What to do on a wife-cheating friend.

[3GEMS]

Mabarkada akong tao, Kung gf gf lng wala kang malalaman sakin kahit pitpit mo pa si junior.. Pero kung kasal na ibang usapan na...
Pag sabihan mo barkada mo kaw lang pinapakinggan nan for sure,
Ayaw ko din naman makita tropa ko with broken family...
Kung ayaw makinig suntukin mo mukha tipong mababasag malay mo magising sa katotohanan...

[shadow]

basta ako alam nila I will not stand by them if they did something stupid and I'm expecting the same treatment from them pag gumawa ako na kalokohan or illegal...they don't need to cover for me nor defend me.

and I expect that if nobody's asking, they dont need to talk, but if they are being questioned, they can just tell the truth, no need to lie for my stupidity.

[renzo_d10]

hirap pala maging kaibigan si shadow, dali tumiklop....:bwahaha:

[Walter]

Your loyalty should be with your friend, you only knew the wife through him. The wife knew your friend was a womanizer, yet she took the risk. Love is blind, women are stupid when it comes to love (also some men). BUT I will not lie for him in this case, if wife asks, I tell. Although I think the wife already knows the reason, she just doesn't want to accept the truth.

[pop3corn]

Hello! need some inputs on my dilemma regarding my friend.
May tropa akong lalaki (mula college tropa na kami). I can consider him as one of my best bud. Since antagal na din na namin magkakilala alam na namin ang baho ng isa't isa. Sa tropa siya ang frontman namin whenever we go out, he got the looks ika nga! kaya he's our bait whenever we hit on girls. He got married last december he, he married her long-time GF 1st year college pa lang kami sila na. I've seen their relationship grow the ups and down, i can consider her wife as tropa na din. To cut the long story short he's an effin womanizer. Seeing all the girls he dated/hooked-up/(whatever term applies) while he's committed with her gf magaganda lahat! tulo laway nga kami. Syempre nun tropa-tropa mga lalaki is takipan ng kalokohan yan, lahat ng pagkunsinte namin sa isat isa ginagawa namin. May times nahuhuli siya ng GF niya so andami ng chances ang binigay siguro sa pagmamahal na din nung babae. Nakakaawa man, siguro the girl believes na magbabago siya. Ako din i hoped and believed na baka after his wedding magbabago na siya, but i guess i'm wrong. He still does what he does best! Actually im aware of his affair with an officemate prior to his wedding, as a friend i gave him advice na dapat putulin na niya bago siya isakal ay ikasal pala. I thought he know where he should stand, kaso napasama lalo after his wedding lalo siya nagloko. He left his wife already giving his wife no reasons kung bakit siya nakikipaghiwalay. Her wife being naive still cant consider na baka may babae siya.

Now my problem is saken lumalapit wife niya, asking whats the real score sa buhay ng asawa niya. Kung may babae ba talaga, ano pinagkakalokohan etc.

Both of them are my friend kaya im torn. Nakakaawa yung girl since parang ligaw siya, wala siyang closure wala siyang idea kung bakit nag end-up ng ganun she wants to move on. Gusto ko man ilaglag yun tropa ko, ang sakin naman is ayoko makaapekto sa outcome ng decision niya it might end up na masira sila totally pag sinabi ko yun totoo. I've done my part, talk to my guy friend asking him what his plans is pero mukhang enjoy pa siya sa company nung isa kaya sabi ko na lang malaki ka na alam mo na yung tama at mali. Still he reminded me na andun pa din yun usapang lalaki na walang laglagan.

If you were on my shoes.. what to do? should i tell his wife?

kung lumalalapit sa'yo yun wife nya, sayo may gusto yun believe me. magaling din umistyle mga babae tsong. may hidden agenda yan parang damsel in distress. kasi ang totoong galit ng asawa, direct confrontation yan, di na kelangan dumaan pa sayo

ngaun nasasayo na lang kung gusto mo patulan, kasi parang movies kayo nyan eh. pero kung ako lang bro, since best friend ko yun womanizer, eh as much as possible didistansya ako dyan.

[Chikselog]

^Agree. May hangganan din yang "walang laglagan" na yan. Di naman palaging tama na walang laglagan. Put it to the extreme situation, pag nalaman mo bang friend mo pinatay si ganyan, di mo isusumbong sa pulis sa ngalan ng friendship? I don't think so.

[pop3corn]

ang kailangan dyan i-beat mo eh yun mga possible imagination ng subconscious mo sa wife nya. kasi by asking your help, nagkarun na kayo ng connection.

kung minsan kasi kahit sobrang pinipigil or shoving it off at the back of your head, lalong lumalabas ang mga what ifs. tapos
magugulat ka na lang mapapanaginipan mo yun wife nya. pag napanaginipan mo kasi sya na hindi mo naman sya naalala, ibig sabihin kasi nun iniisip ka nya. and that's were it starts to get complicated

[timrev]

ang kailangan dyan i-beat mo eh yun mga possible imagination ng subconscious mo sa wife nya. kasi by asking your help, nagkarun na kayo ng connection.

kung minsan kasi kahit sobrang pinipigil or shoving it off at the back of your head, lalong lumalabas ang mga what ifs. tapos
magugulat ka na lang mapapanaginipan mo yun wife nya. pag napanaginipan mo kasi sya na hindi mo naman sya naalala, ibig sabihin kasi nun iniisip ka nya. and that's were it starts to get complicated

kung katulad karin ng katropa mo taz malibog pa...naku iba talaga tatakbo sa isip mo...lalo na kung HOT,***y,maganda wife ng fren mo...hahahaha distansya amigo...

[pop3corn]

kung katulad karin ng katropa mo taz malibog pa...naku iba talaga tatakbo sa isip mo...lalo na kung HOT,***y,maganda wife ng fren mo...hahahaha distansya amigo...

malamang ***y yan wife na yan nun womanizer kasi yun pinili nya paksalan eh. kaya lalo siguro dilemma TS. to TS, pls. don't entertain such thoughts, kahit na may anak na yan or HoT Mama, and she's vulnerable right now and she's practically depending on your inputs, wag pls TS

[dondonposadas]

Agree, distasya ka lang ts. Sangayon din ako na walang laglagan mahirap ng ma-tag na squiler ng tropa.

[shadow]

Ganyan problema pag nagtatakipan, follow my advice this time tell your friend you're not gonna tell his wife but next time she come asking you'll tell na.

Mabilis kasi sabihin ngayon na cover for your friend no matter what, dahil not really a biggie.

But what if he did really something illegal? Rape, murder, drugs etc Will you still be covering for him?

So have a clear cut boundaries, he can still do his marrying ways but he should know the consequences

I don't want them to compromise themselves just bec of my stupidity.

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[hein]

Ganyan problema pag nagtatakipan, follow my advice this time tell your friend you're not gonna tell his wife but next time she come asking you'll tell na.

Mabilis kasi sabihin ngayon na cover for your friend no matter what, dahil not really a biggie.

But what if he did really something illegal? Rape, murder, drugs etc Will you still be covering for him?

Sobra ka exaggerated naman equating infidelity it to Heinous Crimes.

FYI, almost 50% of Pinoy males cheat at one point, so all of them has to go to Jail for life?

The Duty of a good friend is to provide a buffer. In the end, it is his SOLE decision on how to treat his marriage. NOT YOURS.

And you DO NOT THREATEN, "Telling your friend you're not gonna tell his wife but next time she come asking you'll tell na."

Para ka naman, Softee Chu-chu.

[galant E SS]

Sobra ka exaggerated naman equating infidelity it to Heinous Crimes.

FYI, almost 50% of Pinoy males cheat at one point, so all of them has to go to Jail for life?

The Duty of a good friend is to provide a buffer. In the end, it is his SOLE decision on how to treat his marriage. NOT YOURS.

And you DO NOT THREATEN, "Telling your friend you're not gonna tell his wife but next time she come asking you'll tell na."

Para ka naman, Softee Chu-chu.

[CVT]

Sabihin mo sa kaibigan mo na tigilan na niya ang mga kalokohan niya... Pero IMO, hindi na iyan magbabago....

Then, slowly distance yourself away from him and his wife... You could not forever cover for him... Alam naman niyang mali ang ginagawa niya... At, ganuon din,- alam ng babae ang mga kabalastvg*n niya....

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[jansky]

Tell to the wife as far you know your friend is a straight guy, tell to ur friend that you will keep distance as long as gumagawa sya ng kalokohan

[niwde11]

Tell to the wife as far you know your friend is a straight guy, tell to ur friend that you will keep distance as long as gumagawa sya ng kalokohan

agree. tablahin nyo yung friend mo pag di marunong magdala ng pamilya. makakahalata yun for sure.

[jansky]

Fyi pogi po so chua_riwap

[holdencaulfield]

jejeje! ngayon ko lang nakita ito ah.

gusto niyong pumasok sa pinaka-magulong kabanata ng buhay niyo?
makisawsaw kayo sa ganitong uri ng problema.

mas magulo pa sa bulb0l yang panghihimasukan niyo. pramis.

[holdencaulfield]

curious lang ako sa mga pics nato....ano ginagawa nitong lalaking nasa likod?

ayan oh?
napapikit pa tuloy sa sarap si bunso.



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[CVT]

curious lang ako sa mga pics nato....ano ginagawa nitong lalaking nasa likod?

ayan oh?
napapikit pa tuloy sa sarap si bunso.

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Bro.,- kulang iyang mga pics na iyan....

May mga body shots iyan... May chic sa harapan ni bunsoy na hinahalikan ang kanyang nips.. :naughty2:

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