was also choosing between the 2...
I ended up with a second hand Grandis!... This car has many surprises, very refined... as in mid size car refinement!... space is abundant for 1 and 2nd row... 3rd row will have space if 2nd row will share legroom (just like fortuner)... quite fast too, it can outdrive a Fortuner / Trooper easily... speed and handling!
I got it coz it cheaper than a fortuner (2nd hand or brand new)... the only issues I have for the Grandis is resale (which doesnt matter to me, esp i got it 2nd hand)... Gas consumption is 6Km... on the high side, but tolerable on my end. My other car also does 6Kms
Driving a Van alone or as a couple, might feel weird... it is still a van... mukhang Daddy talaga

(can be a pro or con... up to you)
Bottom line with my own money and if I drive...
Brand new: Fortuner (will do the job, higher resale, will not be weird driving alone)
2nd Hand: Grandis hands down!
But if I have a driver: Grandis brand new!
just my 2 cents