Have you ever asked a person to be your friend?

[drey]

Guys, have you ever asked a person to be your friend? How about your best friend? How are you sure that he treats you like one?

[cutedoc]

i am sure of my best friend because we have gone through difficult times, and we both hanged on together, walang iwanan.

have i asked somebody to be my friend? sa friendster nagpapa add ako minsan pero i dont ask them to be my friend, add nila ako kasi cute sila o pretty sila=)

i equate "friend" with certain levels
1. acquaintance / common friend / initial introduction through a friend - this is mere hi and hello, how do you do, kind of thing, this may be of business affair or you are introduced during a gathering. you can also equate this with neighbor, schoolmate or officemates which you dont talk with but you know you are neighbors, so when you casually bump into each other you nod or smile or say hi.

2. friends only - you go to parties, you gimik together

3. close friends/ best friend- you bond together, you share some secrets

4. true friend - if there true love, there a true friend as well, this is somebody you can share everything with, someone who wont let you go, help you in all sufferings, laugh at good times, in short you can count on this person in both good and bad times, as this person knows you inside and out. usually you have only 1 or 2 of these true friend.

[badsekktor]

Guys, have you ever asked a person to be your friend? How about your best friend? How are you sure that he treats you like one?

yep! dont tell me you guys dont ask girls that you like to be your friend?
wala naman siguro dito nagsabi sa girl na type kita! tayo na! hehehehe!!!

pero seriously you dont ask someone to be your friend. it just happens na bigla na lang kayo lagi magkasama whether gimik or whatever bringsboth of you together. lalo na kung pareho hilig nyo

[MAXBUWAYA]

Cmon what if its a guy!

because thats kinda gay.

[badsekktor]

Cmon what if its a guy!

because thats kinda gay.

nyahahahaha!!!

yeah! come to think of it, asking somebody to be your friend can only be applicable for opposite ***es....

i do find it gay asking the same *** to be your friend..

[GerardTagayty]

i never ask.. we just click i guess...

[cablespy]

Guys, have you ever asked a person to be your friend? How about your best friend? How are you sure that he treats you like one?

If you ever have to ask for someone to be your friend, you're pathetic. It just happens.

[CVT]

IMO, it should come naturally.

Else, it's an ackward situation....

2901:pokemon:

[Jun aka Pekto]

I agree that there's no need to ask someone to be your friend except maybe when innocently asking as a young kid. You'll know if you have a true friend if that person just "clicks" with you.

I keep my circle of friends small. But they're those I've known since childhood here. Even when we moved to the Philippines, I kept in touch with them. After I got back, same. We all have families now. But,we still keep in touch.

I have a couple of friends in the Philippines that I can consider true friends. One is my best friend in HS who I've kept in touch with up to now. The other, I lost track of and who I'm now trying to find.

[oldblue]

a friend in need, is a friend indeed.

keep your friends close, but your best friend closer

[uls]

Best friend: A guy who is interested in ur girl

[muse]

only in myspace/facebook

isn't this question only asked in real life when you're in elementary school?

i remember some fob japanese guy asking me if i could be his friend a few years ago in one of my night classes. that was a very awkward moment, but couldn't say no. i dropped the class and never spoke to the guy ever since.

[m2's kumander]

asked a person to be my friend? hmmm.. di pa naman

di naman ata ask yun..you would know or feel kung sino friends mo!:lol:

[cablespy]

Best friend: A guy who is interested in ur girl

lolz.

Share your exprerience 'friend'.

[shadow]

actually naguluhan ako sa tanong, u don't asked someone to be your friend...nangyayari na lang yun...tama yun isang poster na pathetic if you are asking someone to be your friend...

[BratPAQ]

Pwede rin the person wants to be closer to you pero meron na sila bf/gf. To eliminate the guilt they will label the relationship as "friends". Pero masyado kayo close. [emoji23]

[misseksaherada]

Pwede rin the person wants to be closer to you pero meron na sila bf/gf. To eliminate the guilt they will label the relationship as "friends". Pero masyado kayo close. [emoji23]

Uso pa ba yan sa late 20s and up?

[BratPAQ]

Uso pa ba yan sa late 20s and up?

Didn't know may age limit pala yan. Happened to me when I was 15 and again on my early 20s. Both have BF na sundalo na naka deploy.

[misseksaherada]

Didn't know may age limit pala yan. Happened to me when I was 15 and again on my early 20s. Both have BF na sundalo na naka deploy.

Cheating na tingin ko kapag late 20s tapos meron bf/gf pero may bestfriend na opposite s3x (straight) tapos lalabas na sila lang or magka-chat..
Kapag may bf/gf dapat umexit na si bestfriend or close friend.. Lokohan na yan..

[bugsmobile]

Parang one of the conversations my friend & I had before. Can you be close with an opposite s*x & won’t have feelings? I said yes & he said no.