Is there such a thing as a rebound relationship?

[Patti]

What's your take on this?

[madduck]

it happens. you're used to having someone around and then suddenly things change so you'll try to look for someone to be with.

[CVT]

"Rebound" Relationships | Psychology Today



Dangerous Sis....

A person might be considered on the rebound if he or she becomes involved in a relationship that shortly follows the ending of a previous one. Those on the rebound are assumed to have distress as a result of their prior relationship, and therefore their emotional availability is in question. Commonly it is assumed that if you are on the rebound you do not have the capacity to make good decisions about a choice of partner because your feelings about your previous partner influence your decision-making. Thus, if you are dating someone who is rebounding, you may wonder if that person is capable of emotional attachment or if you are, instead, simply a substitute for love that was lost.

Another concern of those who date rebounding people is the potential for neediness to determine the connection rather than actual interest. Certainly there are cases where a fear of being without a partner, rather than genuine attraction and emotional connection, motivates someone to immediately enter into a new relationship.

Those on the rebound may harbor resentment toward the previous partner and experience anger as a result of shame. But such negative emotions regarding a previous partner maintain a tie to them. Anger toward an ex-partner may interfere with attachment to a current one, as well as put a current partner in the uncomfortable position of competing with the ghost of what remains of the past relationship and wondering if the new partner’s interest in, or excitement about, the new relationship is enough to provide fulfillment.

In contrast, some potential partners on the rebound do not bring up the relationship that recently ended, nor do they expose any emotions surrounding the dissolution. A partner’s failure to openly discuss a previous partner does not necessarily represent an indication of continued attachment to them. In such circumstances it is often the new partner whose anxiety about the attachment leads them to focus on the previous relationship of the person with whom he or she is involved, especially when the previous relationship is very recent history.

The rebound relationship, it is believed, takes up the space that was left by the previous relationship and provides both stability and distraction from loss rather than a working through. According to this way of thinking, a person should “get over” the loss of a relationship before moving on to the next one, which negates the potential for healing and learning that occurs within the contrast of a new relationship. A rebound relationship may mitigate the hurt, shame, and pain of a break-up. Nevertheless, when a person loses a connection, it is through connecting that recovery takes place. Focusing on someone new, according to the limited research on the subject of rebound relationships, can help a person recover from a break-up (Spielmann, S., Macdonald, G., & Wilson, A., 2009). This does not necessarily mean that the new relationship is valued less than the previous one. In fact, the new relationship can prove to have far greater worth than the previous relationship since it is through the comparison of need satisfaction that fulfillment is judged. Time between relationships is not necessary for psychological well-being. People need connection, and moving on can help you get over what has to be left behind.

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[renzo_d10]

Hi Sis., welcome back!

BTT: Meron talaga. Lalo na kapag kakabreak palang meron na ulit bago, most likely rebound yun.

[Walter]

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[Walter]

Hi Sis., welcome back!

BTT: Meron talaga. Lalo na kapag kakabreak palang meron na ulit bago, most likely rebound yun.

Or your mother just passed away and you go see 4 u to talk to and hug and ...

[_Cathy_]

Ha ha ha! I like your sense of humour

[Ry_Tower]

Yes may ganyan nga. Kaya madali mapasagot yung mga kaka-break lang.

[ClaNker]

Rebound? Alam sa basketball lang meron nyan. Rebound mo then dribble sabay shoot.

[NiCe2KnowU]

maraming naiiskorang tsiks sa ganyang situation lalo na pag paawa effect :rofl: