in her apartment? No ***, separate rooms.

Would you consider this as indecent behaviour for the girl?

Philippine setting...

[GerardTagayty]

yes its ok. basta ba walang masamang nangyayare like cheating lalo na kung may bf yun girl. i used to do that a lot. sleep over a girl friends flat lalo na if im too lazy to drive home. pero kung total stranger yun patutulugin sa flat e ibang usapan na yun

[driven]

if there's a valid reason for the guy to do that, provided na dapat meron din ibang friends pa na kasama, i think ok lang...

[swimstroke]

Not my cup of tea

[van_wilder]

why naman walang mangyayari kung pwede naman meron! haha joke... okay lang yun. basta whatever makes you sleep at night, all good! wag nyo dapat isipin mga sabihin ng mga malisyoso na tao...

[CaMoTe!!!]

more details??? :D

[DFast&DFurious]

Bad idea. That would be way too risky for the girl.

Put it this way... if that girl was your sister, would you allow her? Coincidentally my youngest sister is 25 yrs old, and personally I wouldn't allow her to be in that situation, no matter how much I trust that guy. I care for her too much to put her in such a situation.

Sometimes our hormones have a bad habit of clouding our minds.

My 2 cents...

[blutut]

more details??? :D

ok ganito kasi yun...

Ako yun guy (single, currently no GF). Yung girl (single, currently no BF) kaklase ko. We've been going out since Dec last year...

Last Feb 14... ginabi kami sobra sa date... mga 3am na... so natulog nalang ako sa apartment niya... ayoko na mag-drive eh... actually kaya ko pa mag-drive pero mas OK matulog dun

Since then I've been sleeping at her place about once or twice a week. No ***, honest, just kissing and that sort of stuff...

She's not my girlfriend BTW... I'm not even sure yet if I want her to be my GF...

Eh ngayon meron mga nagsasabi na walang disenteng babae ang gumagawa nito... Para sakin sobrang conservative naman ng pananaw na ito...

So now I want your opinion on this matter...

[redorange]

Is it OK for a 25-year old woman to let a guy friend (not boyfriend) sleep in her apartment? No ***, separate rooms.

Would you consider this as indecent behaviour for the girl?

Philippine setting...

Based on this example I don't see anything indecent. She's an adult and knows the difference between right and wrong. You can't please everybody and they'll think whatever they want to think and you can't control it. Even in the eyes of God you haven't done anything wrong based on your example. Those people need to take their minds out of the gutter. Because they are the one's doing something wrong by judging others.

[roninblade]

25 years old na yung girl; she's an adult already. kung sister nyo pa yan or daughter wala na kayo pakialam sa decision nya magpatulog sa kanyang apartment. kung wala naman nangyayari, great! pero kung meron, let her live her life the way she wants to. you don't own her. reason and talk to her if she's doing anything wrong, but you don't have the right to dictate to her what to do and how to live her life.

[CVT]

Okay lang iyan.....

Pero pag anak ko iyong babae,..... hhhmmmmm......

2001:weathermanf2:

[evs_13]

nope... typical filipino kasi ako, may pagka conservative...

[mantoy]

basta ba single yung friend at unattached. baka kasi may asawa/gf eh ibang usapan na yan.