How to Tell if a Guy is Manyak

[_Cathy_]

This has been bothering me for several months already. I have a colleague who makes me feel very uncomfortable at times. I'm not sure if he is making chancing or he simply has no concept of personal space. I don't want to assume the worst in people but my close guy friend already told me "mag ingat" and my BFF is even pissed at me because I continue to hang out with this guy. He is 10 years younger than I am, so if I were a guy I would rather manyak someone my age or younger, diba? Here are the times I would feel uncomfortable

1. Whenever we are walking his arms would brush against my arms multiple times! ALL my friends in the office are guys (except for one) and that rarely happens to us in the 5 years that we've been friends. I've known him several months and this happens all the time

2. He would sit too close to me that his legs would brush against my legs

3. He would pindot my arms (I have a friend who does this to me a lot but I never felt uncomfortable)

4. There was one time when his arm brushed against my butt

5. I would catch him staring at me. And he stares a lot when we talk

6. Green jokes such as telling me he is innocent and I should teach him (wtf)

I want to think that he just lacks the social skills around women since he is a virgin and NONE of these instances were done on purpose but my friends are telling me otherwise. I also found out that he is making another girl in the office uncomfortable and we have a similar body type.

I have to make a decision because my office BFF wants me to stop hanging out with him BUT I want to give this guy the benefit of the doubt. Besides he does things for me like bring me food when there is an office party, carry my stuff, accompany me to the store etc. My friends are tired of him though because of his personality (annoying). We are also thinking that he could be a manyak because he has no release. Sadly this guy has all the physical qualities and personality women usually hate in a guy (short, bald, dark, fat, hairy and kuripot). If I kick him out of group he willl have no friends because the rest of the department hates him so I have to be sure that I make the right decision.

[StockEngine]

No ounce of civility..

If he were in a strip club bouncers would be all over him.

[_Cathy_]

He also does this thing where he would be at the back of my chair, right arm on top of the back rest and his left arm on my desk. This is way too close and invading my personal space.

it's just like this picture except that his hand would be on my chair. I also caught him several times glancing my messages on the office chat and my phone

[IMG]http://i462.photobucket.com/albums/qq344/cathy4y0u/stock-photo-***ual-harassment-of-women-at-work-in-the-office-77514262_zpsornouuxp.jpg[/IMG]

[dreamur]

He also does this thing where he would be at the back of my chair, right arm on top of the back rest and his left arm on my desk. This is way too close and invading my personal space.

it's just like this picture except that his hand would be on my chair. I also caught him several times glancing my messages on the office chat and my phone

[IMG]http://i462.photobucket.com/albums/qq344/cathy4y0u/stock-photo-***ual-harassment-of-women-at-work-in-the-office-77514262_zpsornouuxp.jpg[/IMG]

Lol! The best vantage point to get a sneak peek!

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[oj88]

Whether they're innocent or malice-ridden moves, you should be upfront and tell him you're uncomfortable. This can be verbally addressed or through body language. If he touches you, just recoil. If he's human enough, he'll get that you're not interested. If he persists, keep distance. If that's impossible (ie. He's part of your team or you share certain work processes or functions, etc.), talk to your HR.

[CVT]

Further, (and again, for all your sophistication),- learn to say "Stop it, you are offending me", and "No, don't you ever do that again" and threaten him.

And if possible,- let the other people hear what you're telling him,- ipahiya mo na ng todo.... So that everyone is aware that he should not be doing anything similar to you or to anyone of them, again. Sasabihin pa nila sa kanya,- "buti nga sa iyo,- manyak!"... Roar!

If you don't, he'll think that it is okay with you and he can continue with his merry way with you and with the other ladies....

And him being clueless is bulok. He knows what he's doing and he takes pleasure with his actions. [Malimit ba siya sa CR?]....

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[Calistro]

Report mo sa HR para mabigyan ng memo hahah.

Just stick to the other guys at the office so you have a 'c0ck block'. Di na mangulit yan pag may kasama kang ibang lalaki lagi

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[CVT]

If he looks like me, then most probably, he is... [oooppppssss... (short, bald, dark, fat, hairy and kuripot - well that's me alright!)]

Dissociate yourself from him, IMMEDIATELY! ... For all your sophistication,- do not be naive here.

Because, you might find yourself bloody distressed waking up one morning finding him beside you....

Don't tell us it won't happen...

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[Altis6453]

Stay away from him

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May gusto lang sayo yan


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[jack_husain]

This has been bothering me for several months already. I have a colleague who makes me feel very uncomfortable at times. I'm not sure if he is making chancing or he simply has no concept of personal space. I don't want to assume the worst in people but my close guy friend already told me "mag ingat" and my BFF is even pissed at me because I continue to hang out with this guy. He is 10 years younger than I am, so if I were a guy I would rather manyak someone my age or younger, diba? Here are the times I would feel uncomfortable

1. Whenever we are walking his arms would brush against my arms multiple times! ALL my friends in the office are guys (except for one) and that rarely happens to us in the 5 years that we've been friends. I've known him several months and this happens all the time

2. He would sit too close to me that his legs would brush against my legs

3. He would pindot my arms (I have a friend who does this to me a lot but I never felt uncomfortable)

4. There was one time when his arm brushed against my butt

5. I would catch him staring at me. And he stares a lot when we talk

6. Green jokes such as telling me he is innocent and I should teach him (wtf)

I want to think that he just lacks the social skills around women since he is a virgin and NONE of these instances were done on purpose but my friends are telling me otherwise. I also found out that he is making another girl in the office uncomfortable and we have a similar body type.

I have to make a decision because my office BFF wants me to stop hanging out with him BUT I want to give this guy the benefit of the doubt. Besides he does things for me like bring me food when there is an office party, carry my stuff, accompany me to the store etc. My friends are tired of him though because of his personality (annoying). We are also thinking that he could be a manyak because he has no release. Sadly this guy has all the physical qualities and personality women usually hate in a guy (short, bald, dark, fat, hairy and kuripot). If I kick him out of group he willl have no friends because the rest of the department hates him so I have to be sure that I make the right decision.

Don't sweat the small stuff. He seems to be innocuous. He doesn't fit the profile. Because he is "short, bald, dark, fat, hairy and kuripot," you cringe at what you think his unwelcome advances. What if he looks like a young Augusto Zobel de Ayala, outrageously wealthy, and as generous or chivalrous as Chavit Singson who spent 15M dollars for the Ms. Universe?

[MR_BIG18]

This has been bothering me for several months already. I have a colleague who makes me feel very uncomfortable at times. I'm not sure if he is making chancing or he simply has no concept of personal space. I don't want to assume the worst in people but my close guy friend already told me "mag ingat" and my BFF is even pissed at me because I continue to hang out with this guy. He is 10 years younger than I am, so if I were a guy I would rather manyak someone my age or younger, diba? Here are the times I would feel uncomfortable

1. Whenever we are walking his arms would brush against my arms multiple times! ALL my friends in the office are guys (except for one) and that rarely happens to us in the 5 years that we've been friends. I've known him several months and this happens all the time

2. He would sit too close to me that his legs would brush against my legs

3. He would pindot my arms (I have a friend who does this to me a lot but I never felt uncomfortable)

4. There was one time when his arm brushed against my butt

5. I would catch him staring at me. And he stares a lot when we talk

6. Green jokes such as telling me he is innocent and I should teach him (wtf)

I want to think that he just lacks the social skills around women since he is a virgin and NONE of these instances were done on purpose but my friends are telling me otherwise. I also found out that he is making another girl in the office uncomfortable and we have a similar body type.

I have to make a decision because my office BFF wants me to stop hanging out with him BUT I want to give this guy the benefit of the doubt. Besides he does things for me like bring me food when there is an office party, carry my stuff, accompany me to the store etc. My friends are tired of him though because of his personality (annoying). We are also thinking that he could be a manyak because he has no release. Sadly this guy has all the physical qualities and personality women usually hate in a guy (short, bald, dark, fat, hairy and kuripot). If I kick him out of group he willl have no friends because the rest of the department hates him so I have to be sure that I make the right decision.

if i were a girl and if he grabs my behind, ill grab him by the balls and ask him to whistle...

[jack_husain]

if i were a girl and if he grabs my behind, ill grab him by the balls and ask him to whistle...

Our parsimonious, plumb, swarthy, bald-headed midget will terribly be woe-begone, because, with your vaunted physique, there is no doubt that you will pull his balls out of his socket. That will make him a short, bald, dark, fat, hairy, kuripot whistling eunuch.

[_Cathy_]

if i were a girl and if he grabs my behind, ill grab him by the balls and ask him to whistle...

He never grabbed my ass but there was an instance when his arm (or hand) brushed against my ass. I don't know if he is plain clumsy or really manyak. My office BFF never had any instances like mine though (touching etc). And when he stares it is really creepy. But otherwise he is nice to me (masunurin)

[_Qwerty_]

just stay away from him.. baka kala nya ok lang sayo yung mga pinag gagawa nya.. let him feel na ayaw mo yugn ginagawa nya.. better be vocal about it..

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Halfway your original post masasabi ko na hindi innocent yan. Diskarteng manyak lol. Lahat ng lalake may ka 'manyakan' hard wired na kami jan. But, dapat hindi ka ma overcome nun and act normally/within social protocols pa rin.

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[_Qwerty_]

yan yung sinasabing.. kung makakalusot lang naman.. kaso sa kwento mo mukhang nakakalusot nga..

[jaypee10]

type ka lang siguro.ganyan talaga pag artistahin..

[papi smith]

The next time he looks over your shoulder with his hand in your chair at natuluan ka ng laway niya, manyak yan!!! hehe...

[_Cathy_]

yan yung sinasabing.. kung makakalusot lang naman.. kaso sa kwento mo mukhang nakakalusot nga..

baka kasi sabihin ang sungit ko or feeling ako. Pero I feel very uncomfortable talaga. Minsan nga pinanggigigilan pa yung arms ko, talagang sin squeeze. So I just pull my arms away. Minsan nang hahaway din ng shoulders (mahilig yan tumayo sa likod ng chair ko e)

type ka lang siguro.ganyan talaga pag artistahin..

anong artistahin? e short fat dark bald balbon nga.