Do you still value virginity?

[Jun aka Pekto]

your simply comparing apples with oranges and now your missing my point. if that is your point than you teach that instead :D

as for my male students,i teach them something else,and thats responsibility for their actions but i must admit that i am more closer to my female students. they find me as their "uncle figure". somebody who they trust enough to talk about the other sapects of life

at the end of the day,it all boils down to this...if your happy with common ore then you might as well ot think of it. but then if you value something special then you might as well be digging for gold :D

ikaw,ano choice mo?

I guess I am missing the point. Virginity is not having *** prior to marriage. That can apply equally to both man and woman. So, I don't see where it's apples and oranges. From what I can gather, you're implying there's a separate set of standards for men and women, that it's ok for the guy to have had *** before marriage and he doesn't have to worry of any stigma about it. But for a woman who've had premarital ***, she'll have to bear the stigma of being a loose woman. That's what your remark about common ore and gold indicates. And if that can apply to a woman, please explain why it cannot apply to a guy as well?

Me? I regard women as human beings. There is no common ore or gold. They're people and people make mistakes. I give that allowance because not all women who've had premarital *** are loose or have a low moral fiber. I said I didn't care about a woman's virginity because of the practical issue. I still do. But, another reason is I value the relationship far more than virginity. That's my standard.

Even if a woman is loose, I'm not qualified enough to judge them.

[pitbullz]

yes,i am definitely saying that we live in a world thats built around the male's ego/convenience. that is the sad truth. and of course,not everything a woman(or a man) is privileged to do base on social acceptability is applicable to the opposite ***(depending on which community you belong). if thats your arguement than its ok for every filipino men to be wearing lipsticks and makeup plus wearing a dress as a "normal" attire? but women should not feel at a disadvantage anyways...men will never have the joy of experiencing birth and gestation. so i suppose that its a give and take then. everything balances out eventually...

its good if you dont regard women as mere material objects,but again...your not getting my point, pardon my example,but if you say on your mind na "masarap si tanya" does it mean that tanya is something edible? if so than that would be cannibalism.

thats very noble of you. we are not on any grounds to judge anybody base on what they do or what they did and even what they are about to do. but preferences doesnt always mean that you have to judge him or her all the way.(of course,there will still be judging of some sort). again,nobody is perfect :D