Nagbabasa din daw ng tsikot si Mrs. 1D4LV?
But for me, I'd generally expect my better half to take on the extra bagges and wrinkles as we get older (given they give birth, work and have to put with us husbands on a daily basis

). Kaya at the end of the day, if one's partnership is based on real solid footing, bring on the flabs and wrinkles and all will turn out fine. Bonus nalang talaga for guys like 1D4LV that their wives age beautifully.
As for my ex-crushes, that's why they're old crushes because di na sila crushable ngayon.

I'd bet those who had a thing for me before would also feel the same.