Girl Question

[shadow]

i seem to fit the description. most of my friends are girls, and most of the time my role is bodyguard, companion, shopping-alalay, listener, utusan, driver etc etc.

afterthought: being the nice guy has it's benefits from the girls, too

ito quoted from the other thread...gawin mo lahat ito and let us see kung meron nga benefit...:hysterical:

Friends nalang?

Naging Mr. Nice Guy tuloy

haha

:lolabove:

[EGD16]

hmm...hinay hinay lang diskarte.. tapos ipakita mo na talagang seryoso ka sa kanya.. hehehe!.. mahirap yun nagmamadali baka mapunta lang sa wala yun diskarte moh.. malalaman mo din yan anu status ma sa kanya..

[chilli]

Just in time for valentines... maybe the experts could help me out

I work for a fairly large company, so my circle of friends is limited to my department.

There is a girl who i often see at work, she is from a different department and any chance of a link (common friends) is totally non existent.

Im having a hard time coming up with a way to make a first move. Im somewhat hesitant to approach her since i dont want to seem too eager, plus i dont want to mess up since i often see her around and i want to avoid awkward moments just in case.

Most likely she notices me, its just a gut feel that i have, but i really dont want to read too much into anything.

Any inputs?

Try to approach her. At least if ever she snobs you, you have tried. Eh kesa naman nakatayo ka lang dyan. Pano mo makikilala if di ka gagawa ng move. Pero start mo muna establish ang friendship. Mahirap kasi na papakita mo agad na like mo sya, you might scare her away.

[oliver1013]

Sabayan mo sa pantry o sa cafeteria pag merienda time..tas habang katabi mo siya at nagtitimpla ka kape sabihin mo...Your Hot!! pag tumingin ng masama sabihin mo I was referring to the coffee..sabay talikod tas wag ka na magpakita uli Pag tumingin naman at nakangiti...e alam mo na yun

[mazingerZ]

If you have email addresses at work pwede ring pa hi-hello lang muna. After that kung magreply na and medyo positive, pwedeng mag chat na kayo via ip. Then EB na (wak muna SEB ha, hehehe).

Pero kung wala talaga forward mo na lang lahat ng mga natanggap mo na mga chain letter sa kanya hehehe. Joke lang.

Anyways, good luck and happy hunting bro. . .

[hungryalien]

wag lang masyadong "friends" baka ma stuck na sya sa pure friendship lang.. baduy na.

just be a man! go talk to her :D

[badsekktor]

nyahahaha! nice advice!

bro kung di ka gagawa ng move, baka maunahan ka

[sean-archer]

there is no "formula" or tactic to win the girl over. kung gusto ka nya, gusto ka nya kahit gaano pa kabaduy ang gawin mo. If ayaw nya sayo, wag ka na mag effort because it will be a long shot. You'll feel naman kung type ka rin nya or hindi eh. you'll sense the "force" obi wan. hehe

[Type 100]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Better to have tried and failed than regret not even trying.

Although +1 ako sa paghinay-hinay muna habang di kayo magkakilala. I did the exact same thing last year. Kaput.

[CVT]

If she's in the early 20s,- malamang may nanay-nanayan iyan o Ate sa kanilang department.... Use her as a bridge if you cannot really start a conversation.....Siya ang pinakamagandang kakampi o tulay sa laban mo.....

In your common places at work like the cafeteria,- always look at her and be obvious about it. Walang masama kung tignan at tignan at tignan mo siya. I am sure that your eyes will meet one way or the other and she'll be conscious that you're looking at her all the time.... And all the people will be conscious about it too.... And they will start teasing both of you.... Then, that is a great opportunity for you to start your diskarte with her as others will definitely play ninong or ninang (bridges) between yourselves.... Just choose your bridges para walang complications... Wala pang gastos sa ganitong style, until you start being friends with her......

And please, do not introduce yourself to her as laklak.... .....

Also, if I remember correctly, you're an engineering graduate from taft-estrada, right?.... We're not molded to be mahiyain....:peace:

5404:knit:

[Bogeyman]

Sabayan mo sa pantry o sa cafeteria pag merienda time..tas habang katabi mo siya at nagtitimpla ka kape sabihin mo...Your Hot!! pag tumingin ng masama sabihin mo I was referring to the coffee..sabay talikod tas wag ka na magpakita uli Pag tumingin naman at nakangiti...e alam mo na yun

:bwahaha:

Pwedeng pick-up line ito. :naughty2:

[Djerms]

lakasan lang ng loob yan. or in other words, pakapalan ng mukha

pag nakita mo, e di say "hi. kamusta? ano balita? grabe ang init dun sa office namin, wala ba vacancy dyan sa inyo?? pag sumagot, e di kausapin.

next time mo makita, say "hi" ulit. "kamusta" ulit. pag sumagot, kausapin ulit.

wag mo ask name nya, hayaan mo siya magsabi. parang "ay oo nga pala ako si laklak. uy hindi ah, nick ko lang ang laklak, di ako lasenggo. ikaw umiinom ka? i mean tubig? meryenda tayo minsan." pag tumawa, tawa ka din. pag di pa din sinabi sa iyo ang name, sori ka kasi may boypren na sya! joke!

put your best butt forward, basta cool ka lang tsong! wag ka manliligaw agad, basted ka agad nyan. friends muna saka na yung flowers and chocolates. pag binigay na sa u ang cel number, yan pwede ka na gumire. soft approach, di na uso ngayon ang gulpi de gulat

MASTER! Im at your disposal. HANEP ka talaga pre

[mayana]

lakasan lang ng loob yan. or in other words, pakapalan ng mukha

pag nakita mo, e di say "hi. kamusta? ano balita? grabe ang init dun sa office namin, wala ba vacancy dyan sa inyo?? pag sumagot, e di kausapin.

next time mo makita, say "hi" ulit. "kamusta" ulit. pag sumagot, kausapin ulit.

wag mo ask name nya, hayaan mo siya magsabi. parang "ay oo nga pala ako si laklak. uy hindi ah, nick ko lang ang laklak, di ako lasenggo. ikaw umiinom ka? i mean tubig? meryenda tayo minsan." pag tumawa, tawa ka din. pag di pa din sinabi sa iyo ang name, sori ka kasi may boypren na sya! joke!

put your best butt forward, basta cool ka lang tsong! wag ka manliligaw agad, basted ka agad nyan. friends muna saka na yung flowers and chocolates. pag binigay na sa u ang cel number, yan pwede ka na gumire. soft approach, di na uso ngayon ang gulpi de gulat

This is the best approach! At parehas ng sabi ni Sir Syu iba ang diskarte sa professional at pakawalang babae. At mas matindi ang tama sa girl kung nagustuhan ka nya dahil nadevelop sya sayo.

[laklak]

bro, naalala mo pa ba yung kasabihang, "never !t where you eat?"

not particularly concerned with this, since i really dont have plans of staying long in this company.

[safeorigin]

paging master lucius

hehehe, ako kiss agad tulad ng sabi ni master lucius

[laklak]

If she's in the early 20s,- malamang may nanay-nanayan iyan o Ate sa kanilang department.... Use her as a bridge if you cannot really start a conversation.....Siya ang pinakamagandang kakampi o tulay sa laban mo.....

In your common places at work like the cafeteria,- always look at her and be obvious about it. Walang masama kung tignan at tignan at tignan mo siya. I am sure that your eyes will meet one way or the other and she'll be conscious that you're looking at her all the time.... And all the people will be conscious about it too.... And they will start teasing both of you.... Then, that is a great opportunity for you to start your diskarte with her as others will definitely play ninong or ninang (bridges) between yourselves.... Just choose your bridges para walang complications... Wala pang gastos sa ganitong style, until you start being friends with her......

And please, do not introduce yourself to her as laklak.... .....

Also, if I remember correctly, you're an engineering graduate from taft-estrada, right?.... We're not molded to be mahiyain....:peace:

5404:knit:

well actually, the real reason I began to notice her is I often see her stealing glances, and pag napapatingin ako biglang umiiwas ng tingin. So i started doing what you said, kaso dyahe minsan yung pag stare.

tama, taga taft ako before. kaso mahina ako sa sariling sikap, kadalasan kasi panay pinapakilala lang sa akin.

anyway, your suggestions are almost exactly what i had in mind. i just wanted to make sure na tama yung iniisip kong diskarte

[LexTer]

Laklak goes to accounting dept...

laklak: "Hi, i'm from the engineering dept."

girl: "So?"

laklak goes back to engineering.

hahaha. natawa ako dito a. :bwahaha:

[Bogeyman]

And please, do not introduce yourself to her as laklak....

May kilala ako dati na mahilig baligtarin yung pangalan niya, style daw.

With that in mind, ok na yung pakilala siya as "laklak", kesa naman "kalkal".

[roninblade]

Laklak goes to accounting dept...

laklak: "Hi, i'm from the engineering dept."

girl: "So?"

laklak goes back to engineering.

hangkulet! hahahah! parang pwede sa episode ng Dilbert or ng the I.T. Crowd

[Syuryuken]

well actually, the real reason I began to notice her is I often see her stealing glances, and pag napapatingin ako biglang umiiwas ng tingin. So i started doing what you said, kaso dyahe minsan yung pag stare.

tama, taga taft ako before. kaso mahina ako sa sariling sikap, kadalasan kasi panay pinapakilala lang sa akin.

anyway, your suggestions are almost exactly what i had in mind. i just wanted to make sure na tama yung iniisip kong diskarte

baka naman yung tingin na hinuhubaran

bro maganda ba? bigay mo muna sa akin number pag nakuha mo ako ng bahalang maglakad sayo