ayun, nabubwisit na si mrs sa parents nya.
just incase ios/android cp ng anak mo, try to install SMS/SPAM blocker, register mo lang yun number ng byenan mo and the app do the rest. lol
ignore nyo na lang, importante magkasundo kayo ni mrs at ALAM nya na foul na yun ginagawa ng magulang nya...
Talagang ganyan ang ibang magulang....
"Nobody is good enough for my child"......
"Kaya ikaw John........."....
Hay naku!
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same situation parekoy isang babae din asawa ko....ganyan talaga masamang damo matagal mamatay....matagal pa tyo mag titiis bro
I am not yet married but I am basing my opinion solely on my observation of how my Dad dealt with his mother-in-law.
My Dad rightfully thought that it was his duty as the in law to adjust and win my Lola's approval and affection. I guarantee you, it will not be instantaneous and it won't be easy, it is going to be hard work but wait until you bear the fruits of your labor. It will indeed be sweet. My Dad was much sweeter and attentive to my Lola even more than my Mom. I think you will be loved and respected by your in laws only as much as the effort you put in. My Dad was just lucky to have an in law that did not intrude in their affairs. My Lola listened to my Dad and has confidence in his decisions so that made for good relations. It still brings tears to my eyes when my Lola told me that my Dad was the son she never had. It's one reason why I have this overwhelming urge to be liked by the parents of my friends, relatives, BF etc. I am always seeking for their approval. I take pride in my "ligaw" skills with the parents. Everything is much easier when you have the parents approval.
My Mom on the other hand had to deal with my Dad's mother who is resentful of all in laws NOBODY has won her approval. If you are not on her hate list, that is already an achievement. Imagine putting up with that? My Dad is an only son and the favorite of my Lola. That's really a lot of pressure from my Mom. My Lola meddles into my parents affairs and even goes to our house to check on what we are eating. hehehe. My grandparents even decided on where my brother should study. My Lola even pressured my mother to become a housewife (as all her daughters are). My Mom is a career woman and even took an MS so this was a very difficult decision for her. My mother dealt with it by just thinking that her in laws only meant well because otherwise there could have been war. Eventually my Mom was able to regain her career despite her work hiatus.
Just as the others are saying, the relationship with in laws is very fragile. Be patient with your in laws, they're old and they are entitled to some grumpiness. It's their small token of control, just let them be.
Last edited by _Cathy_; March 24th, 2013 at 03:45 PM.
Ang isang style ko na inexexcute ko ng 2011 is to block my sis-in-law / bro-in-laws FB, along with their cousins and close friends. In that way, kahit ma-tag ka pa na for instance you have a brand new car eh hindi lalabas sa FB nila.
Napansin ko na kse uan nun bago pa Fb, i used to post pics about the places I go and visit with my wife, syempre puros kasosyalan ang post coz most of my fb friends are my business associates. You need to show money to earn money.
Eh kays lang etong mga in-laws ko ang nabasa ata eh puros pasarap kami, so i just made a decision to block all of them even their cousins.
After all, nobody would admit that they got deleted sa FB, ma-pride eh. So yun just count on that,
Some parents cannot disconnect from being parents to their children even when their children have married and their own families.
Painful as it might be, you will have to put your foot down and tell them to keep their opinions of your family to themselves.
You will have to tell them that you have your own family and they can be part of your family IF they learn to respect "family boundaries".
made me appreciate my in laws more. at least they are not meddling into our affairs. mabait naman sila.
ang ayoko lang sa kanila lalo sa brother in law ko ay laging nag rereklamo sa buhay, porket gusto na daw niya umasenso at pagod na pagod na siya sa trabaho niya... palibhasa nag bulakbol at di inayos ang buhay dati kaya di masyado maganda career.. gusto yata nakaupo lang at tumatanggap nang pera..feeling pa namin laging sinusulsulan yung mga anak nila na humingi sa amin nang mga ano ano... dati schoolbag at school shoes, ngayon books naman hinihingi... as if naman walang sariling pamilya yung asawa ko kung humingi...
^ Now its up to you if you will always comply. Once is enough...thats me
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