Breaking up because of poor *** performance ?

[ghosthunter]

[SIZE="3"]What do you think? Do you think it is a valid reason to break up with your girlfriend or boyfriend if their ***ual performance is "unsatisfactory" to you?

One of the arguements is that if both partners are happy with each other in regards to ***, they will have less reason to look for "***" outside the marriage. Example, a guy who doesn't get ***ually satisfied with his wife would eventually look for a mistress for his "***ual needs".[/SIZE]

[XTO]

Yes, let's face it. That's why there are many broken marriages and/or relationships.

[_Cathy_]

Performance can be learned. If you're not compatible physically then that could be a problem. But then again, most girls could deal with not being ***ually satisfied. I don't know with men.

[ghosthunter]

For me, I would really want my life partner to be ***ually compatible with me.

It would be difficult (for me) to go through the rest of my life ***ually unfulfilled or ***ually unsatisfied.

[ghosthunter]

Performance can be learned. If you're not compatible physically then that could be a problem. But then again, most girls could deal with not being ***ually satisfied. I don't know with men.

Not everything can be "learned". Some girls simply take so long to reach orgasm that they would require the skills of ***-pert to regularly reach "O".

Most girls could deal not being ***ually satisfied? ... maybe for virgins but those who have been introduced to the world of *** and it's pleasures, it might be a difference story. Why do you think the best selling *** toys are dildos or similar?

[_Cathy_]

Why do you think the best selling *** toys are dildos or similar?

Because there are a lot of men who lack skills???

My ***ually active friend told me that size is also important.

[ghosthunter]

Because there are a lot of men who lack skills???

My ***ually active friend told me that size is also important.

Size can be an important factor to a point. But even an average sized "joe" can be better than a bigger one simply because the owner knows how to use it well.

Skill is more important than size. Beyond that, communication between partners, especially the girl telling the guy what is pleasurable for her helps a long way.

[_Cathy_]

So many things in mind but too inappropriate to say. hehe.

[ghosthunter]

So many things in mind but too inappropriate to say. hehe.

You can PM or YM me naman eh.

[_Qwerty_]

could be a ground for annulment actually.. i have a friend... hindi sila nag *** nung mag gf/bf pa sila.. got married.. tapos he found out na hindi pala mahilig makipag *** yung wife nya.. or i dont know baka na trauma or something.. so talagang no *** sila for long time after the first baby.. kawawa yung friend ko..

[_Cathy_]

^ I think I know your friend? hehe

My friend was a virgin when she got married. It took them 3 or 4 months before they had *** only because she was told by another girl friend that it is ground for annulment. When my friend got pregnant, there was no *** until months after she gave birth.

I don't know if she is telling the truth or she is just being modest because she's the only one who is married (and have had ***) in our group.

She also told me that she does not kiss her husband down there - and I thought that was normal for married couples?!??!

[ghosthunter]

could be a ground for annulment actually.. i have a friend... hindi sila nag *** nung mag gf/bf pa sila.. got married.. tapos he found out na hindi pala mahilig makipag *** yung wife nya.. or i dont know baka na trauma or something.. so talagang no *** sila for long time after the first baby.. kawawa yung friend ko..

Hhhuuuwwhhhhaaaatttt???? They just had *** once to have the baby and no more? :poke:

That is the problem with some girls. They are so uptight about being "pure" and "proper" that they do not enjoy their ***uality even after they get married. God gave women the ability to have multiple "O"s, they should make best use of it!

[_Qwerty_]

nung honeymoon pa nadale.. palagay ko na trauma nga..

Hhhuuuwwhhhhaaaatttt???? They just had *** once to have the baby and no more? :poke:

[_Cathy_]

^Your friend was probably a virgin too and didn't know how to do it properly. Siguro the wife could just pleasure your friend in ways that it won't hurt for her???

[_Qwerty_]

i told him to go on counselling..

yan kasi hirap pag walang practice..

[_Cathy_]

They should just watch more ****.

[ghosthunter]

^Your friend was probably a virgin too and didn't know how to do it properly. Siguro the wife could just pleasure your friend in ways that it won't hurt for her???

Kaya nga dapat one of the two should have had ***ual experiences na to bring to the "bed". It is possible the guy didn't lubricate enough before the "act". It would have been painful for the girl, especially since she would be nervous about it even before the actual act. Add to that, the possible pain of breaking the hymen.

[ghosthunter]

They should just watch more ****.

**** is not enough to give virgins enough instructions WHY certain things must be done. Like why the girl should be well "pre-warmed" before placing the sausage into the "oven".

[_Cathy_]

Geez. I can't imagine how they went ahead doing it without foreplay OR maybe the guy was just too big for the girl.

[ghosthunter]

i told him to go on counselling..

yan kasi hirap pag walang practice..

Let the counselor watch and "coach" the couple how to do it "better"?