hindi reason na maging dahilan ang financial instability for 2 people to separate. remember that there are always other people who are in more desperate situations than you. yung nga mga nasa squater sa payatas nabubuhay tapos ikaw na naka-kotse at may regular salary hindi? huwag natin gawin na dahilan ang pera para iwanan mo ang mahal mo at nagmamahal sa iyo?
kaya nga ang marriage is "for better of worse, richer or poorer..."
ang live-in ano ba? is it "until i'm satisfied by your presence and only until then..." as i said, selfish.
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June 1st, 2003 08:34 PM #21
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... bambie gurl...
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June 1st, 2003 08:35 PM #22u have a point kuya.... kung magpapaka-tradisyonal nga tayo and moral, pangit nga ang live-in... Nasa guy nga yan, kelangan panindigan nya ang girl...
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June 2nd, 2003 04:05 PM #23Saka kung mahal ka talaga, di ka niya live in kasi parang pag ganung situation, pwede ka niyang iwan or may intention siyang iwanan ka.
Originally Posted by pnay_fickle_minded
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Tubong Gapo
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June 2nd, 2003 04:16 PM #24my wife and i "lived-in" for eight years before eventually getting married.
so what answer should i suppose to give? :roll:
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June 2nd, 2003 04:55 PM #25I am against live-in. Ang hirap pumasok sa situation na tipong "testing muna". Para kumuha ka ng auto tapos after ilang kilometers of usage ay ayaw mo na kesyo di mo gusto yung ride (after mo iharurot at paiyakin ng makailang beses), poor performance, at ang malungkot sa lahat ay nakakita ka ng mas ok na modelo :cry: so eto ngayon soli mo na sa casa dahil ayaw mo na.
kaya nga its best to know well your current partner before engaging into marriage. and kung papakasal ka kailangan ready ka tanggapin kahit ano pa siya at kanyang kakulangan dahil sempre mahal mo yung tao.
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June 2nd, 2003 05:13 PM #26Given the situation na mahal nyo nga ang isa't-isa, balak nyo magpasakal. Eh kung yung ipinakita sayong ugali eh buong kabaligtaran pala ng kapartner mo? Let's just say he/she is thoughtful, kind, charming, sense of humor, hindi nagger.. etc, with all the good deeds that made you fall for that guy/gal. Then after marriage you found out a little of his/her history. Being nympho, clepto, and other negative stuffs. Would you still have him/her as a partner for life? Ofcourse these negatives won't be redeemed to you not until he/she are deeply involved with each other? Does live-in come in handy in this kind of situation? :idea:
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June 2nd, 2003 07:58 PM #27iba ung level of commitmnent pag live-in lang, so basically iba din ang magiging samahan, mas loose n carefree, so it doesnt follow na kung click kau as live-in partners magiging ganon din aku pag nagpakasal. iba ung level of commitmnent pag live-in lang, so basically iba din ang magiging samahan, mas loose n carefree, so it doesnt follow na kung click kau as live-in partners magiging ganon din aku pag nagpakasal.
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June 2nd, 2003 08:35 PM #28Level of commitments? Eh yung mag syota pa nga lang jump to wedding na kaagad...
Dipende rin siguro sa mga taong involved sa pagiging live-in partners. Meron akong kilala they lived in for 10 years, bore children during their 5th year commitment then got married. So far wala akong nababalitaang hiwalayan. And they've been together for almost 18 years na.
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June 3rd, 2003 04:09 AM #29yung si tita annabelle rama ina-advise nga ke ate ruffa dati wag muna pakasal... siya kasi nag-live in muna sila ni tito eddie gutierez for --i dont know how many years-- bago nagpakasal... la lang showbiz :mrgreen:
basta depende sa outlook nyo sa buhay....
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June 3rd, 2003 04:21 AM #30OK lang kahit anong set-up basta parehong may consent..... dito sa US walang problema dyan..... open minded kasi mga tao dito at hindi sila ganon ka-tsismosa. Personal life is personal ika nga.
Personally being a Filipino kung live-in lang ang kayang i-offer sa yo ng isang lalaki, hindi sya worth it. Ewan ko ba, parang agrabyado kasi ang babae sa "live-in" set up. Ganito pala ang outlook kapag may anak kang babae 8)
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