My Date's Dad Is Hitting On Me?

[_Cathy_]

Today I surprised my friend (date) by going to his house since I felt like he is getting tired of me I've known him for over a decade and we have a more or less 15 yr age difference.

We hung out for a while and when his Dad saw me, he asked to speak to me in the dining room and my friend left me with his Dad! His Dad is in his 80s and told me his whole career and some questions about me in over 1 hour. I thought he wanted to get to know me because of his son as he asked me to write my full name, mobile number and landline number.

What surprised me was when he said he is a lonely man since his wife died 2 years ago. He asked me if I knew any nurse or doctor that could take care of him ( I assume yun ang gusto niya makasama as partner) He then asked me if I could keep a secret. I said yes and then he told me that if he has a wife she will get a 100k+ allowance in a month He said he wanted 27 to 35 and then he asked my age I don't know what to make of his statement but when his Dad excused himself then asked for my hand under the table and gave me an envelope. I placed it on top of the table and he told me don't put it there but put it in my bag. He also asked me if we could have lunch at intercon on Saturday (giba na yun diba). I said I am going out with his son on Sunday and he could see me then.

He had other statements pa that felt awkward but the Dad was super nice and even split all of his food with me. He was very attentive about how full my glass is (his son is his opposite, walang paki).

Anyway, I checked the envelope when I got home and it had cash on it. WTF??? It's not a big amount but it's easy money for 1 hr of listening. hahaha! Now I don't know if I should tell my friend because I don't want to embarrass him of his Dad's actions (although he is aware naghahanap ng babae and he already told me his Dad is embarrassing ) He also told me I should not have worn a vneck top because his Dad will see it BUT I don't think he had any idea that his Dad would hit on me. WTF. Should I tell him or what? I also decided that I don't want to see him again, we were together half a day and he was so tired na

Early sign kaya ng Alzheimer's yun how the Dad acted?

[benchman]

Today I surprised my friend (date) by going to his house since I felt like he is getting tired of me I've known him for over a decade and we have a more or less 15 yr age difference.

We hung out for a while and when his Dad saw me, he asked to speak to me in the dining room and my friend left me with his Dad! His Dad is in his 80s and told me his whole career and some questions about me in over 1 hour. I thought he wanted to get to know me because of his son as he asked me to write my full name, mobile number and landline number. What surprised me was when he said he is a lonely man since his wife died 2 years ago. He asked me if I knew any nurse or doctor that could take care of him ( I assume yun ang gusto niya makasama as partner) He then asked me if I could keep a secret. I said yes and then he told me that if he has a wife she will get a 100k+ allowance in a year He said he wanted 27 to 35 and then he asked my age I don't know what to make of his statement but when his Dad excused himself then asked for my hand under the table and gave me an envelope. I placed it on top of the table and he told me don't put it there but put it in my bag. He also asked me if we could have lunch at intercon on Saturday (giba na yun diba). I said I am going out with his son on Sunday and he could see me then. He had other statements pa that felt awkward but the Dad was super nice and even split all of his food with me. He was very attentive about how full my glass is (his son is his opposite, walang paki).

Anyway, I checked the envelope when I got home and it had cash on it. WTF??? It's not a big amount but it's easy money for 1 hr of listening. hahaha! Now I don't know if I should tell my friend because I don't want to embarrass him of his Dad's actions (although he is aware naghahanap ng babae and he already told me his Dad is embarrassing ) He also told me I should not have worn a vneck top because his Dad will see it BUT I don't think he had any idea that his Dad would hit on me. WTF. Should I tell him or what? I also decided that I don't want to see him again, we were together half a day and he was so tired na

Early sign kaya ng Alzheimer's yun how the Dad acted?

i don't think so. sounds like he's in good mind still, though may pagka pilyo/loko.
you think your friend believe if you tell? what will happen next? medyo mahirap yan ah,,,,

[minicarph]

Baka drug money yan


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[shibby75]

Ganyan din byenan ko, buti na lang at walang pera. Hah nahuli ko sa facebook nya, di kasi marunong mag logout.

Sinumbong ko sa asawa ko, sikwester tuloy mga atm nya at pensyon.

[NiCe2KnowU]

Like father like son yan... Ingat, bakit single pa yung guy? Ano hanap nya


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[_Cathy_]

i don't think so. sounds like he's in good mind still, though may pagka pilyo/loko.
you think your friend believe if you tell? what will happen next? medyo mahirap yan ah,,,,

I think my friend is aware his dad is pilyo because he told me I should not have worn a vneck top because his Dad will see. I thought it was because his Dad is conservative.

Another problem is I don't wanna see him anymore, at least for a few months (ibang reason naman)

Sabi friend ko kung isosoli ko pera dapat sa Dad at hindi sa friend ko.

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[_Cathy_]

Like father like son yan... Ingat, bakit single pa yung guy? Ano hanap nya


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Babaero din yung guy. BF ko daw siya but introduced me as a friend to his dad. Hahaha.

He is also a little cuckoo pero magkasundo kami kasi sabi niya psycho din daw ako May barkada kami ka age niya tagal din niya pinaasa at inabot na ng menopause! He always says I'm different, he really likes me and I'm younger daw.

Meron palang 80s na pilyo pa rin? Wala nga daw tumatagal na nurse dun. Pati maid walang tumatagal.

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[StockEngine]

Ahhahahahhaha sorry ahhahahah not sorry hahahahha

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[_Cathy_]

Ahhahahahhaha sorry ahhahahah not sorry hahahahha

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If you're here to just troll on my thread please just leave. You obviously have something against me.

What's your problem with me anyway?

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[benchman]

I think my friend is aware his dad is pilyo because he told me I should not have worn a vneck top because his Dad will see. I thought it was because his Dad is conservative.

Another problem is I don't wanna see him anymore, at least for a few months (ibang reason naman)

Sabi friend ko kung isosoli ko pera dapat sa Dad at hindi sa friend ko.

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bastos nga ang dating diba? and i would keep distance if i were you.
yes, returning the money straight to dad is the best. but how?

[_Cathy_]

bastos nga ang dating diba? and i would keep distance if i were you.
yes, returning the money straight to dad is the best. but how?

Di naman bastos pagkasabi ng friend ko pero I understood his concern when I talked to his Dad. Although his Dad never glanced on my chest. He was looking at my face the whole time.

Naisip ko kasi baka Alzheimer's or dementia na. Gagawin ba ng matino yun tapos ex politician pa Dad niya and still active in public service.

Di kaya testing lang ako dad niya kung mukha akong pera. Haha. Pero I don't think I look like a gold digger naman since I have a good job.

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[bugsmobile]

Maybe tip niya lang yun for the gfe hehe

[benchman]

Di naman bastos pagkasabi ng friend ko pero I understood his concern when I talked to his Dad. Although his Dad never glanced on my chest. He was looking at my face the whole time.

Naisip ko kasi baka Alzheimer's or dementia na. Gagawin ba ng matino yun tapos ex politician pa Dad niya and still active in public service.

Di kaya testing lang ako dad niya kung mukha akong pera. Haha. Pero I don't think I look like a gold digger naman since I have a good job.

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i meant how his dad acted.
just testing or not,,, bastos pa rin yun eh.
doesn't matter if he's politician or what, that simply shows/tells how rude he was. machismo syndrome?

[ninjababez]

i don't think so. sounds like he's in good mind still, though may pagka pilyo/loko.
you think your friend believe if you tell? what will happen next? medyo mahirap yan ah,,,,

ayaw ko maging ganyan pagtanda ko O_o

[benchman]

ayaw ko maging ganyan pagtanda ko O_o

minsan na nga pala kita natawag na pilyo...

[_Cathy_]

i meant how his dad acted.
just testing or not,,, bastos pa rin yun eh.
doesn't matter if he's politician or what, that simply shows/tells how rude he was. machismo syndrome?

I expected more from a politician kasi they are public servants.

Tingin ata women are objects that can be bought. Aside from that he was very nice. Tawag nga sakin sweetheart But I suppose that is how he calls women lang talaga.

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[_Cathy_]

Maybe tip niya lang yun for the gfe hehe

Naisip ko nga baka natuwa kasi ako lang ata nakausap niya ng 1 oras na nakinig talaga sa kanya. Nag reklamo din siya sa laki ng gastos niya sa anak niya (friend ko)

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[dr. d]

on second thought, there may be two ways to look at it.

first, he may be trying to hit on you.
in which case, gift-wrap the money and return it to him.
or, send him a greeting card, saying "the Sisters of Charity thank you for your kind donation to the cause".
he will get the message.

the other interpretation is, he is asking you to be the talent scout. and that money is down payment for either you, for your efforts, your scouted talent, or both of you. in which case, you may also return the money in nice gift-wrapping, saying you can't do it as you are too busy.

good luck.

[benchman]

I expected more from a politician kasi they are public servants.

Tingin ata women are objects that can be bought. Aside from that he was very nice. Tawag nga sakin sweetheart But I suppose that is how he calls women lang talaga.

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hindi ko nilalahat, may mga politicians na simpleng bastos.
and yes, maybe they have thoughts that they can buy anything.

[_Cathy_]

Another problem is I don't wanna see his son muna. Kahit nagkatuluyan kami parang ang awkward with his dad around

Do normal 80 yr olds do that?!?

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