Can you tell a man's "ugali" by the way he treats his mom, sisters or other women?

[ricasantos18]

May sinabi kasi ang friend ko sa akin about this. From your point of view, does the way a man treat other women or more specially his mom and sisters reflect how he is going to be with a girlfriend or wife?

What are the things to watch out for? I noticed kasi that this forum is mostly male and was wondering what you guys think.

How should a man treat a woman? Or how would you expect a woman to behave?:iron::cosmo::butterfly::dishwash::king2:

[Jun aka Pekto]

does the way a man treat other women or more specially his mom and sisters reflect how he is going to be with a girlfriend or wife?

Not me. I fought with my sister all the time (sibling rivalry, nothing really bad) when we were younger. I disagreed a lot with my mom. I also get turned off (no attraction whatsoever) by women who look like my mom or sister.

And yet, I put my wife on a pedestal. I dunno if that makes any sense. Oh well. Those are my instincts.

[uls]

No.

But u can tell a man's character by the way he treats the waiter

[Lucius]

Di mo na isipin yun pag nagpa-kiss ka na sa kanya hehehe

[Type 100]

+1 ako sa previous replies. I frequently disagree with my mom because I butt heads with people who think they know everything but obviously don't, and are all superstition and hearsay. Used to fight a lot with my sister when I was a kid also (but we're cool now).

Uls is right. A better reflection of what a guy's real behavior is is how he treats subordinates like your friendly restaurant waiter.

[ricasantos18]

So that "kasabihan" that a man should be judged that way is not all to correct. What is the ideal way he should treat a waiter? Tips? being buddy, buddy.

Different guys kasi treat waiters differently or even indifferently.

Plus could the guys I go out with be trying to impress me with the way they tip but when my back is turned behave otherwise.

Is there a candid behavior to watch out for? Like road manners for example?

[uls]

Ung sa waiter thing is just an example

Basically, u can tell a man's character by how he treats people who are less fortunate in life than him,

I mean, meron kasi mga tao who are only nice to people who are bigtime. Or those who are richer than him. Pag mas poor sa kanya, he treats them bad.

Or pag tingin nya di nya kalevel, he treats them badly.

Like there are guys who treat security guards badly, pero pag kaharap ang CEO sobra bait.

There are people who shout at other people's secretaries. Tapos pag kaharap ang boss, bigla mabait.

Yan lang point ko

[ricasantos18]

I went out with this guy once who was generally okay with people who were his subordinates as you call them pero palagi niya pinapagalitan ang driver niya. Pasaway daw kasi. Doesn't follow road rules. Would take a longer route than necessary (according to him of course). The guy would sometimes lose his cool in front of the driver. But in fairness to the guy the driver even bumped the car several times. Gasgas nga lang but it infuriated the guy. Is the guy in the wrong pag ganito? How should it have been handled if so?

[jedi]

i deleted the side comments against the TS, wala akong nakikita mali sa thread na ito... Tcash is also disabled sa pitstop kaya there is no reason that the intention of the TS is just to gain tcash points.

again ... if there is a problem regarding a certain post or thread, please use the "report a thread" feature and the mods will review it.

thank you.

now lets go back to the topic

[uls]

syempre depende yan.

Pag may reason naman magalit ung amo, di naman siguro mali yan.

pero kung di ka naman inaano, tapos sinisigaw-sigawan mo ung tao, tama ba yun?

Kaya ganun ang ibang tao, kasi alam nila di kaya lumaban or walang laban ung inaapi nila.

Pag alam mo walang laban ang tao, does that mean basta ka nalang mag powertrip?

[ricasantos18]

i deleted the side comments against the TS, wala akong nakikita mali sa thread na ito... Tcash is also disabled sa pitstop kaya there is no reason that the intention of the TS is just to gain tcash points.

again ... if there is a problem regarding a certain post or thread, please use the "report a thread" feature and the mods will review it.

thank you.

now lets go back to the topic

Sorry am confused. What side comments? Did I say something to offend someone? Sorry if I did guys.

Thanks din Jedi for standing up for me. You are a gentleman. Maybe the kind of guy who does treat others well as the others mentioned.

OT: What is tcash?

[mazdamazda]

I bet you guys after a few more days (or posts) my deleted side comment would have been justified.

:obvious:

:hysterical:

[Galactus]

Sorry am confused. What side comments? Did I say something to offend someone? Sorry if I did guys.

Thanks din Jedi for standing up for me. You are a gentleman. Maybe the kind of guy who does treat others well as the others mentioned.

OT: What is tcash?

This is how you play possum. He/She may have fooled the others, but not me.

OB, for the love of God, get back to school and graduate!

[Bogeyman]

This being a car forum, some say you can gauge a man's character by how he treats his ride.

On an unrelated note, you can also measure a man's character by the lengths he'll go to just to troll on the boards, banned accounts notwithstanding.

OB, for the love of God, get back to school and graduate!

Quick, ask him/her how s/he feels about the Santa Fe. Baka dun natin ma-confirm kung sino talaga siya.

[wewoy_romero]

"If you want to know what a man's like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals." -- Sirius Black, HP atGoF


OT: sino ba itong si OB/oldblue?

[Lucius]

"If you want to know what a man's like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals." -- Sirius Black, HP atGoF


OT: sino ba itong si OB/oldblue?

He's everyone's bestfriend here. Galing sya sa Hollow Earth

[wildthing]

mga bossing OT na po kayo.... ke si OB or not ang TS.

BTT

IMO It is both yes and no.

Ugali can change - but normally pag matanda na.... it would really take a miracle or a near-death experience for somebody to change their ugali. Improve may be a better term than change.

For obvious reasons, if the person (ke babae o lalake pa yan) really shows a bad ugali... expect the worst na yan... pag yan ang nakapiling mo habang buhay....

Sa buhay ng isang "single" trying to look for a mate for possible future marriage - the courtship, BF-GF stage and sometimes (although not suggested) the live-in stages would really help in revealing all these ugali.

[Hanren]

May sinabi kasi ang friend ko sa akin about this. From your point of view, does the way a man treat other women or more specially his mom and sisters reflect how he is going to be with a girlfriend or wife?

No. That's tantamount to being judgemental..

[Type 100]

No. That's tantamount to being judgemental..

+1.

That approach doesn't take into account any existing problems or disagreements between the guy and his mom/sister/other women.

[b1rken5tock]

not necessarily, but it is a good clue... anong "ugali" ba ang ang pinag uusapan dito?

i.e. kung bang bastos sa magulang at kapatid e malamang bastos sya talaga...

at kung walang respeto sa magulang at kapatid, would you expect him to respect other people?

if let say I hate my parents and siblings so much, I'll will just stay away from them para walang confrontation... pero yung aawayin/babastusin.. inde na... what is the point in that..

OT.. sa mga OB/Troll hunters... if u think a TS is a TROLL/OB.. may I suggest not replying to the post...my 1p lang po...mangungunsumi lang kayo..kukulubot ang mukha at tatanda agad...