Another love problem

[MACpod]

What are the effective ways to stop thinking of a person whom you fell in love with so much but can't reciprocate the feeling?

That person enters your mind almost every minute from the time you wake up to the minute you fall asleep and it causes so much pain inside.

Any best advices you can give? TIA

[BoEinG_747]

sa babae ka nasaktan..babae din gamot diyan
(sorry na lang sa new gal..nagagamit sia)

[ghosthunter]

alcohol... liberal amounts of alcohol and a few buddies to share those with.

[VtEC]

as much as possible keep yourself busy.

[flakez]

hanap ka ng pwede pag libangan. punta sa barkada, attend sa mga EB.

pero parang tingin ko babae nga din katapat niyan. hehehe

[Syuryuken]

as much as possible keep yourself busy.

+1

Mas maganda yung marami kang ginagawa para hindi mo masyadong naiisip yung girl.

[tsupermario]

AFO

[scharnhorst]

lavish your attention on your tsikot. hehe

[170kphlang]

keep yourself busy with taking care of your car... (washing, detailing, etc..) as much as you would on a girl. kapag babae kasi kahit anong tatag niyan may chance palagi na pwede ka iwan niyan (vice-versa) pero your car, it won't leave without you.

[mayana]

*MACpod

Seryoso ka pala when you asked the same question sa kabilang thread...

[nitrox]

Lilipas din yan! Buti na yang maagang nag-manifest ng negative feelings si babae. Imagine mo kung naging kayo tapos bigla na lang yang nag-decide na ayawan na, e di ba mas bad trip yon? Wag mo na ipilit kung ayaw nya. :D

Further to what some of our friends said you can engage in a new hobby, a new sport, travel to an exotic place, get a new car, go out and meet new girls, splurge on yourself. Good luck.

[Galant_VR_94]

Try to find something to occupy your mind. Pag may problema ako, i usually buy model planes and assemble them in the shortest possible time. Kung marami ka namang gas, go for a drive. If all comes to an end, nandyan naman ang mga barkada eh. Look for someone to vent out your frustrations. Its better to let it out than keeping it inside.

[BoEinG_747]

or isipin mo lahat ng pangit sa kanya..

pangit ugali .maitim na armpit,mabaho hininga ,kinakagat ang kuko sa paa ,
mas malakas pa sa iyo uminom ng alak , may tulili sa tenga

basta lahat ng ayaw mo sa isang tao isipin mo nasa kanya ..

at mag dudusa ka lang habang buhay pag sia nakatuluyan mo

[FullThrottle]

[SIZE=3]IMO, I suggest that you involve yourself in a new sport or physically strenuous hobby that requires a lot of time, dedication and will make you feel so exhausted at the end of the day that you won’t need to cry yourself to sleep.

Some examples: start working out in a local gym or take up boxing/martial arts. Mas maganda kung araw-araw ang ensayo, and take your training seriously. Take this as an opportunity for self-improvement.

Personally I’ve been dumped and had been in failed relationships a lot of times in the past pero now that I’m married I look back and laugh at those experiences. In fact nagpapasalamat pa nga ako sa kanilang lahat dahil if it were not for those past break-ups e I would not have met my wife.

Wag mo nang pilitin kung ayaw, accept & respect her decision.

Sabi nga ng isang kaibigan ko dati when I was in the middle of a heartbreak, “You have no right to question God’s plans. If he thinks that this girl is not destined for you, nothing that you do will bring her back. The girl that’s meant for you is just waiting to arrive at God’s perfect time. And that perfect time is not for us to decide, but God’s. So let go and then move on.”

And so that’s what I did, and then dumating yung mrs. ko when I finally gave up looking and waiting.

Sothat’s what you also need to do—LET GO and then MOVE ON.
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[Lucius]

The only way I know is a MINI-EB!!

Don't be too serious, let it go and move on gaya ng sabi ng ibang tsikoteers. Let her do whatever she wants, show that you don't care. Show her and everyone that you love yourself more than her.

Ako I don't let women get in to my head, hassle. Easy easy lang para di masaktan, hirap kasi pag masyado attached.

[cutedoc]

macpod - ive been there, its really difficult not to think of her and her alone, you will feel unwanted adn you will self pity, tama sila babae din ang solusyon sa problema dahil sa babae, have somebody, pero sasabihin mo ang hirap nun how can you find somebody when you are in the verge of downfall...

ive done it, the prob is or my problem is, after a failure another failure arise, nagkakataon yung mga gusto kong babae ayaw sa akin, yun di ko gusto silang ang interesado sa akin...

busy yourself, join tsikot eb, join group dynamics, join various activity that will enroute your mind, go to gym, work harder on your job, watch tv, movies, dvd, series, and pray=)

wag mong gagawin is to think bad about the past girls, keep a good memory of them=)

[chain]

usually, I don't post on topics like this pero somehow I got intrigued in how you wrote down your dilemma.

so anyway, if she can't reciprocate what your feeling, then don't force it. she doesn't deserve it.

eto lang ang keywords dyan: keep yourself occupied.

[chua_riwap]

Keep yourself busy, Bro.

Tsaka daming chicks diyan sa Dubai. Kumuha ka na ng iba.

[b1rken5tock]

i-post mo yung pic ng girl para mapintasan namin ...

biro lang po...

ang solusyon dyan e maghanap ng iba, hanggat inde ka nakakakita ng kapalit e talagang laig mo syang maiisip...ika nga eh there is a lot of fish in the ocean... kung wala sa ocean try the fish market...

[b1rken5tock]

Keep yourself busy, Bro.

Tsaka daming chicks diyan sa Dubai. Kumuha ka na ng iba.

nasa dubai ba ang TS? pasyalan mo yung CYCLONE.. daming tsikas doon.. puro international pa ang byuti..