Dating Apps (Tinder, Bumble, Badoo etc)

[_Cathy_]

pag dalaga pa sariling pleasure ang hinanap pero pag naging single mom nagbabago ang outlook sa buhay

concern ng mga single mom future ng anak nila (i hear that a lot)

when single moms are in the dating pool i don't think they're only looking for s#x or companionship

they're looking for a someone who will help them (maging stepfather ng anak nila)

ginagalingan nila ang performance para makakuha ng guy

tulad ng ginagawa nila kay kagalingan

Oh iba nga pag single Mom. I know someone who dates single Moms (play time lang) kasi they are easier to bed at wala daw arte sa s3x [emoji15]

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[suv]

yung mga nameemeet ko mga working na anak so its more of consistent/lifetime partner yung hanap. Ang bukang bibig usually = "malungkot mag-isa"

Umiiwas ako sa singlemom na baby, elementary, pa anak. Mahilig mag-alok ng business or mangunugtang.

[uls]

yung mga nameemeet ko mga working na anak so its more of consistent/lifetime partner yung hanap. Ang bukang bibig usually = Malungkot mag-isa

Iwas ako sa singlemom na baby, elementary, pa anak.

onga pala i forgot puro middle ager mga single mom mo

[Walter]

ginagalingan nila ang performance para makakuha ng guy
tulad ng ginagawa nila kay kagalingan

... galingan for kagalingan ...

[_Cathy_]

That's why I don't believe in finding love sa dating apps Ang daming manloloko, either cheaters or scammers.

Long con 2 yrs BF/GF before nangutang yung lalaki. Kapag ang BF/GF nanungutang MAJOR RED FLAG. Ang cute pa naman ng girl at mabait (nagpautang ba naman ng P1.2M sa BF) Kapal ng mukha ng guy, siya pa galit pag siningil. Also, the guys sounds gay.

[jojopad]

https://youtu.be/Qfn1ZFfPxbU

[misseksaherada]

Ito yung pang-apat.. humabol.. ok naman na siguro yung feedback ng apat na lalaki..
Matalino pa pala itong friend ko, dean's lister din.. Isa sa former employer nya yung Oracle.. Waiting na lang sya maipadala sa Australia..

[_Cathy_]

Marami pa rin matinong lalaki at babae. Not all men have mistresses. Also, there are high value men na even their mistresses are high value (doctor, corporate, fashionistas etc)

I don't understand the cynicism when it comes to relationships/marrIage 😳

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[_Cathy_]

I think another reason why He Huang is not attractive to men is because she is so mentally and emotionally STABLE. It's crazy how negative traits are "rewarded" and seen as attractive by men

Crazy > Stable. That is so fcked up but I read in US forums na men do tend to get drawn to crazies. I'm not proud of it but I can't count the number of times I have been called psycho/crazy/insane since my teens (which I was so much in denial but even my girl friends said the same) I am still praying that I get my issues resolved and become a stable person because I want to be in a lasting HEALTHY relationship.

I installed bumble a few days ago as a distraction and I matched with another "true green" (lsgh/dlsu) and another Atenean asking me to meet agad both of them specified a restaurant na) When I told He Huang, she said, "Bakit hindi ako mabenta sa Atenista at Lasalista" I honestly don't know what to say

[dr. d]

I think another reason why He Huang is not attractive to men is because she is so mentally and emotionally STABLE. It's crazy how negative traits are "rewarded" and seen as attractive by men

Crazy > Stable. That is so fcked up but I read in US forums na men do tend to get drawn to crazies. I'm not proud of it but I can't count the number of times I have been called psycho/crazy/insane since my teens (which I was so much in denial but even my girl friends said the same) I am still praying that I get my issues resolved and become a stable person because I want to be in a lasting HEALTHY relationship.

I installed bumble a few days ago as a distraction and I matched with another "true green" (lsgh/dlsu) and another Atenean asking me to meet agad both of them specified a restaurant na) When I told He Huang, she said, "Bakit hindi ako mabenta sa Atenista at Lasalista" I honestly don't know what to say

there may be various "formulas", but ultimately, it's still a personal choice.
'tis probably one reason why one man's poisson is another man's elixir.

[uls]

when you see a profile of a woman sa dating app, di naman agad nalalaman kung "crazy" ang babae

men only find out a woman is crazy after getting to know her

[_Cathy_]

there may be various "formulas", but ultimately, it's still a personal choice.
'tis probably one reason why one man's poisson is another man's elixir.

He Huang is puzzled why despite of my attitude na men put up with me while she can't get anyone to go beyond matches. Napa research din ako so I came across this forum discussing a study na in general, men are drawn to the "crazy" types. I was told by an ex that I give him something like euphoric highs and suicidal lows Ex so straight out calls me a psycho and true green has called me several DSM cluster groups na ata LOL. Hindi ko na isa isahin lahat but it's a pattern I saw that is why I want to seem professional help na rin because I am tired of the failed relationships.

when you see a profile of a woman sa dating app, di naman agad nalalaman kung "crazy" ang babae

men only find out a woman is crazy after getting to know her

well yeah, I asked the recent Lasallite and Atenean and they said my photo, career and school made them swipe me. Pero I said na 3 yrs na ko jobless and they don't mind naman

pero ang issue kay He Huang, with the guys that swiped her, walang nakikipag meet or kung meron man walang effort or progress. Kaya naisip ko na maybe because she is too mentally and emotionally stable na men find her boring, no challenge or uninteresting. Kasi marami naman pangit nga pero may asawa. Si He Huang kahit magbaba ng standards wala pa rin. Even her blue collar ex treated her badly

[_Cathy_]

And then there are those that lie about their schools or trying to pass off as Manila

Funny yung sabihin Ateneo or DLSU wala naman course like that 🤣

It's a jungle out there. Kaya when this guy claims na he lives from X village he videod his drive home as proof kasi naman he doesn't know the usual places residents go to.

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[_Cathy_]

He Huang told me recently she matched with a good looking guy sa dating app. After 3 exchange of lines the guy asked her out for lunch agad (there are really guys like that there) She asked him why is he on bumble and the guy said he doesn't know, he's just trying it out.

Here is what He Huang did

She said that she is on bumble because she is looking for a relationship and she dates to marry. After that the guy unmatched her. No other words said.

I literally LOLd and told her why the hell would she say those things kasi HAHAHAHAH! Major face palm!!!!

[uls]

(there are really guys like that there)

coz that's what grown ups do

pang bata ung mag chachat ng isa dalawang buwan bago magkita

kita agad para malaman kung type ang isa't isa

[_Cathy_]

coz that's what grown ups do

pang bata ung mag chachat ng isa dalawang buwan bago magkita

kita agad para malaman kung type ang isa't isa

pero exag naman yung 3 exchange of lines. I think guys like that just "mass send" those lines and see sinong kakagat. LOL.

Yung mga eligible na naka match ko are more discerning, they also look at the career and school and background and they usually ask to meet within the week.

Kapag within the day feeling ko fck boy yan. Funny lang He Huang made a fck boy do a NOPE [emoji23]

[uls]

the guy was probably bored and wanted to meet someone agad

so yes it's very likely he messaged several women hoping meron game makipagmeet agad

[_Cathy_]

So here's another proof that men are drawn to psycho. This is the Atenean I matched with. I went silent today kasi sad nga ako

Masyado kasi emotionally and mentally stable si He Huang

Re Cabalen kasi we talked about how horrible the food is there hehe










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[Walter]

Cabalen ... famous for food poisoning ...

[_Cathy_]

Cabalen ... famous for food poisoning ...

Oh I didn't know that. All I know is the food is terrible. It's amazing they are still in business.

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