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  1. Join Date
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    mga bro, ask ko lang kung may guilt feelings pa rin ba na nararamdaman yun mga taong nang-iiwan ng husband/wife nila for the sake of their own happiness?

    just wandering kung totally happy ba sila without feeling any guilt? kahit na alam nilang may nasasaktan sila?

  2. Join Date
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    I know someone who left his wife. He said that he feels totally indifferent towards his wife so I guess that translates to no guilty feelings. But then again, the question would be best answered by someone brave enough to admit to leaving his or her wife/husband.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carlocks View Post
    mga bro, ask ko lang kung may guilt feelings pa rin ba na nararamdaman yun mga taong nang-iiwan ng husband/wife nila for the sake of their own happiness?

    just wandering kung totally happy ba sila without feeling any guilt? kahit na alam nilang may nasasaktan sila?

    If they left their husband or wife to pursue their own happiness, it is doubtful if they have any guilt feelings left.

    And if they do have any guilt feelings, they deserve that and much more.

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    depende siguro kung anong klaseng happiness?

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    Meron ako alam na iniwan wife nya, ngayun masaya na siya kasi sobra selosa at possesive at nagger yung wife niya....


    WBR,

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    Quote Originally Posted by Innova_Boy View Post
    Meron ako alam na iniwan wife nya, ngayun masaya na siya kasi sobra selosa at possesive at nagger yung wife niya....


    WBR,

    eh pano kung hindi naman ganyan ang personality ng wife/husband nya. basta ayaw na lang nya. do you think its justifiable? what if may third party pala? does she/he still feels guilty sa ginawa nya?

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    obviously if that person went on and leave the husband/wife bec of third party then walang guilt feelings siyang naramdaman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shadow View Post
    depende siguro kung anong klaseng happiness?

    let's just say na nakakita sya ng bagong mamahalin kaya iniwan nya ang wife/husband nya.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carlocks View Post
    mga bro, ask ko lang kung may guilt feelings pa rin ba na nararamdaman yun mga taong nang-iiwan ng husband/wife nila for the sake of their own happiness?

    just wandering kung totally happy ba sila without feeling any guilt? kahit na alam nilang may nasasaktan sila?
    Definitely sure may guilt feeling if ever na ikaw yung nang iwan, lalo na kung wala naman dahilan na ipinakita sayo na masama, mali at puro pagmamahal lang ang binigay sayo, then you dump your partner for another party malamang multuhin ka ng kunsensya mo..

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    Guilt is such a heavy emotion which you carry all through out your life. I do have guilty feelings (though not related sa topic). I still carry the guilt when we were hazing a neophyte in high school, and we were called to the principal's office, and when we were asked if we were the ones who did the hazing, I chickened out, I lost the respect of my fellow frat brothers then. Nabawi ko rin ang trust nila, but the guilt still lingers until now. And its been what - 18 years na rin.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mazingerZ View Post
    Guilt is such a heavy emotion which you carry all through out your life. I do have guilty feelings (though not related sa topic). I still carry the guilt when we were hazing a neophyte in high school, and we were called to the principal's office, and when we were asked if we were the ones who did the hazing, I chickened out, I lost the respect of my fellow frat brothers then. Nabawi ko rin ang trust nila, but the guilt still lingers until now. And its been what - 18 years na rin.
    so sakit na sakit ka nun nasaktan mo sila

  12. Join Date
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    #12
    Why feel guilty?

    Mas maging guilty ka if di mo hiniwalayan. Hirap makisama sa ayaw mo naman i-kama.

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    Depende rin kasi sa situation..kung both of you di na masaya sa isa't isa and you're just sticking together kasi ur married...di na maganda diba?

    Sometimes nangyayari talaga ang iwanan kapag di na maganda ang samahan ng isa't isa. pag ganito ang situation..i think wala ng guilt feeling pa. :p

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    sorry sobrang tagal na pala nitong thread na ito...nawili ako sa kababasa di ko napansin. lol

May guilt feelings pa rin ba?