How to ask your partner why he/she lies?

[Lucius]

Guys pano nyo ginagawa yun? Kunwari he/she would lie about his/her ex's names. Things like that. How do you handle yung situation na ganun? And pano if all this time he/she was feeding you with b.s.?

[_Cathy_]

For me the name issue is a non-issue because my BF's ex-gfs names are irrelevant to me. (I have no interest in knowing my bf's ex gf's names) Maybe she only changed the name of his ex as a substitute for pronouns? Instead of your gf just saying he or him - this is especially true for those who've had several exs (pangit naman if the designation is bf1 and bf2). She should have just told you that she wasn't comfortable about mentioning the name of her exs instead of lying. Plues exs shouldn't even talked about in the first place

But then since you mentioned that she has a habit of lying, now that's a different case. It is tiring to deal with liars since you're constantly on your tows, trying to find out if the person is telling the truth or not. Relationships are based on trust and honesty. If there is no trust, then the relationship is ultimately doomed.

[Lucius]

Well if you're getting things like "it's up to you if you trust me or not" crap hahaha

Why are there people na you already said that whatever is ok with you, they'd still lie.

[_Cathy_]

Well if you're getting things like "it's up to you if you trust me or not" crap hahaha

Why are there people na you already said that whatever is ok with you, they'd still lie.

If you've already assured her that you can deal with the truth and still she lies to you, then it would be really hard to trust her future statements.

Personally, I cannot deal with liars. Walang solusyon sa mga ganiyang tao.

[Lucius]

What if your partner has already given you everything and yet your partner still lies to you. What is the reason for lying? That I don't really get.

[_Cathy_]

Some people are just pathological liars. They just have to lie -for no reason at all. It's a habit. Are you the only person that she lies to? or have you heard complaints from other people as well.

[Flagg]

What if your partner has already given you everything and yet your partner still lies to you. What is the reason for lying? That I don't really get.

Lucius, used na pala. Get rid na.

[ghosthunter]

Guys pano nyo ginagawa yun? Kunwari he/she would lie about his/her ex's names. Things like that. How do you handle yung situation na ganun? And pano if all this time he/she was feeding you with b.s.?

Maybe its because "you cannot handle the truth"?

[Lucius]

Nope, kaya nga I always ask for the truth eh hahaha