tell a guy you like him, right or wrong?

[mazdamazda]

ask him indirectly...

[city]

this is a tough one. on one hand, it's refreshing for a guy to meet a girl who won't make him go through all the bullshit of courtship before she lets him know she's interested.

on the other hand, you have to be sure that he likes you back and is basically honorable. if not, you're leaving yourself open to being used. i'm ashamed to admit it, but in my single days i would go after girls who i knew/someone told me that they liked me - whether or not i actually liked them - because i knew that they were "low-hanging fruit" (in other words, easy to pick up, heehee). pero gagamitin ko lang sila and lose interest quickly.

yes, i'm probably going to hell :evillaugh

you are!....devil!......hahaha

[baiskee]

sino ba yan CG? hindi ba si blueboy?

[wrcastro_ph]

Don't tell him....... Show it to Him....If he falls? You'll be happy ... and If not? you have to accept the truth.

[wrxsti]

its ok to tell him. but sometimes there is a lot of complications. like when you value the friendship so much that it makes you afraid to ask these type of questions. or sometimes you wished that you have known him or her much earlier when there would be less complications.

just venting....I know that she likes me, I know that she knows that I like her but we just can't have an intimate relationship because of a lot of factors. Just have to accept that maybe platonic is the only thing we can be.

[creepy]

sino ba yan CG? hindi ba si blueboy?

Oo nga.

This thread makes one think of this other thread:

http://tsikot.yehey.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26109

Si wrxsti kaya??

[stinkaboy]

sabihin mo na lg sa kanya yung medyo pabiro lg tas sabay sabi..seryoso ako .Malay mo gusto ka din nya.

[uls]

tell the guy u like him. If he likes u din, mabuti... kung ayaw nya, di wag.

kesa wonder woman ka... always wondering if he likes u or what could have been...

[wren]

some men are hunters, you take away the thrill of the hunt, and they may lose interest. but it doesn't hurt to give him subtle hints about your attraction to him. flirting is always a good way to feel out his interest, if he flirts back, most likely, he's interested.

[quiksie]

flirt around and always make jokes or parinig.

Taga tsikot ba? hihi

[alwayz_yummy]

sa initial d 4th stage, diba ung girl ang somewhat nagpropose sa guy...(hehe, nasingit ko pa anime!ung driver ng black FD and driver ng yellow FD(forgot the names as of this moment...)

pero for me, ha, wag mo i-direct to the point..iba pag girl ang nagtapat, baka ma-take advantage ka pa nyan...paramdam mo muna, at ipahiwatig mo nararamdaman mo in a discreet way...coz, kung sakaling di ka nya gusto, malay mo, magustuhan ka din nya...kung type ka naman nya, di ka nya ma-tetake-advantage...

iba pag girl sa boy.....pag sa boy, kasi kalimitan dapat ipahiwatig mo visually and verbally...pag sa girl, discreetly, para may finesse..

[cutedoc]

ive been ask several times, hehehe my opinion eto:
first analyze the attitude of the guy you are to profess your "likeness" with, if you think the attitude of the guy is not the fresh type, if the guy is down to earth, understansing, and analyze and rationalyze things properly, friendly then go ahead teel him you like him, it wont make you less a girl or less a human, nasabihan na ako several times, from teacher, to a friends, to acquaintances, i am flattered that they see the good in me, sana si ate v makita din yun, hehehe back to topic

if you think you could handle the pros and cons after saying it then by all means go ahead, profess you interest, kung matino yun guy like me, kung di man maging kayo or di ka ligawan, at least you had the courage to say what you feel, at least friend pa din kayo nun guy, malay mo it might start from there...

but dont expect a positive resposnd from him, enough na nasabi mu, and for me bilib ako sa babae na kaya gawin yun=)

[Flagg]

Aba sir m54, wala tricks with popcorn or touching? I believe purgatory lang sayo.

Madame cargirl, oks lang to tell, hindi naman parang nanliligaw ka e. There's nothing wrong with, "ang saya mo talaga kasama!" or "it's so nice being with you." Pero kung si blueboy nga yan, pls ingat ka kasi, ang dami na nyan alam tricks.

Kung shy ka, maganda din yung mysterious style ni Glennster.

[ian_rex]

para sa akin, it's a no-no... pwede mo iparamdam, pero don't ever tell unless you were asked by this famous line "ano ba tayo talaga"... ang lalaki kasi, kala mo minsan manhid, pero merong iba na nakaka-appreciate nang mga maliliit na bagay. pwede mo syang lambingin but don't attach yourself too much. baka masaktan ka lang... :D

[chua_riwap]

is it ok, or not, to tell a guy you like him...

he's nice, sweet, thoughtful & caring... i like him, but don't wanna fall 'coz i don't want to get hurt.

what should be done??

Baka yung nasa kabilang thread yung guy na ito ah.

Sino yung guy, si WRXSTI?

[bilog]

if you know the guy well enough you should be able to determine if he is the type to take advantage after your confession... But be very careful, once you confessed you are making yourself vulnerable. hay LOVE life mahirap talaga sagutin ang ganyang klaseng tanong. Sa bandang huli ikaw pa rin ang magdedesisyon.

[Dinxx]

...that's how my Gf got me

[CaRGirL]

as much as i really want to tell him, hindi ko alam magiging reaction nya. natatakot ako na pagsinabi ko, baka bigla na sya magbago or magkahiyaan na or what... hindi ko tuloy alam gagawin ko. everytime na magkasama or nagkikita kami, my feeling just becomes divided into two: liking him and trying to keep myself from liking him. confusing ito... haaay... he is about to resign our company in 2 weeks and hindi na kami madalas magkikita, hindi ko alam kung dapat ko ba sabihin o hindi e... =((

and another thing, if hindi man maging maganda ang outcome kung sasabihin ko, sayang yung friendship e... haaaay... =((

baiskee:: hindi ko nga kilala yun e. hehehe
quiksie:: hindi po... officemate po
flagg:: i already told him (thru text) yung mga ganung type of messages, sana na-gets nya...

salamat din po sa lahat ng mga nagbigay ng comments nila. im still thinking it over...

[ss3wiper]

Caution...Danger...Danger!!!!

[Flagg]

Ah, nasabi mo na pala e. Wow... napaka-dedma naman guy na yan. Kung ako yun, na da moves na kita.

Hmmm... mas maganda (for me) tahimik nalang you, pero kung feel na feel mo & talagang di na you mapakali, go ahead! Mga guy (at least, me & lahat ng kilala ko), di naman umiiwas sa girl kapag sinabihan e. Friends pa rin. Unless magiging obsessive fatal attraction-type you, di naman siguro 'no?

Btw, hindi ako kasin-menyek ni sir idol M54.