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  1. Join Date
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    #21
    hopeless romantic ako, sucker for romance, ma"L"(lambing)... i still need to feel the spark, to say that this is the one, kelangan me magic, ang corny ganun e, yung courting, is almost the same as dating and getting to know the person, but what matters before all those is that there should be a spark, yun tipong mayayanig buong katawan mo as you see this girl, theres a certain feeling that you cant explain, and she would feel the same way too=)

    yet, this is not necessarily love at first sight, the spark could happen on the second date or 2nd meeting...

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    #22
    Quote Originally Posted by ogpro
    Is this thing still happening? I mean, what are usual dating norms nowadays? How do you ensure that who you date and who you are in a relationship with is the one who are totally vibing with and the one who you feel the "sparks" with? And if you don't, will you take the nec actions to end it so that you can both go on to find who you are meant to be with? I've seen so many people in relationships nowadays who are with their partners just because they got too comfortable with them. Is true love dead?

    Fire away

    tingin ko wala naman talaga true love eh, kahit may spark pa o nagka-developan. i think most people cling on to their partners bec. they have limited their choices to begin with. it's either they're too afraid to make a mistake (consequence of broken relationship/family) or they have grown too lazy to pursue their inner desires.

    and as an end result, they get too comfortable to each other and too predictable. and also, each grows 3x-10x as large physically and the misery begins

    kaya nga sometimes, hindi nakakapagtaka kumbakit may mga new age ideas na lumalabas ngaun like open marriage or swinger's party.

    anyway, hindi ko na alam kung ano pinagsasabi ko. but eto lang talaga lumabas sa utak ko ngaun.

    the only true love in this world is parental love, or mother's love for a child. kahit na nagrerebelde ang anak, mahal na mahal pa din ng magulang. but the courtesy is not always extended for the husband ...

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    #23
    Kayo naman, di nyo ba napansin na romantic fan ng "The Princess Bride" si sir ogpro?

    For me, there's no Love-at-first-sight, meron lang Lust-at-first-sight. So there's no point in constantly looking for that 'spark'. Palaging meron yan... you know, man can't have adobo everyday... With regard to your relatives, sir ogpro, siguro ayaw lang nila aminin na type nga nila spouse nila noon. I mean, imagine if ito ang makulit na mag-stalk sa iyo...

    sasagutin mo ba?

    Sir oldblue, di tumitingin wifey mo sa tinatype mo 'no?

  4. Join Date
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    #24
    Quote Originally Posted by uls
    Talk about SEB... baligtad na talaga mundo ngaun.

    after SEB...

    Guy: tayo na ba?

    Girl: ligawan mo muna ako

    very true....

    girl: M.U. Ba tayo?

    guy: o, sige ba... i can still have sebs with other girls.

  5. Join Date
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    #25
    Quote Originally Posted by flagg
    Kayo naman, di nyo ba napansin na romantic fan ng "The Princess Bride" si sir ogpro?

    For me, there's no Love-at-first-sight, meron lang Lust-at-first-sight. So there's no point in constantly looking for that 'spark'. Palaging meron yan... you know, man can't have adobo everyday... With regard to your relatives, sir ogpro, siguro ayaw lang nila aminin na type nga nila spouse nila noon. I mean, imagine if ito ang makulit na mag-stalk sa iyo...

    sasagutin mo ba?

    Sir oldblue, di tumitingin wifey mo sa tinatype mo 'no?
    bro, next time, ask my permission first before you post my pic in the net.

  6. Join Date
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    #26
    Agree kaya nga each one who enters a relationship be it a marriage, engagement, mu, or even date-date should exert effort para di mawala yung "spark" (a.k.a. lust --libido?) na nakita nila in that person. And taking care of his/her physical body is important, kasi parang mahirap yata mag-makelove kung ang misis mo ay 220 pounds na, di ba?

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    #27
    what is a "seb"?

  8. Join Date
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    #28
    Quote Originally Posted by flagg
    Kayo naman, di nyo ba napansin na romantic fan ng "The Princess Bride" si sir ogpro?

    For me, there's no Love-at-first-sight, meron lang Lust-at-first-sight. So there's no point in constantly looking for that 'spark'. Palaging meron yan... you know, man can't have adobo everyday... With regard to your relatives, sir ogpro, siguro ayaw lang nila aminin na type nga nila spouse nila noon. I mean, imagine if ito ang makulit na mag-stalk sa iyo...

    sasagutin mo ba?

    Sir oldblue, di tumitingin wifey mo sa tinatype mo 'no?
    Flagg, I am a fan of the movie, mostly for the dialogue and wit, but yes, because it potrays love in its most romantic form, undying and pure. As for the picture of that wild animal, este, wild boar, este, pano ko nga ba i-describe yan without offending any innocent pigs...pag yan ang makulit na manliligaw, I would suggest moving to another country.


    I only brought up the topic for the sake of argument and of course to find out what you guys think. I personally believe in "true" love, but my version of it has to do with emotional maturity and fidelity. I think we humans are predisposed to think that the grass is always greener somewhere else, hence a male's constant attraction for PYT's (pretty young things), but once we have conquered that impulse through emotional maturity and self imposed fidelity BECAUSE you love and respect the woman you are with, then we've taken that next step towards this fabled "true love." I don't think infatuation and forced fidelity counts. Infatuation is when you're so sprung (in lust, or whatever) on the girl that you don't notice any other women for the moment, and forced fidelity is when your girl checks up on you every 10 minutes so you don't really have a choice hehe. I think that it is when a man makes a willful choice to NOT act upon any impulsive attractions for another woman (even if he can get away with it) that he is truly in love. So...which are you? For the ladies, do you think your hubbies or bf's are this way?

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    #29
    Quote Originally Posted by M54 Powered
    what is a "seb"?
    Dude...hehe. You call yourself a "man-whore" and you have to ask what this "seb" is? You must not be a very busy man-whore hehe. Joke lang, peace.

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    #30
    Quote Originally Posted by M54 Powered
    what is a "seb"?

    sus.... di mo ba talaga alam to???? :evillaugh

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    #31
    Right on Ogpro!

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    #32
    Quote Originally Posted by M54 Powered
    what is a "seb"?
    S*X EB

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    #33
    i agree with sir Flagg...

    u can probably "spark" with 1 out of every 10 girls u meet. ok...maybe 1 in every 100 but that is still a lot of "sparks" considering the size our population.

    If "spark" is the basis for pursuing a deeper, serious relationship... ur gonna be pursuing every girl out there who ignites ur "spark" plug.

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    #34
    Quote Originally Posted by ogpro
    I only brought up the topic for the sake of argument and of course to find out what you guys think. I personally believe in "true" love, but my version of it has to do with emotional maturity and fidelity. I think we humans are predisposed to think that the grass is always greener somewhere else, hence a male's constant attraction for PYT's (pretty young things), but once we have conquered that impulse through emotional maturity and self imposed fidelity BECAUSE you love and respect the woman you are with, then we've taken that next step towards this fabled "true love." I don't think infatuation and forced fidelity counts. Infatuation is when you're so sprung (in lust, or whatever) on the girl that you don't notice any other women for the moment, and forced fidelity is when your girl checks up on you every 10 minutes so you don't really have a choice hehe. I think that it is when a man makes a willful choice to NOT act upon any impulsive attractions for another woman (even if he can get away with it) that he is truly in love. So...which are you? For the ladies, do you think your hubbies or bf's are this way?
    huwaww, lalim mo bossing...YOU MUST BE INLOVE!!!

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    #35
    woohooo.... lalim nyan...

    nowadays, relationships are more like business transactions.

    its a what-can-u-offer-me thing.

    or to put it even more bluntly--- its a "ano-mapapala-ko-sayo" thing.

    Love? well, it can develop.
    Last edited by uls; May 31st, 2006 at 10:25 AM.

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    #36
    Quote Originally Posted by uls
    i agree with sir Flagg...

    u can probably "spark" with 1 out of every 10 girls u meet. ok...maybe 1 in every 100 but that is still a lot of "sparks" considering the size our population.

    If "spark" is the basis for pursuing a deeper, serious relationship... ur gonna be pursuing every girl out there who ignites ur "spark" plug.
    depende sa definition ng "spark". magkatinginan lang naman kasi eh "spark" na. i have a friend who would approach girls and say "i thought we had a moment there". sagot naman nila, " i was looking at the guy behind you".

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    #37
    Quote Originally Posted by FXT
    depende sa definition ng "spark". magkatinginan lang naman kasi eh "spark" na. i have a friend who would approach girls and say "i thought we had a moment there". sagot naman nila, " i was looking at the guy behind you".
    hehehe... nice one...

  18. Join Date
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    #38
    Nya-ha-ha....ayos.

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    #39
    aha...seks EB pala...honestly never heard of it mentioned that way.

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    #40
    ^uso yan dito lalo na sa mga chattv....

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