Poll: Is It Better To Have Loved and Lost, Than Never Loved Before?

[mmanson]

yes oh yes.sarap ng feeling pag naiinlab. and sometimes, you really need to lose someone before you realize how important they are to you. sakit pero worth it. i've become a better person after that.

tapos may maikukwento ka pa sa mga apo mo balang araw

[the_wildthing]

I think the right words are:

It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.

And the answer is yes.

No regrets. No what ifs.

But on the other hand, so many girls, so little time. :naughty2:

[rhops]

yes for me. At least theres no regrets and always thinking kung bakit pinalampas mo yung chance. We need to move on no matter what its a matter of how and when, depens really on you. Important thing is u should a learned something from your previous mistakes or shortcomings and not be a mistake by yourself

[Flagg]

Is there anyone here who honestly wants to be a 40-year old virgin?

[mayana]

Is there anyone here who honestly wants to be a 40-year old virgin?

I know someone who is a 40-year-old CVSB.

[GerardTagayty]

yes definitely

[wrcastro_ph]

Ito yung kasabihan sa tagalog na " MAS MABUTI PANG UMIBIG AT MASAWI KESA DI NA MULING UMIBIG"

.... meaning ... try and try until you die !!!! hahahahah

[Memphis Raines]

Is there anyone here who honestly wants to be a 40-year old virgin?

Dito sa atin tawag dyan ay 40-year old torpe.

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It's definitely better if you gave it your all rather than wondering for the rest of your life what might have been.

[flex]

of course!

I'd rather have tried than spend the rest of life thinking of "what ifs"

[VtEC]

a big YES ang reply ko dyan.you will be missing alot kung dimo mararanasan yan he he he

[MACpod]

oo naman! just had a recent one. tremendously hurt and devastated. but have learned so much from it.

[ooba99]

Of course, it is better to have loved. Pero mas magaganda sana kung you retain it and keep on loving, di ba? Kaya lang wala sa mga choices eh.

[Automahn]

yes. you become a better person after an unsuccesful relationship... you try to build on your shortcomings for your future love.

yes.....masakit, lalo na pag kakahiwalay palang....

i agree with outmap -> it is until you lose someone you truly love.

from my point of view, easily saying it is better to have loved and lost might simply mean that the people you have "loved and lost" "might" not be ones you really, really loved. i have "loved and lost" many times. but this one particular time, i wish i have never met her.

Aahhh yes...

Tis better to have loved and lost...

Only when one has felt the pain of losing someone in the past, can they learn to truly cherish the one in their arms at the moment...

So to those who are in love right now, cherish each moment...

You will never know what destiny will bring you tomorrow, but the present is yours for the taking, so love the ones you love as if there's no tomorrow...

yes oh yes.sarap ng feeling pag naiinlab. and sometimes, you really need to lose someone before you realize how important they are to you. sakit pero worth it. i've become a better person after that.

tapos may maikukwento ka pa sa mga apo mo balang araw

Teka, teka. Di ba ang ibig sabihin ng "lost" dito ay yung natalo/nasawi at di yung "lost" na nawala? This saying is basically about unrequited love and not about 2 lovers separating.

[Galant_VR_94]

Of course

Id rather spend my life knowing that i was able to have loved somebody rather than thinking of the all the "what might have been" in my life.

No regrets....

[cutiepinks888]

syempre...

firstly, you save yourself from all the "what ifs" that clogs your mind.. then you fell in love, and there's no better feeling than falling in love diba? at kahit ano pa ang ending ng love story mo, you should always think of the good times para you won't feel any regrets.

and i guess nothing else makes you stronger and wiser than learning from your mistakes... so when the next "encounter" comes along, you'll do better, for sure.

[Type 100]

I'd say yes. If you lost, there's at least closure. If "ewan"....... the question will always nag for life like the case with my HS crush for example.....

I mean it'd be nice if I can find answers to other nagging questions I've had since childhood like how the Voltes V and Starblazers sagas ended. All I had to do was search the internet. With love, it's not that easy. A lot of what ifs remain with my HS crush to this day and I have only myself to fault.

Very well said. I have to agree with this. "Closure" is so, so hard to attain with some people.

[nostalgia]

Better to have loved and lost (at least you know youre not a robot yet, you can still feel the pain and know how to love) than keep wondering how does it feel to love and be loved. sometimes, we need to take sacrifices in order for us to be fulfilled. even that means of getting hurt, these experiences make us a better person.