miss cathy, its 21st century today. people usually nowadays, meet up at the world wide web! wag ka kasi padadala sa fear of rejection mo. sabi ko nga, people here in tsikot accepted you, so as the people of tsikot will accept you who you really are. etong poll, its just one way na para magkakilala tayo lahat lahat na na-involve sa yo. mind you, i do really having fun here, meeting friends online, and eyeing a personal meet-up one day! at least my circle of friends is getting bigger. also, i was at your stage din before, left alone by my ex. fortunately, we're doing better than before. during those times, i'm with my friends, and entered tsikot once again and i was not bored. so in return, i would like to meet them. ganun lang yun... think of this as having fun lang, not to be serious of it