just in case tama lahat yung connections pwede kaya ito,
found this on the net, since negative yung nilalabas nung stock headlight, pwede ko kaya gawin yan. bale ang nakakabit sa 85 is yung stock high beam (-) tapos yung 87 papunta don sa trigger (86) ng relay nung low beam so kapag naghigh ako eh magiging positive yung input sa low relay kaya hindi na ito iilaw. yun nga lang ang naisip ko with this diagram eh baka naman hindi umilaw yung low kasi hindi energized yung relay kapag nakalow lang yung headlight switch.

still a newbie when it comes to DIYing relays and it electronic in particular, i really apreciate your help.