Originally Posted by
bougartt
Did you guys ever experince a time that the EX of your partner would just not leave your relationship alone?
Well here's my story
Alright so way before I made a thread about how to propose to my girlfriend and stuff..
Now that we're engaged, and word has spread quite quickly. It has spread to all of our networks. So now we're preparing for the wedding, here comes HER EX. Constantly trying to communicate with her. Through texts, emails and telephone calls. I said just tell him ONCE to just leave us alone and for me thats enough.
Well the guy lives in the states and to our surprise the douche bag shows up in MY FIANCE's HOUSE (here in the Philippines) on CHRISTMAS DAY. We both were caught off guard. So my fiance's family was PRESENT, because we were celebrating Christmas in her house. So my fiance goes out and talks to him. I heard their conversation go something like "Hi, I was in the area I decided to drop by and give you something, if you're not doing anything maybe you would want to have a cup of coffee etc etc.." I waited for 10 mins my heart was beating so hard, i couldnt breath and after hearing the conversation i purposely went out of the house,stood in front of the door of the house for him to see me.
I honestly wanted to beat the brains out of this guy for having the nerve to show himself and invite my fiance for coffee.
(SORRY but I believe you severe ties with past lovers when you are committed with someone. )
So back to the story, from a far, I purposely cleared my throat to catch my fiance's attention to introduce me. All i said was I'm HER FIANCE. And that was it. I kept my cool with not trying to mouth off anymore.
I saw the disappointment in the guy's face and decided to leave.
So my point in writing and opening this thread is:
1. Did I do the right thing for just saying " I'm _____,HER FIANCE"
2. What if this ex is so persistent, any tips on how to make this guy leave us alone? Because honestly you're not being mature for homewrecking a relationship.
Your inputs are valued. Thanks :-)