Poll: Is It Better To Have Loved and Lost, Than Never Loved Before?

**badkuk** · February 24th, 2007 07:18 PM

be honest B)

**jasprit** · February 24th, 2007 07:35 PM

no brainer my answer will definetly be YES!!!!

**Jun aka Pekto** · February 24th, 2007 08:57 PM

I'd say yes. If you lost, there's at least closure. If "ewan"....... the question will always nag for life like the case with my HS crush for example.....

I mean it'd be nice if I can find answers to other nagging questions I've had since childhood like how the Voltes V and Starblazers sagas ended. All I had to do was search the internet. With love, it's not that easy. A lot of what ifs remain with my HS crush to this day and I have only myself to fault.

**empy** · February 24th, 2007 10:31 PM

it's better to have loved and lost, as long as the losses don't include your house, your car and half your bank account :hihihi:

**pup2** · February 25th, 2007 12:19 AM

Originally Posted by M54 Powered

it's better to have loved and lost, as long as the losses don't include your house, your car and half your bank account :hihihi:

hehehe. Funny. At least nagtira ng konting cash. I woudl've thought half a car ang ititira.

**outmap** · February 25th, 2007 01:13 AM

Dati I would have answered yes... That is until I lost someone I truly love.

**Type 100** · January 7th, 2008 11:03 PM

Originally Posted by Jun aka Pekto

I'd say yes. If you lost, there's at least closure. If "ewan"....... the question will always nag for life like the case with my HS crush for example.....

I mean it'd be nice if I can find answers to other nagging questions I've had since childhood like how the Voltes V and Starblazers sagas ended. All I had to do was search the internet. With love, it's not that easy. A lot of what ifs remain with my HS crush to this day and I have only myself to fault.

Very well said. I have to agree with this. "Closure" is so, so hard to attain with some people.

**midinite** · February 27th, 2007 05:05 PM

What do you think the answer of Hopia, Big Bird and Kris will be for this poll?

**mmanson** · March 27th, 2007 11:11 PM

yes oh yes.sarap ng feeling pag naiinlab. and sometimes, you really need to lose someone before you realize how important they are to you. sakit pero worth it. i've become a better person after that.

tapos may maikukwento ka pa sa mga apo mo balang araw

**the_wildthing** · March 28th, 2007 12:34 AM

I think the right words are:

It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.

And the answer is yes.

No regrets. No what ifs.

But on the other hand, so many girls, so little time. :naughty2:

**Automahn** · November 12th, 2007 10:25 PM

Originally Posted by ssaloon

yes. you become a better person after an unsuccesful relationship... you try to build on your shortcomings for your future love.

Originally Posted by saint_benidict

yes.....masakit, lalo na pag kakahiwalay palang....

Originally Posted by wewoy_romero

i agree with outmap -> it is until you lose someone you truly love.

from my point of view, easily saying it is better to have loved and lost might simply mean that the people you have "loved and lost" "might" not be ones you really, really loved. i have "loved and lost" many times. but this one particular time, i wish i have never met her.

Originally Posted by DFast&DFurious

Aahhh yes...

Tis better to have loved and lost...

Only when one has felt the pain of losing someone in the past, can they learn to truly cherish the one in their arms at the moment...

So to those who are in love right now, cherish each moment...

You will never know what destiny will bring you tomorrow, but the present is yours for the taking, so love the ones you love as if there's no tomorrow...

Originally Posted by mmanson

yes oh yes.sarap ng feeling pag naiinlab. and sometimes, you really need to lose someone before you realize how important they are to you. sakit pero worth it. i've become a better person after that.

tapos may maikukwento ka pa sa mga apo mo balang araw

Teka, teka. Di ba ang ibig sabihin ng "lost" dito ay yung natalo/nasawi at di yung "lost" na nawala? This saying is basically about unrequited love and not about 2 lovers separating.

**Galant_VR_94** · January 6th, 2008 05:04 AM

Of course

Id rather spend my life knowing that i was able to have loved somebody rather than thinking of the all the "what might have been" in my life.

No regrets....

**cutiepinks888** · January 7th, 2008 05:44 PM

syempre...

firstly, you save yourself from all the "what ifs" that clogs your mind.. then you fell in love, and there's no better feeling than falling in love diba? at kahit ano pa ang ending ng love story mo, you should always think of the good times para you won't feel any regrets.

and i guess nothing else makes you stronger and wiser than learning from your mistakes... so when the next "encounter" comes along, you'll do better, for sure.

**rhops** · November 8th, 2007 05:05 PM

yes for me. At least theres no regrets and always thinking kung bakit pinalampas mo yung chance. We need to move on no matter what its a matter of how and when, depens really on you. Important thing is u should a learned something from your previous mistakes or shortcomings and not be a mistake by yourself

**Flagg** · November 8th, 2007 05:16 PM

Is there anyone here who honestly wants to be a 40-year old virgin?

**mayana** · November 8th, 2007 09:10 PM

Originally Posted by Flagg

Is there anyone here who honestly wants to be a 40-year old virgin?

I know someone who is a 40-year-old CVSB.

**Memphis Raines** · November 10th, 2007 12:35 AM

Originally Posted by Flagg

Is there anyone here who honestly wants to be a 40-year old virgin?

Dito sa atin tawag dyan ay 40-year old torpe.

_______________________

It's definitely better if you gave it your all rather than wondering for the rest of your life what might have been.

**flex** · November 10th, 2007 01:36 AM

of course!

I'd rather have tried than spend the rest of life thinking of "what ifs"

**GerardTagayty** · November 9th, 2007 06:59 AM

yes definitely

**wrcastro_ph** · November 9th, 2007 07:42 AM

Ito yung kasabihan sa tagalog na " MAS MABUTI PANG UMIBIG AT MASAWI KESA DI NA MULING UMIBIG"

.... meaning ... try and try until you die !!!! hahahahah

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