Paano tumanggi sa mga kaibigan?

[airshaq20]

ano ba definition ng mambababae? kung let's say KTV lang with vip rooms tapos group kayo ok lang, basta isipin mo pirme na pera-pera lang ang labanan diyan. just have a good time by singing (with a mike ha) and exchanging pleasantries with the ladies na kasama ninyo. BTW, paalam ka din sa wife mo. this way trust (not the rubber) is still preserve.

depende sa mag-asawa yan. what works for a couple may not work for everyone. ako kasi ganito, kung ayaw kong gawin ng misis ko, di ko na gagawin - kahit siguro payagan ako, iisipin ko muna kung sya ang gagawa non. kasi pano kung may ladies' night out sila at mag ka kareoke sila? instead na babae ang tine table e lalaki - syempre, most of us, di papayag don. so anong difference non sa ginagawa nating mga lalaki?

like what is mentioned previously - kung may asawa ka na, dapat mag-asal may-asawa ka rin dahil di ka na binata. pano kung may mga anak ka na?

iba ba yung lifestyle mo pag kasama mo sila at pag wala sila sa tabi mo? if thats the case, then you're living a double-life. ako, prinsipiyo ko sa buhay ko, sino man kasama ko, or di ko kasama, dapat kung ano ka, ganon ka lagi - dapat consistent. hindi yung mabait ka pag nandyan asawa mo, anak mo or magulang mo.

you can still have fun when you're married - yun nga lang, di na katulad nung binata tayo - dapat pag may asawa ka na, do something fun with your wife or your whole family.

kung sa tingin natin di mo pa kaya gawin yun - dapat di ka pa nag asawa muna - because frankly, you still have a lot of growing up to do.

[afrasay]

depende sa mag-asawa yan. what works for a couple may not work for everyone. ako kasi ganito, kung ayaw kong gawin ng misis ko, di ko na gagawin - kahit siguro payagan ako, iisipin ko muna kung sya ang gagawa non. kasi pano kung may ladies' night out sila at mag ka kareoke sila? instead na babae ang tine table e lalaki - syempre, most of us, di papayag don. so anong difference non sa ginagawa nating mga lalaki?

like what is mentioned previously - kung may asawa ka na, dapat mag-asal may-asawa ka rin dahil di ka na binata. pano kung may mga anak ka na?

iba ba yung lifestyle mo pag kasama mo sila at pag wala sila sa tabi mo? if thats the case, then you're living a double-life. ako, prinsipiyo ko sa buhay ko, sino man kasama ko, or di ko kasama, dapat kung ano ka, ganon ka lagi - dapat consistent. hindi yung mabait ka pag nandyan asawa mo, anak mo or magulang mo.

you can still have fun when you're married - yun nga lang, di na katulad nung binata tayo - dapat pag may asawa ka na, do something fun with your wife or your whole family.

kung sa tingin natin di mo pa kaya gawin yun - dapat di ka pa nag asawa muna - because frankly, you still have a lot of growing up to do.

Whoa I'm just talking videoke here and not a relationship with the opposite ***. That is why I'm mention "group" and not going there alone kasi iba na yun mag-isa ka at may kasama kang GRO sa VIP room

depende sa mag-asawa yan. what works for a couple may not work for everyone. ako kasi ganito, kung ayaw kong gawin ng misis ko, di ko na gagawin - kahit siguro payagan ako, iisipin ko muna kung sya ang gagawa non. kasi pano kung may ladies' night out sila at mag ka kareoke sila? instead na babae ang tine table e lalaki - syempre, most of us, di papayag don. so anong difference non sa ginagawa nating mga lalaki?

Yup. depende talaga sa asawa yan . But I wouldn't limit myself to certain things just because you wouldn't like your wife to do it, or rather, your wife might do it too.

like what is mentioned previously - kung may asawa ka na, dapat mag-asal may-asawa ka rin dahil di ka na binata. pano kung may mga anak ka na?

Precisely, but by the way you put it, it's like all men that go on a boy's night out are doom to hell including their families

iba ba yung lifestyle mo pag kasama mo sila at pag wala sila sa tabi mo? if thats the case, then you're living a double-life. ako, prinsipiyo ko sa buhay ko, sino man kasama ko, or di ko kasama, dapat kung ano ka, ganon ka lagi - dapat consistent. hindi yung mabait ka pag nandyan asawa mo, anak mo or magulang mo.

All of us in one way or another has led a double life. Some slightly while others make a carreer out of it. Would you be malambing (mabait) in the office like you are with your wife, kids or parents? What if you're a drill sargeant?

you can still have fun when you're married - yun nga lang, di na katulad nung binata tayo - dapat pag may asawa ka na, do something fun with your wife or your whole family.

Of course naman. I go trailing, hiking, badminton and travel mostly with my wife. But each of us has our own individual hobbies like my wife loves cross stitching, scrapbooks...etc which I support (kasi ako nag buy ng gamit). Pero hindi ko hilig/interested sa ginagawa niya. Yun finish product lang hiniintay ko. While I go for photograhy , cars (she just ride in it)...Anyway, I hope you're getting my point. Getting married isn't about losing your liberty. It's allowing your partner to grow as an individual too.

kung sa tingin natin di mo pa kaya gawin yun - dapat di ka pa nag asawa muna - because frankly, you still have a lot of growing up to do

airshaq20 - lighten up...there will always be a kid in everyone of us. Have a nice day.

[j_avonni]

ano ba definition ng mambababae? kung let's say KTV lang with vip rooms tapos group kayo ok lang, basta isipin mo pirme na pera-pera lang ang labanan diyan. just have a good time by singing (with a mike ha) and exchanging pleasantries with the ladies na kasama ninyo. BTW, paalam ka din sa wife mo. this way trust (not the rubber) is still preserve.

Mambabae, I think, means you would go to the extent of having *** with her without any emotional attachment.

I have a friend who became emotionally involved with a GRO. Nung una, table table lang. Nagustuhan yung chick, napadalas ang balik namin sa club. Hanggang sa na-inlove na ang friend ko. The worst thing that happened ay nag-kaanak pa sila. After several years, natapos din ang relation. Ang good thing ay hindi nalaman ng asawa nya ang ginawa nya.

We, as friends, tried our best to dissuade him from having relationship with her but to no avail.

Here are my advices:

1. Never try.
2. Kung matulad ka sa friend ko, wag kang pahuhuli sa asawa mo.
3. Kung mahuli ka man, wag kang aamin.

[bad driver]

Just Jack off.

[voltes_V]

OK lang - KUNG - OK din na gawin sa yo ng misis mo. What comes around goes around. Any excuse of doing it, when in the first place, you are married to your wife, is a sign of immaturity and irresponsibility.

Excellent point airshaq20

Just Jack off.

Problem solved.....and may I add using ****ographic material.

[CtrlAltDel]

Just Jack off.

What a nugget of wisdom! Palibhasa habit na ni Bad Driver na gawin yan sa mga pet dogs nya, hahahah! :bwahaha:

I agree with the previous posts on being faithful. If you found yourself wanting to go out and prove you're a man to your friends by consorting with gro's, then I think you got a problem- quite apart from your friends. No offense. No emotionally or psychologically stable man would need to prove such a thing to his friends. I think we'll be more of a man if instead of running away from problems, we turn around and deal with it.

But you know, on a lighter side, Bad Driver's got a point. Hehehe. You can't get to the wife when you need ***, and yet you don't want to troop with your friends to have a "massage." Bad Driver's tip is a kind of a solution, to a limited extent. His dogs knew only too well! Hahaha!

[oldblue]

kung niyayaya akong mambabae? ayaw ko kasing magkasala sa esmi ko, pero nakakantyawan naman akong bading or under kapag nagdadahilan ako tuwing niyayaya akong magpa 'massage'.

on the otherhand, medyo nabibitin naman ako sa *** life dahil laging pagod or tamad magkipag *** si misis. kapag ba ganyan e justified bang maghanap ako ng iba?

kung tinawag kang bading sumbong mo sa misis mo

kung bitin ka sa *** life, eat extra creamy hersheys chocolate. same effect

kidding aside, alam ko dami mas madami female ngaun kaysa male. try mo mag-experiment sa mall escalator in every 3 minutes, sigurado lamang ang number of female vs. male na nakasakay dun. hehehe kung iisipin sa panahon ngayon baka there's every 3 female for every 1 male ngayun, nakaka-encourage talaga. pero malas yan bro. malas mambabae. root of corruption pa yan.

[oldblue]

dagdag lang. yun mga mahilig tumawag ng bading sa mga kapwa nya kaibigan/kakilala, malaki chances d pa daw lumalabas sa kabinet mga ganun. read it somewhere sa news article before hehehe

[Hero]

ahhh good ole peer pressure.. wala naman mangyayari sayo kahit tawagin kang bading or under kahit 1 million beses nilang sabihin sa yo ..at hindi kaibigan ang tawag sa kanila kung pinipilit ka nila parang droga din yan.... next time kapag niyaya ka pumayag ka tapos isama mo si misis ahihihihi

[airshaq20]

*afrasay:

sorry - i was refering my comment to the threadstarter. should have cleared that. i didnt realized until i re-read my post - LOL. hope i didnt offend u man.

[afrasay]

no problem there. ;)

[afrasay]

BTW, my answer to the thread title...just say no, thank you.

[airshaq20]

LOL - cool. Damn, i need sugar. Almost time for me to go home. I love fridays! And yeah, its payday!

Now, back to our regular programming hahah

[BoEinG_747]

inuman na lang ..happy pa tayo

doon tayo sa place ni sir afrasay mag inuman ..
para di na mag papaalam pa lumabas.
kaya lang ang mahal ng pamasahe ni Air shaq20 may VISA pa ..

Good morning nga pala

[wildthing]

devil's advocate ako....huwag kang tumangi sir....sumama ka at magenjoy!!! :evillaugh

[afrasay]

Sorry guys I don't drink, ice tea lang po. Pero puwedeng puwede sa amin....hehehe napasubo ata ako.

wildthing:::BI ka talaga.
OT
punta ka mamya sa jamboree?

[ian_rex]

kung niyayaya akong mambabae? ayaw ko kasing magkasala sa esmi ko, pero nakakantyawan naman akong bading or under kapag nagdadahilan ako tuwing niyayaya akong magpa 'massage'.

on the otherhand, medyo nabibitin naman ako sa *** life dahil laging pagod or tamad magkipag *** si misis. kapag ba ganyan e justified bang maghanap ako ng iba?

hindi justifification yun.

sir, under sircumstances what you are thinking is right. tama lang na wag ka na lang sumama sa mga "friends" mo. put it this way, kung may gagawin ka na ayaw mong gawin sa iyo, wag mong gawin sa iba. saka besides, kaibigan bang maituturing ang tinuturuan kang gumawa ng kalokohan?

on the otherhand, you try to talk to your wife.explain mo sa kanya na you have your needs. kasi sa isang mag-asawa, kailangan naman talaga yun, kesa sa iba ka pa maghanap ng "***" di ba?

try to find other thing that will keep you pre-occupied. say, D-I-Y mo yung car mo, or read books or surf the web- better yet always log-on to www.tsikot.com

i must congratulate you. hindi ka bading or under. dahil sa alam mo pa rin ang tama. keep up the good work

[BlueBimmer]

ganito lng yan, if you're satisfied with your wife (***ually), you wouldnt be asking this question here about going to 'massage' places. ayusin mo lng yun with your wife, its that simple.

tsaka na pagusapan yang mambabae, videoke, table etc pag la talga pagasa ***life nyong magasawa. lets admit it, mahalaga ang *** sa magasawa lalo na kung mdyo late 20s to early 30s pa.

[ian_rex]

ganito lng yan, if you're satisfied with your wife (***ually), you wouldnt be asking this question here about going to 'massage' places. ayusin mo lng yun with your wife, its that simple.

tsaka na pagusapan yang mambabae, videoke, table etc pag la talga pagasa ***life nyong magasawa. lets admit it, mahalaga ang *** sa magasawa lalo na kung mdyo late 20s to early 30s pa.

looks like there is a need for negotiation skills? joke. :D anyway,tama si sir hens. wala talagang kwentang kaibigan yung dadalhin ka sa kapahamakan.

[hens]

set tayo ng EB kasama mga mrs..