It's okay for me! Live and let live.
Okay for me but will consider my relatives' approval.
Definitely not. It's not right!
to answer the question, kung sa ibang tao nangyari na mabuntis outside of marriage then it's not a big deal, pero kung mangyari sa family members ko then it's a very very big deal for me...hehehhehe
siyempre mas maganda kung kasal muna dehado kasi ung babae sa ganyang setup(sa guys parang nagiging pogi points pa nga e) ...kaso andiyan na e B) imho mas nakakahiya naman kung me anak tapos di kasal. anyways you guys love each other naman.
at the risk of being excommunicated...imho mas importante na talagang nagmamahalan kayo at kaya niyong mahalin/buhayin ang (mga) anak niyo. in some way, mas maiimpress pa nga ako sa couples that stay together without a marriage contract/treat of shame/etc...coz then the only reason for them to have stayed together would be love(naks)
to hell with what other people think -- buhay niyo yan. and at least your child will have two loving parents....something i can't say for some other "decently married" couples out there.
Last edited by badkuk; October 17th, 2007 at 12:38 PM.
I think you had the answer all along, you just wanted our opinion. My friend who is a single mom told me and my wife, "Masarap magka baby!" even if she's a single mom.
You know what's best in your situation. Every relationship is different. Just because her relatives are from the province doesn't mean ganun rin ugali nila. Unless you already know them, but they must respect your decision anyway. Like you said it's not a teeny bopper type of relationship anymore.
single moms usually say "masarap magka baby" kasi they cant say "masarap buhay may asawa"