what to do when your partner cheated on you.

[m_ron]

i'm really fuc&ing depress right now,as like the title says,What should i do?feeling ko parang nasa bottom of the bottom ang buhay ko.nangyari na ba sa inyo to?I want to waste somebody.

[redorange]

First don't waste anybody that won't make you feel any better and will cause you more problems. If you don't mind me asking is it your girlfriend, wife, etc?
It may seem like you are at the bottom for now but that just means there is no place to go but up. If you are depress talk to someone i.e. family, friends, counselor, anyone so that you can get a better handle on things. Try not to be alone so you won't get more depressed.

[m_ron]

ok, i'll just beat the hell out of him and ruined his life. I don't have the balls to talk to my family about this.That's why i turned to tsikot.com.

[ian_rex]

it depends. when i caught them in the act then it so happen it was my wife, i'll kill them both. but if it is my girlfriend, i'll beat the **** out of him

[afrasay]

ok, i'll just beat the hell out of him and ruined his life. I don't have the balls to talk to my family about this.That's why i turned to tsikot.com.

Ask the question, "why?" and then go from there. Never talk to the guy or confront him. You'll just make matters worst. Talk to your partner, if she still continues after it, you and her are not meant to be.


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[Kicker15]

it depends. when i caught them in the act then it so happen it was my wife, i'll kill them both. but if it is my girlfriend, i'll beat the **** out of him

I'll do the same thing. Based on experience this usually happend in callcenters. there are a lot of illegal relationships and breakups that happens in this industry

back to the topic, i'll still beat the **** out of him or hire someone else do it for me (just playting it safe)

[ian_rex]

*kicker, hiring someone else to do it for you is an accessory to crime. especially if it is your wife. i forgot the law stating that when caught in the act of adultery, you could kill your wife and the man. then be charged with manslaughter and not murder.

mind you, manslaughter can be paroled unlike murder.

umaligid nga lang sa gf ko medyo foul na para sa akin- usually, i wanted to talk to the guy. pag makulit talaga, pinapa 'kiliti' ko na. para magtanda...

[low_profile2]

bro the best thing to do is talk... talk to your partner and then you just got to move on huwag mong sayangin ang lie mo ..marami pa dyan na deserving para sayo..ingat bro

[GlennSter]

bro, para sakin, dalawa lang yan.

1) patawarin mo
2) hiwalayan mo.

mahirap lang yan sa umpisa kasi mahal mo talaga.but you gotta do what you gotta do.

pasko pa naman ngayon..go out bro.

hehehe..dalawang beses nako na ganyan..so mejo i feel your pain ika nga.

[m_ron]

I'm trying to move on. Pero the beast in me wants to ......him.

[m_ron]

bro, para sakin, dalawa lang yan.

1) patawarin mo
2) hiwalayan mo.

mahirap lang yan sa umpisa kasi mahal mo talaga.but you gotta do what you gotta do.

pasko pa naman ngayon..go out bro.

hehehe..dalawang beses nako na ganyan..so mejo i feel your pain ika nga.

So,What did you do?patawad or hiwalay?

sounds corny:pero mahal na mahal ko yung babae.

[ian_rex]

*m_ron, i think both.

you cannot move on without forgiving.

ok lang yan. isipin mo na lang na, "when God took something away from you, He wanted to replace it with a better one".

sorry if i seem reckless on my earlier post. but it is a natural thing to do. but then again we are civilized here.

[m_ron]

I dunno man,mahal na mahal ko yung babae kaya hindi ko hiniwalaya pero pinatawad ko na sya.pero every minute na iisip ko pa rin yung nagawa nya(sorry kung hindi masyadong elaborate and nagyari sa amin,just for my privacy na rin).Every minute of my life i'm thinking of ....... that guy.I guess i will just take it one day at a time.

[ian_rex]

i'd say, move forward.

if you think that you cannot let go of what happened in the past, then perhaps you should think of your position should you decide to proceed. the way i see it, hindi na ma-ibabalik ang nasirang tiwala.

[afrasay]

maganda siguro gf mo...well don't blame it on the guy. na attract siya sa gf mo, then na attract yun gf mo sa kanya, all is fair in love and war. maybe what you should do is ask yourself how did it happen? and perhaps when you have answered that question it's time to move on and learned from that mistake. who knows someday you'll find yourself in the same spot where the same guy is in now.

[afrasay]

i'd say, move forward.

if you think that you cannot let go of what happened in the past, then perhaps you should think of your position should you decide to proceed. the way i see it, hindi na ma-ibabalik ang nasirang tiwala.

maibabalik pa rin po, but it will take time.

[GlennSter]

So,What did you do?patawad or hiwalay?

sounds corny:pero mahal na mahal ko yung babae.

ginawa ko noon was..

HIWALAY tapos patawad

i can't stand unfaithful partners. since i myself have never been unfaithful. puro salita lang ako pero never talaga ako nambabae...so i am expecting my partner to do the same.

pero kung wal anaman akong gf...hala sige sige lang!hehehehe

tama yan..one day at a time.madaling sabihin, mahirap gawin. pero wala ka namang ibang choice diba. kalokohan kung may gagawin ka pang kagaguhan. di maitatama ng kamalian ang isa pang kamalian..

hang out ka lang dito sa tsikot everyday...hehehehe

[GlennSter]

maibabalik pa rin po, but it will take time.

sabi nga ng besprens parokya ni edgar...

ang tiwala, parang tsokolateng natunaw. mahirap nang ibalik sa orihinal netong estado.hehehe

[ian_rex]

for me, it depends. nasa tao naman yan e. all you have to do is to take risk.

but make it limited to 3 times only.

yes, take it one day at a time.

learn new things. keep your self busy...

[Bogeyman]

m_ron, mukhang ironic ang reaction mo considering your sig.

Anyway, tama ka. Just take it one day at a time. Avoid being too hasty in words and deeds, which might lead to something you'll regret later on. And don't wallow; that's the worst thing you can do. Laging magpakatatag, at huwag mag-atubiling kausapin ang pamilya at mga kaibigan kung kailangan ng karamay.