How to end an illicit love affair?

[wren]

di ako pwedeng magpost ng advice dito without feeling hypocritical, so good luck na lang...you'll need it. pray that your wife is understanding, and willing to forgive and forget, and also pray that the other woman is not a psycho chick.

[macsd]

the art of illicit affair or relationship has it's rules or guidelines that need to be followed. stick to the rule and no one get's into trouble.

1. lay down your cards meaning don't hide your marriage or family. starting clean will get you out of trouble at the start. she/he still jump into the relationship, it will be easy to lay down the roles of each or how the relationship should work.

2. ever been caught , never ever confess to a guilty plea. the benefit of the doubt should always be taken into consideration and this will help you to recover or in short, your golden parachute.

3. your illicit partner should understand that in case of emergency, like other half seeing you, he/she would know the script and act as if your just friend bumping on each other. etc...always prepare the script so the dialog will be straight.

4. memorize the number, don't use name. this way you can always use wrong send as an excuse. if ever he/she dials the number, tell your partner to excuse, it was just a wrong send. on the other hand, never forget to delete messages or numbers that will implicate you over ur cp.

5. keep away from being within reach. if you live south, play at north. you got lesser chances of an acquaintance seeing you. never be too showy when in public like holding hands etc.. always keep a distance. after all you can always be skin close when your in privacy.

6. an in any family, an offspring should be planned. this way both aunderstand the role. the best is don't even get into coming up with a product.

these are just some pointers. hope this help our brothers/sister here.

now back to the topic. tell the truth to the girl but never to ur wife. this will keep's u with 1 headache. let her make the decision and just respect what ever she come's up with.

[emanzano]

the art of illicit affair or relationship has it's rules or guidelines that need to be followed. stick to the rule and no one get's into trouble.

1. lay down your cards meaning don't hide your marriage or family. starting clean will get you out of trouble at the start. she/he still jump into the relationship, it will be easy to lay down the roles of each or how the relationship should work.

2. ever been caught , never ever confess to a guilty plea. the benefit of the doubt should always be taken into consideration and this will help you to recover or in short, your golden parachute.

3. your illicit partner should understand that in case of emergency, like other half seeing you, he/she would know the script and act as if your just friend bumping on each other. etc...always prepare the script so the dialog will be straight.

4. memorize the number, don't use name. this way you can always use wrong send as an excuse. if ever he/she dials the number, tell your partner to excuse, it was just a wrong send. on the other hand, never forget to delete messages or numbers that will implicate you over ur cp.

5. keep away from being within reach. if you live south, play at north. you got lesser chances of an acquaintance seeing you. never be too showy when in public like holding hands etc.. always keep a distance. after all you can always be skin close when your in privacy.

6. an in any family, an offspring should be planned. this way both aunderstand the role. the best is don't even get into coming up with a product.

these are just some pointers. hope this help our brothers/sister here.

now back to the topic. tell the truth to the girl but never to ur wife. this will keep's u with 1 headache. let her make the decision and just respect what ever she come's up with.

Pare, ang lupit mo! But thanks for keeping it real.

[Quint]

the art of illicit affair or relationship has it's rules or guidelines that need to be followed. stick to the rule and no one get's into trouble.

1. lay down your cards meaning don't hide your marriage or family. starting clean will get you out of trouble at the start. she/he still jump into the relationship, it will be easy to lay down the roles of each or how the relationship should work.

2. ever been caught , never ever confess to a guilty plea. the benefit of the doubt should always be taken into consideration and this will help you to recover or in short, your golden parachute.

3. your illicit partner should understand that in case of emergency, like other half seeing you, he/she would know the script and act as if your just friend bumping on each other. etc...always prepare the script so the dialog will be straight.

4. memorize the number, don't use name. this way you can always use wrong send as an excuse. if ever he/she dials the number, tell your partner to excuse, it was just a wrong send. on the other hand, never forget to delete messages or numbers that will implicate you over ur cp.

5. keep away from being within reach. if you live south, play at north. you got lesser chances of an acquaintance seeing you. never be too showy when in public like holding hands etc.. always keep a distance. after all you can always be skin close when your in privacy.

6. an in any family, an offspring should be planned. this way both aunderstand the role. the best is don't even get into coming up with a product.

these are just some pointers. hope this help our brothers/sister here.

now back to the topic. tell the truth to the girl but never to ur wife. this will keep's u with 1 headache. let her make the decision and just respect what ever she come's up with.

This is good advice for those who want to end up ruined. Yes, they all feel alive and satisfied for as long as they get what they want. But once responsibilities come in, these guys usually disappear, and use all the excuses in the world not to take responsibility. They will use their wives and their children as their FIRST excuse for not taking responsibility. And the girl? Dumped like a hot potato. But ask yourself, really, is this the kind of life you want to live? I've been a victim of this myself, and have seen too many families that have been ruined by this kind of irresponsible and wanton lifestyle. Problem is, there are people who have money and no values, and people who need and want money with no values. So there's one formula for affairs.

Back to topic. Best way to end an illicit affair is NOT to start one. Keep it in your pants and go home and do the wife.

[trapped]

i have a cheating husband and its killing me softly..he maybe like you..he wanted to keep a family and just content to have an illicit affair.I*m not a nagger type..i kept my pain all alone..i just cry and pray..pray and cry but most of the time i get tired and wished that God would take my life and end my sufferings. I am a good wife and my life revolves around him and my children..but he said its not really my fault..that there is nothing i missed to do or failed to do..men are just like that..but how could i say it hurts me so deeply.I hope you guys realize that there is nothing right you can get from having an illicit affair..You just mistake it for love but its a actually a desire or a thought satisfaction that you could still get a girl, Until now i cant understand why men cant have satisfaction despite the wife does evrything to make a happy home..why having good children couldnt be enough..why despite the fact the being blessed of evry good things others would wish to have they could not repay God by being a responsible father and a faithful husband.I could not understand why they think thats it's enough that they provide the needs of the family.
i hope you free yourself from that and give your girl a decent life while the chance is still there..Be considerate to ur wife's feelings and the girl's future as well please!

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[SIZE=3]Maverickjazzy,[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=3]Wow, while reading your story I felt like I was sucked in a time machine and it brought me to a place where I used to be back then. A place which I wish I have never been through. [/SIZE]
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[SIZE=3]Just like you, I used to be an adulterer pare. Yup, that’s what you are right now. An adulterer. A man who commits adultery. Still can’t get it? Go to Wikipedia and try to read the definition and keep on reading it till your eyeballs come out and you become sober.[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=3]I made the same mistake that you’re making now. It’s hard to resist the affection and attention coming from a young beautiful woman, lalo na kung may ***. Ang sarap sarap. And while you’re screwing someone else, we are undmindful that our family—our wife and children—our family which we are supposed to be faithful to and working hard for, are quietly waiting for us at the end of the day. Our family which deserves the love of a husband and a father. A family who deserves nothing else than the love and respect of a real man, not someone who thinks he’s a real man because he can easily get inside the pants of a beautiful girl. [/SIZE]
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[SIZE=3]Just like you I found it hard to stop something that was giving so much pleasure and satisfaction. Ang hirap tapusin di ba? Ganyan talaga. So hindi ko tinapos. Bukas na lang, sabi ko sa sarili ko. Tumagal ng tumagal. And then before I knew it, sumabog sa harap ko. Everything happened so fast. I had to leave my job and almost lost my career. My in-laws and the whole clan of my wife hated me like I was Lucifer. No wait a minute, I think they like Lucifer better than me. I lost most of my friends. I almost lost my wife and child. In short, I destroyed my life by being so stupid. [/SIZE]
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[SIZE=3]It’s not too late pare. End it. End it now. Tell your mistress that it’s over. No need to tell her everything or explain anything. Just tell her (sms or letter) that you’re ending the relationship, that you want to break up because—well, you just want to. You have already done a lot of damage to her life, and you are actually doing her a favor by breaking up. Then cut all communication with her. Get a new job. No need to tell your wife anything. Because once she finds out, things will never be the same again, things will be even more complicated. Just start afresh, and start really loving your wife. Be a real man by being a faithful husband and being a responsible, loving father. That’s the definition of a real man. A real man will put the happiness of his wife and children over and above his own happiness. Be a real man, my friend. I wasn’t. But you have a chance to be. [/SIZE]
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[SIZE=3]I wish time machines were real. That way I can turn back time and undo what I have done. I wish I could go back in time and tell that stupid old fellow that was myself back then that hey, you’re about to destroy your life. But time machines aren’t real. All I could do now is face the reality of what I have done, and suffer forever for it. [/SIZE]
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[SIZE=3]You are standing right now on very dangerous grounds, but I guess you still don’t realize it. You are in the midst of a life-changing episode. It’s not too late my friend. End it now and start anew. Don’t end up like me. Be a real man. If you don’t want to listen, it’s really up to you. But get ready to suffer the consequences, and suffer hard you will. [/SIZE]

[dark_akatsuke24]

we are living in democratic country, wala namang batas n ngbabawal mag mahal ng dalawa....

[ghosthunter]

we are living in democratic country, wala namang batas n ngbabawal mag mahal ng dalawa....

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[dark_akatsuke24]

sorry brow...di na poh mauulit nextime...peace

[M68]

Iyung mga nagpapatawa kuno diyan eh sana huwag na kayong humirit kung wala ring kuwenta ang advice niyo. Hindi biro ang nangyayari sa TS ha. Kung nangyari na sa inyo iyan alam niyo gaano kahirap ang dinadaan niya. Eh kung babaero kayo at wala kayong pakialam sa mga sinasaktan niyo eh naniniwala naman ako sa karma eh. Be mature please.

[geobac123]

Iyung mga nagpapatawa kuno diyan eh sana huwag na kayong humirit kung wala ring kuwenta ang advice niyo. Hindi biro ang nangyayari sa TS ha. Kung nangyari na sa inyo iyan alam niyo gaano kahirap ang dinadaan niya. Eh kung babaero kayo at wala kayong pakialam sa mga sinasaktan niyo eh naniniwala naman ako sa karma eh. Be mature please.

I was been reading in this forum everyday and almost all the thread i read. First i would like to thanks to all the members for helping and giving advised for those who are in need. Anyway i can't even give advise to our TS because i have a problem that more complicated for what he have. Wish that our TS can move on and seetle down to his family. For you to know its very difficult if your number 2 will become pregnant like what happened to me. anyway i'm an OFW and I would like to thanks again to all the members of tsikoter to please continue giving advised for all the members that need your opinion. thanks and god bless happy new year!!!!!

[Rob@143]

"The Art of Subtle Seduction"

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[MR_BIG18]

how to stop an illicit love affair?..been there done that.....many many times...stop playing hero

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[dr. d]

"the faster and more immediate, the better."
"and don't look back", at baka ma-dapa ka lang (ulit!).

[Ry_Tower]

"the faster and more immediate, the better."
"and don't look back", at baka ma-dapa ka lang (ulit!).

Ang mahirap sa one time, baka maulitan.

[kagalingan]

ang ganda kasi pakingaan.... ilicit....

kung kabit or pakiki-apid eh tapos agad yan.....

[_Cathy_]

ang ganda kasi pakingaan.... ilicit....

kung kabit or pakiki-apid eh tapos agad yan.....

My friend who is with a married man for 7 years already said they are called GF and not mistress or kabit

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[CVT]

"the faster and more immediate, the better."
"and don't look back", at baka ma-dapa ka lang (ulit!).

Doc - iyan ang "Sometimes The Runner Stumbles..."

[akosijhay]

May babae ako nameet recently. According to her, matagal na daw syang single. Okay naman sya kausap, tsaka bonus kasi may looks.

Kaso eto problema, may biglang nag message sa akin at nagpakilala boyfriend daw sya ni girl. Sinabe na tigilan ko na daw yung pakikipag usap sa girlfriend nya. Ginawa ko, kinausap ko yung girl at sinabe ko yung tungkol dun sa guy na nag message sakin. Sinabe ko rin na ayoko maka sira ng relasyon ng iba kaya tigil ko nalang yung communication namin.

Sabe naman ni girl, matagal na daw sila hiwalay nung guy (lagpas 1 year na). Nag message din sa akin yung isang kaibigan nya at sinabe din na matagal na silang hiwalay nung guy. Yung guy lang daw talaga ayaw pa bumitaw kasi mahal pa rin nya yung babae.

Now I'm confuse sino paniniwalaan ko. Panay message pa rin nung guy sa akin at nakiki usap na tumigil na daw ako. Tingin ko, may pagka psycho yung guy kasi according dun sa girl, naka tanggap din sya ng death threat dun sa lalaki na yun.

Any advise kung itutuloy ko o hindi? Interested ako dun sa babae kaso concern lang ako sa safety nya at yung pagiging psycho nung guy nga.

TIA!

[dr. d]

May babae ako nameet recently. According to her, matagal na daw syang single. Okay naman sya kausap, tsaka bonus kasi may looks.

Kaso eto problema, may biglang nag message sa akin at nagpakilala boyfriend daw sya ni girl. Sinabe na tigilan ko na daw yung pakikipag usap sa girlfriend nya. Ginawa ko, kinausap ko yung girl at sinabe ko yung tungkol dun sa guy na nag message sakin. Sinabe ko rin na ayoko maka sira ng relasyon ng iba kaya tigil ko nalang yung communication namin.

Sabe naman ni girl, matagal na daw sila hiwalay nung guy (lagpas 1 year na). Nag message din sa akin yung isang kaibigan nya at sinabe din na matagal na silang hiwalay nung guy. Yung guy lang daw talaga ayaw pa bumitaw kasi mahal pa rin nya yung babae.

Now I'm confuse sino paniniwalaan ko. Panay message pa rin nung guy sa akin at nakiki usap na tumigil na daw ako. Tingin ko, may pagka psycho yung guy kasi according dun sa girl, naka tanggap din sya ng death threat dun sa lalaki na yun.

Any advise kung itutuloy ko o hindi? Interested ako dun sa babae kaso concern lang ako sa safety nya at yung pagiging psycho nung guy nga.

TIA!

terminate!
unless you feel it is a cause worth fighting for.

you may have no problems with the girl,
but you obviously may have future problems with the so-called "ex".

if you doubt me,
listen to dzrh drama serials. they start 11 am, M-F.
"if i can think about it, someone can definitely make it true."