looking back when i first met my wife, i didn't feel it instantly. but i just can't forget that very first time i saw her. guys love ladies in uniform as girls love men in uniform. she was in her white uniform when i first saw her. and it was her eyes that really caught me in awe.
so many famous phrases, poems, and stories about love have been written. each time one experiences love, it is almost always the case when the person finds it out later.
you won't know it instantly, not until you have experienced :
(1) unexplainable joy (like you have nothing else on your mind but that person). and all you do is sigh at the very sight or thought of him/her.
(2) pain (of missing, of losing, of being dumped). what hurts most is not when you knew that your love could not be reciprocated. but rather it is when you have to lose your love at the very moment you knew that you are loved too. it also deals with a lot of painful sacrifices.
"i love you, not knowing when, or where, or how..... (Patch Adams?)"
you'll need to learn the following as well:
"if you love someone, set her free....
if she comes back, she is yours.
if she does not, she never was..."
the beauty of being in love, is that it makes you a better person. being in love is nothing without pain (of the heart). in most cases, these two characteristics of being love co-exist with one another. one cannot exist without the other at the very early stages of being in love.
once you pass this stage, you would know better. and you would be stonger the next time you fall in love.
1. Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing? and your voice caught
within your chest?
it isn't love, it's like.
2. You can't keep your hand off them, am I right?
it isn't love, it's lust
3. Are you proud and eager to show them off?
it isn't love, it's luck
4. Do you want them because you know they're there?
it isn't love, it's loNeliness
5. Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
it isn't love, its loyalty
6. Do you stay for their confessions of love, becasue you dont want
to hurt them?
it isn't love, its pity
7. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
it isn't love, it's unconfidence
8. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip
a
beat?
it isn't love, it's infatuation
9. Do you tell them that everyday they are the one you think of?
it isn't love, it's a lie
10. Are you willing to give up all your favorite things for their
sake?
it isn't love, it's charity
11. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
it isn't love, it's friendship
12. Do you accept their faults because it's part of who they are?
then it's love
13. Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
then it's love
14. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so
deeply, it hurts?
then it's love
15. Do you stay because a blinding uncomprehensable mix of pain,
and
elations pulls you close and hold you?
then it's love
16. Are you attracted to others but stay with them faithfully with
no regrets?
then it's love
17. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
then it's love
18. And always remember - love isn't one sided!! - Both must love
for
LOVE to exist!
NOW, IF LOVE IS PAINFULL AND TORTURES US SO, WHY DO WE LOVE?
WHY IS IT ALL WE SEARCH FOR IN LIFE?
THIS PAIN, THIS AGONY
WHY IS IT ALL WE LONG FOR?
THIS TOTURE, THIS POWERFUL DEATH ITSELF?
oh my gawd!!!! Bakit ngayon ko lang nakita ito???
Sinasabi ko na nga ba eh, tanggal na si Otep sa Singles club!!! :lol:
Otep tama ba? "I love you P-Yo-lo!!!":mrgreen:
To Tsikot peeps,
ask ko lang what do u think of this:
* going to the girls province, and meet the WHOLE CLAN! :wink: (the province is not that far though, but still...)
* visiting the girl almost everyday, and wala lang, pa-cute lang :mrgreen:
* thinking of what to give the girl for christmas... This EARLY!!! :lol:
* constantly talking about the girl, and how he likes to think of her every so often... :oops:
now, i didn't say Otep did all these ha... I just thought of it... Is there a sign that the guy could be in love? :mrgreen: please enlighten me